Flirting with a Capricorn male

Hi FrenchKpricorn,

How do I do it in a subtle way? Without coming on too strong, yet still showing interest?

How are you, by the way?

Hi Rumi sweetie,

I hope you are doing well, 🙂

I know, it's ridiculous at times, my shyness.

That's cute and about your mom and dad. I think when a guy blushes it's adorable.

You don't ever have to apologize to me, I'm happy you responded. 🙂

For me, Capricorn Sun, Leo Moon, Crab rising, Aquarius Venus, Virgo Mars, and Capricorn Mercury

His are, Capricorn Sun (we share the same birthday), Scorpio Moon, Libra Rising, Capricorn Venus, Leo Mars, and Sagittarius Mercury.

I don't know if any other placements are needed, but I do have them if so. 🙂

Posted by elllesque
Thank you.

I wasn't trying to be your enemy. I was only playing around with you on your left handed thread but you took it as an insult and ran with it from there.

Your thread about the cap was annoying to me because people really went out of their way to help you with the scorpio and four days later you come back asking about someone new. It felt you were pissing all over everyone's advice and acting as if we were fortune tellers that you feed fake coins to.

Truce.

Thank you to you too, Elle.

I didn't know you were just playing around with me on the left hand post, I have to admit sometimes I take things too personally.

I know that I don't know anyone personally here, but I do care about them and the advice they were so sweet to share with me. I have taken it all to heart believe me. But, I guess I'm just doing what I can to move on. I'm confused on all of it to be honest with you. It's still all sinking in. But, please know that I do appreciate and value all of the advice, including yours.

Posted by elllesque
I respect you for putting that here in public. Most people (cough *caps* cough) would have deleted the thread before apologising in public.

I won't troll you anymore.

*tips hat*

Thank you, that means a lot. I guess your apology was more important to me, than my pride. I'm going to hide that other post, it just makes me sick how disrespectful and mean I was.

🙂

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Posted by elllesque
I respect you for putting that here in public. Most people (cough *caps* cough) would have deleted the thread before apologising in public.

I won't troll you anymore.

*tips hat*

Thank you, that means a lot. I guess your apology was more important to me, than my pride. I'm going to hide that other post, it just makes me sick how disrespectful and mean I was.

🙂

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I mean your acceptance of my apology**

Posted by elllesque
I realised you didn't know I was playing after a few posts but it was too late to do anything about it. I didn't think you'd carry it on. I figured I'd give a couple days and you would have forgotten. Sometimes I forget not everyone is an aries moon 😛. I apologise for offending you in that thread. When I walked away from it, I did feel bad.

I seen your chart and I know that you probably don't hold on to a relationship that has gone south as long as I would. I suppose I probably shouldn't have taken it so personally when you walked away from the scorpio as quickly as you did. I was rooting for him. lol #watersignproblems.

yes, I tend to hold on to getting embarrassed for too long. Bad habit of mine. I wish I would have known you were playing.

Thank you for your apology too, that does mean a lot to me. I think it is a good thing, that we felt bad walking away from the posts, it shows we are good people.

I don't hold on to relationships when they've gone south, you're right 🙂 how did you know that?

I didn't want to walk away from him, I just don't know how to try to fight for something when it seems like they had made up their mind and didn't want me in their life. I can't stay where I'm not wanted, so that was like an internal battle, "what do I do?"

Also, do you know how I delete or hide a full post? I know how to hide individual posts, but not thread.

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Posted by elllesque
I realised you didn't know I was playing after a few posts but it was too late to do anything about it. I didn't think you'd carry it on. I figured I'd give a couple days and you would have forgotten. Sometimes I forget not everyone is an aries moon 😛. I apologise for offending you in that thread. When I walked away from it, I did feel bad.

I seen your chart and I know that you probably don't hold on to a relationship that has gone south as long as I would. I suppose I probably shouldn't have taken it so personally when you walked away from the scorpio as quickly as you did. I was rooting for him. lol #watersignproblems.

yes, I tend to hold on to getting embarrassed for too long. Bad habit of mine. I wish I would have known you were playing.

