Got to love cappy boys

(Directed to all cappy boys and girls who are/have dating/dated cappy boys)

(1) How do you keep a cappy boy up and interested without being clingy?
(2) How do you give a cappy boy reassurance of your feelings but still give him the space he needs?

Thanks!
I'm pretty good at giving him the space he needs, because I too have a very busy schedule. I usually always wait for him to contact me so that way I don't appear clingy in any way, and he seems to respect me for that. I always make sure to compliment him when it is appropriate. For instance, he is a drummer and we both like to write music, so I tend to compliment him on his talents.

Now as far as the whole distance and space thing, how long is too long? If I haven't heard from him for a whole day I usually send out a text the next day (if I haven't heard anything then either). So I guess what I'm asking is should I or should I not be the one to initiate the conversation when I haven't heard from him; or should I just wait for him, and act excited to hear from him when I do?

I agree with Capgirl. She pretty much nailed it.

Send sweet texts every once in a while..let him know you are thinking of him. Thatll most likely make him smile.

Ok how bout cap girls? How do you keep them interested? This is one of the more informative threads in a long time.

@miamivirgo

Be consistent.

Also, like capgirl said, many of us love to laugh. I tend to gravitate towards those that make me lighten up. I need that energy.

If you think/know she likes you, then you are pretty much good to go from there. Continue to be you(consistent), and that'll do it.

Posted by RockinLibra
(Directed to all cappy boys and girls who are/have dating/dated cappy boys)

(1) How do you keep a cappy boy up and interested without being clingy?
(2) How do you give a cappy boy reassurance of your feelings but still give him the space he needs?

Keep him interested and reassured by...
*Keeping yourself busy with life and not worrying about why his time schedule isn't exactly what YOU think it should be.
*Talking to him about your job.
*Asking him for advice.
*Texting him without concern for reply, just something to let him know you are thinking of him.

Just a few things.

They may seem like complicated folks, but they are not.

LoL@talking about your job and asking for advice. Good ones, thats true!

It is...I was not used to someone actually listening to what my job entailed (its boring), but my cappy enjoys hearing about it and asking questions, it's cute!

For both male and female:

Keep us amused. We need someone to lighten up our seriousness so make us laugh!!!! My #1.

Keep us mentally stimulated. We like intelligent people. Don't ever play dumb, but admit if you don't know something. We like to teach, too.

We hate it, but keep us guessing! Keep us wondering what you're doing when you're not with us.

We want to feel your are secure, sucessful, respectable, liked by all.

Be genuine - we can see through bullshit.

Always answer with truth if we ask you a question.

Treat us with respect.

Don't ever, ever embarrass us in public. We will NOT tolerate that.

Be secure. We are aloof. Don't let it get to you. We will probably not tell you what we are feeling.

Don't ever push us to do anything. We will NOT be pushed. Like a goat, we're stubborn.

Be confident. That is SEXY!

Most of all, just be yourself. We want to know the real you. If you put on an act, we will see through it. We want to know how you're going to treat strangers, how you're going to treat waitstaff, how you treat your mom/dad, how you act when you're angry, how you're going to respond to disappointment, how you're going to act when your irritated and what makes you lose your patience. Basically, we want to know the core. We will wait until every possible opportunity to learn these things show themselves. We DON'T want to get to know a "fake" you. Be real. Be yourself. Some people accuse us of testing, but really, its about getting to know the "real" you like I mentioned above. It takes time and experience to get to know the real you.

So, be patient with us! I guaran-damn-tee its worth it!

Oh, and also, make sure your words match your actions.