Thank you for your apology too, that does mean a lot to me. I think it is a good thing, that we felt bad walking away from the posts, it shows we are good people.

I don't hold on to relationships when they've gone south, you're right 🙂 how did you know that?

I didn't want to walk away from him, I just don't know how to try to fight for something when it seems like they had made up their mind and didn't want me in their life. I can't stay where I'm not wanted, so that was like an internal battle, "what do I do?"

Also, do you know how I delete or hide a full post? I know how to hide individual posts, but not thread.

aqua venus.....that's how I know. lol (that's a running joke for me on this board 😄)

yeah, I know, not a fighter. Been there. Done that. Have the t-shirt.

I think you just report the thread and it goes away if it is yours.

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Oh Ok, I will have to look more into that. Especially if it's a running joke for you on here, it's gotta be good. 😉


Seriously, you made me laugh so hard when you said to report the post and it will go away, I don't know why but that was hilarious. I will try that. Thank you for your help with that.

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Posted by elllesque
I realised you didn't know I was playing after a few posts but it was too late to do anything about it. I didn't think you'd carry it on. I figured I'd give a couple days and you would have forgotten. Sometimes I forget not everyone is an aries moon 😛. I apologise for offending you in that thread. When I walked away from it, I did feel bad.

I seen your chart and I know that you probably don't hold on to a relationship that has gone south as long as I would. I suppose I probably shouldn't have taken it so personally when you walked away from the scorpio as quickly as you did. I was rooting for him. lol #watersignproblems.

Aries moon just get into things Elle. I was rooting for them just as much.

But, alas. Sometimes things are just not meant to be.

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Thank you LadyOfRebirth,

That means a lot to me, that you were rooting for us.

Posted by elllesque
I don't really tease about the aqua venus as much as I used to when I first got here.

It was a cap with an aqua venus that landed me here 7 years ago.

he gave up too. lol

I'm sorry, I didn't know that. It was his loss, Elle.

Posted by elllesque
It was. 😄

Water under the bridge now. I learned a lot. He is the reason I got into astrology.

Maybe he was meant to come into your life, to teach those lessons and steer you towards a calling for you. I think that if it is truly done for my ex and I, that he was the one to do the same for me. I hope he was at least good to you while you were together, and that you were able to also take some very positive loving memories with you from it too. 🤗

Posted by elllesque
I don't really tease about the aqua venus as much as I used to when I first got here.

It was a cap with an aqua venus that landed me here 7 years ago.

he gave up too. lol

Oh noooooo, I have an aqua venus. What's so bad about it Elle? ...what's bad abiut it with scorpio.....

I neeeeeed to knowww please......

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I don't really tease about the aqua venus as much as I used to when I first got here.

It was a cap with an aqua venus that landed me here 7 years ago.

he gave up too. lol

Oh noooooo, I have an aqua venus. What's so bad about it Elle? ...what's bad abiut it with scorpio.....

I neeeeeed to knowww please......

I'm rooting for you too, dammit!

where is your scorp's venus?

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Good question, let me take a look....I forgot.

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I don't really tease about the aqua venus as much as I used to when I first got here.

It was a cap with an aqua venus that landed me here 7 years ago.

he gave up too. lol

Oh noooooo, I have an aqua venus. What's so bad about it Elle? ...what's bad abiut it with scorpio.....

I neeeeeed to knowww please......

I'm rooting for you too, dammit!

where is your scorp's venus?

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Sag venus

Leo mars!!!! Yeessssssssss!!!!

Posted by elllesque
sag is a mutable venus.....that should work. mine is a cardinal venus.....didn't work so well even though it's trine (libra)

Scorpios are very fixed....fixed water. Think "Still waters run deep"...but not nearly as fixed as an aqua venus. I can't hold a fire to an aqua venus when it comes to my fixed traits. It's like a block of impenetrable magnesium. lol

You guys can appear cold and detached. We never really know if you care. When we do think you care, you throw a curve ball at us...and then the silly insecurities creep in for the scorpio that can lead down a path to the demise of the relationship.

You are also notorious at sideswiping and ending relationships out of the blue.....we never see it coming. It's usually when we are finally at a point of deeply caring about you and you've reached that 'inner circle'.....we *just* let our guard down and BAM! you knock us down.

....and when you are done, that's it....there is no talking about it.

If you don't get your way.....it's the high way.

Scorpios see beyond the horizon........Aqua doesn't even know there is a horizon.

Thank you. I didn't know aqua venus' can be so cruel. I do get over relationships quite fast once I'm really done. Being a Cap doesn't help either....cold as a block of ice at times. I will be.there if they need me, just not romantically and that can put them off.

This Scorpio however is different, I really feel for him. I hope it lasts, and he wifes me up some day.
🙂

Posted by RumiLove
Cappy! ^_^
Why did you hide your OP? You shy Capricorns you 😛


In my experience...not flirting at all 😄 they can read people well..very well though.

But my mom flirted a lot with my shy dad...after marrying ofcourse. She enjoyed making him blush 😄

Sorry...I cant give any valuable input..lol. What are your placements (you and the caps?)

You are smart we do read people well and males will go after you if you want. Sometimes we are dumb and miss the signs--that was the somewhat younger me. How do you know the guy OP?

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Posted by elllesque
I do not accept apologies via pm.

If you are going to be nasty on the boards and sweet via pm, you can piss off.

I don't play that game.

Elllesque,

You pissed me off, so I had to block you for a few. But, I don't think it should have to come to that as I've only been on here for 2 weeks and I wasn't looking to make enemies.

with that said, I'm throwing my pride out the window right now, and I want to say I'm sorry for my hurtful words to you. That is not me at all, and not my nature. I am very mellow and easy going, I don't like to be mean for any reason. I actually couldn't sleep well last night because I was stressing over my behavior.

I can see that you have some insightful advice to people on here, and believe it or not you and I have things in common. So, I'm extending my hand out to you, Truce?

Marlena


Is that better?

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Total cap thing. Caps really care about how they are recieved by others, especially when we knew we messed up.

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Posted by elllesque
Thank you.

I wasn't trying to be your enemy. I was only playing around with you on your left handed thread but you took it as an insult and ran with it from there.

Your thread about the cap was annoying to me because people really went out of their way to help you with the scorpio and four days later you come back asking about someone new. It felt you were pissing all over everyone's advice and acting as if we were fortune tellers that you feed fake coins to.

Truce.

Thank you to you too, Elle.

I didn't know you were just playing around with me on the left hand post, I have to admit sometimes I take things too personally.

I know that I don't know anyone personally here, but I do care about them and the advice they were so sweet to share with me. I have taken it all to heart believe me. But, I guess I'm just doing what I can to move on. I'm confused on all of it to be honest with you. It's still all sinking in. But, please know that I do appreciate and value all of the advice, including yours.

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I have the same problem with Scorps. They practice destructive criticism a lot. Lot's of times they do it to get a reaction of people--they are just joking but Capricorns are really hard on themselves and take a lot personally.

Posted by elllesque
we can get a bit mushy and it could frighten your venus. if you need a time out....just tell him.

....and never break up with him unless you absolutely mean it. we don't do do overs....if we do, it won't be a fun ride.

I hope it works out for you. It really is one of the best pairings I've ever had. It's like being in a relationship with your best friend. 🙂

Thank you for the advice, I will definitely take it.
I don't plan on letting him go, ever.

He can get a bit too deep for me at times, it doesn't scare me, it just puts me off because it.comes out.of no where sometimes, like the other night. I sure do love it though!!

Posted by RumiLove
@Westsidekodak -- that's sad 😢 because they are so giving and devoted.

My dad tells me this sometimes



Most of the times however, yeah, he's like "what can I do.. I love her"

That's Cap love and devotion 🙂

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@Westsidekodak -- that's sad 😢 because they are so giving and devoted.

My dad tells me this sometimes



Most of the times however, yeah, he's like "what can I do.. I love her"

That's Cap love and devotion 🙂

My mom loves him too...but, she IS a pain in the ass 😢 she's an innocent heart.. My dad sees that and feels helpless â¤

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Perhaps that's also what made him fall in love with her, but now feels he has to protect her because of it...much like a father would. Being a father to a pain in the ass is hard but he has to fulfill his duty. Obviously there are traits about her that he loves he can put up with that. He loves her, simple.

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@Westsidekodak -- that's sad 😢 because they are so giving and devoted.

My dad tells me this sometimes



Most of the times however, yeah, he's like "what can I do.. I love her"

That's Cap love and devotion 🙂

My mom loves him too...but, she IS a pain in the ass 😢 she's an innocent heart.. My dad sees that and feels helpless â¤

Perhaps that's also what made him fall in love with her, but now feels he has to protect her because of it...much like a father would. Being a father to a pain in the ass is hard but he has to fulfill his duty. Obviously there are traits about her that he loves he can put up with that. He loves her, simple.

Wow, yes, it's her innocence and child-like nature 🙂

Yes ..he loves her. Love has no reason...he tells.

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And she created you. I bet he has photographed many visions in his mind of her holding you. The innocent holding the innocent.

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@Westsidekodak -- that's sad 😢 because they are so giving and devoted.

My dad tells me this sometimes



Most of the times however, yeah, he's like "what can I do.. I love her"

That's Cap love and devotion 🙂

My mom loves him too...but, she IS a pain in the ass 😢 she's an innocent heart.. My dad sees that and feels helpless â¤

Perhaps that's also what made him fall in love with her, but now feels he has to protect her because of it...much like a father would. Being a father to a pain in the ass is hard but he has to fulfill his duty. Obviously there are traits about her that he loves he can put up with that. He loves her, simple.

Wow, yes, it's her innocence and child-like nature 🙂

Yes ..he loves her. Love has no reason...he tells.

And she created you. I bet he has photographed many visions in his mind of her holding you. The innocent holding the innocent.

Oh no.. This is getting touchy.. You are telling my dad's feelings! 😢

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Aww, didn't mean to make you sad.

I am a Cap like your dad, we share similar sentiments. The fathers' of the zodiac, more so for the men of course, but the females can relate too. It is also what we want, it's just Cap can be picky but once we find the one we want to love wholeheartedly, that's it for us.

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Cappy! ^_^
Why did you hide your OP? You shy Capricorns you 😛


In my experience...not flirting at all 😄 they can read people well..very well though.

But my mom flirted a lot with my shy dad...after marrying ofcourse. She enjoyed making him blush 😄

Sorry...I cant give any valuable input..lol. What are your placements (you and the caps?)

mommas sun sign?

MOMMA 😄 momma is a Sagittarius :p

Saggy and a cappy—? AWWWWWWW I LOVE IT!

Really? Why? =D

My mom is ALL fire. I dont get it...she's a devil 😛

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Hahaha! That is what my son says about me when I'm being moody. It makes me laugh every time, and totally calms me down and I just want to attack him with hugs.

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Posted by RumiLove
Cappy! ^_^
Why did you hide your OP? You shy Capricorns you 😛


In my experience...not flirting at all 😄 they can read people well..very well though.

But my mom flirted a lot with my shy dad...after marrying ofcourse. She enjoyed making him blush 😄

Sorry...I cant give any valuable input..lol. What are your placements (you and the caps?)

You are smart we do read people well and males will go after you if you want. Sometimes we are dumb and miss the signs--that was the somewhat younger me. How do you know the guy OP?

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Hi frostey91, 🙂

We met on an online dating platform.

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Hi Rumi sweetie,

I hope you are doing well, 🙂

I know, it's ridiculous at times, my shyness.

That's cute and about your mom and dad. I think when a guy blushes it's adorable.

You don't ever have to apologize to me, I'm happy you responded. 🙂

For me, Capricorn Sun, Leo Moon, Crab rising, Aquarius Venus, Virgo Mars, and Capricorn Mercury

His are, Capricorn Sun (we share the same birthday), Scorpio Moon, Libra Rising, Capricorn Venus, Leo Mars, and Sagittarius Mercury.

I don't know if any other placements are needed, but I do have them if so. 🙂

I'm a cancer rising too =D

Caps are so cute when they are shy...around you :p

Hmm.. Capricorn Venus chase hard but keeps it real and serious. They feel awkward initially but once they are into it...they chase hard! (but then it conjuncts your sun so...you understand each other's ways easily)
IDK about Leo mars.
As a Scorpio moon myself, Ill say, if he falls in love with you, be prepared to be blown away by an obsessive lover :p
Libra rising guys are such smooth talkers. They make you feel at ease and comfortable. (it helps your Aqua Venus)
Sag mercury.. Since he us a Capricorn his speech wont be as harsh..(he can communicate well to your Leo moon)

It looks like a good synastry. 😄

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Thank you Rumi, 🙂

When I read your message, I got a good feeling. Learning these Astrology planetary placements is kind of fun and definitely an enlightening experience. He does make me feel comfortable, and he also makes me feel like I can be myself with him. We do easily understand each other, which is imperative considering that miscommunication seems to be what damaged my last relationship.

Posted by elllesque
*fidgets uncomfortably in her chair due to feels*

(I have an air venus too....lol)

wow. I know it took a lot out of you to write that. I have to say, that took me a bit off guard. I commend you for that. I'd like to flick the back of your scorpio's head for being so bullheaded and stubborn. He is oblivious to what he's walking away from.

mine didn't believe in 'the one'.....his words. however, I have him bookmarked for another lifetime so we can finish what we started, hopefully under better circumstances. 🙂

(you really put some sunshine in my day, cappy.....just so you know)

Yes, it wasn't easy to write it, but I felt like I needed to. I let all the advice sink in, and decided to do one more attempt to at least let him know my door was open for him to walk through still. You're funny, and sweet, yeah I'd like to flick the back of his head too. But, your words certainly made me feel better, and brought a smile to my face. I was needing that today, thank you for that. 🙂

I love this " I have him bookmarked for another lifetime so we can finish what we started," it sounds as if you already know that in your heart and soul that is he your Twin Flame. Yes, maybe this lifetime was for the karmic lessons, to prepare for the next to be the reunion that goes into forever and a day.

You also put some sunshine in my day too Elle, and I'll tell you I've been under a little rain cloud lately. So, thank you for that too.

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don't mind me...



lol

🤗 Elle

Posted by RumiLove
Cappy 🙂

That's very nice. For both you.. Most people, I feel, take time to understand you Capricorns. And it's a great sign you understand each other 🙂

You can make a topic on synastry interpretation here =D ..I think users here are in a mood to do chart interpretation these days. Or refer to a website(astro.com) .. 🙂

Thank you Rumi,

I might just have to start a topic about it, or at least search on here for other threads that are related.

I hope you're well. 🙂

Posted by elllesque
*fidgets uncomfortably in her chair due to feels*

(I have an air venus too....lol)

wow. I know it took a lot out of you to write that. I have to say, that took me a bit off guard. I commend you for that. I'd like to flick the back of your scorpio's head for being so bullheaded and stubborn. He is oblivious to what he's walking away from.

mine didn't believe in 'the one'.....his words. however, I have him bookmarked for another lifetime so we can finish what we started, hopefully under better circumstances. 🙂

(you really put some sunshine in my day, cappy.....just so you know)

Hi Elle, (Beautiful eyes)

Can I PM you? I want to tell you something, but just between us for now. 🙂

Posted by elllesque
Yes, but I can't respond because my reply button isn't working. I put in a request but it takes them forever to fix stuff. It worked yesterday...lol

Ok, thank you. I will see if mine is working and we can figure out the reply part as we go. 🙂