Hate caps....

What the fuck is up with all that need for security? Why must you guys analyze the shit out of everyone and everything before deeming it worthy and discarding something as not valuable if it doesnt meet your fucken list of what perfect is? How can you be so insecure to make goals based on the physical plane where everyone can see and admire your efforts, but where it matters the least? Why cant you laugh at yourself? Why must you take yourself so seriously that cracking a joke at your own expense is unimaginable? *Done venting* Not talking about caps here in dxp, caps in RL are pissing me off.....

Posted by Lucriu
What the fuck is up with all that need for security? Why must you guys analyze the shit out of everyone and everything before deeming it worthy and discarding something as not valuable if it doesnt meet your fucken list of what perfect is? How can you be so insecure to make goals based on the physical plane where everyone can see and admire your efforts, but where it matters the least? Why cant you laugh at yourself? Why must you take yourself so seriously that cracking a joke at your own expense is unimaginable? *Done venting* Not talking about caps here in dxp, caps in RL are pissing me off.....

I can make a joke out of myself. Actually, I laugh at myself all the time, even point out things I did that were stupid because I thought it was funny. We have that self deprecating humor.

BUT, we are sensitive when other people do it. I'm not when it's somebody I know that loves me, but other people, I don't know quite how to take it. Are they making fun of me to be mean? Are they looking down on me?

For some reason, I don't like being the victim of a practical joke. I don't know how to react. Perhaps its an insecurity thing? Or a "I don't feel good enough" thing?

However, I try like hell to let them know it bothers me because I'm damned and determined to keep that fact hidden.

So, Luc, what constituted the desire for this question?

Cant, I cant criticize virgos in their own thread unless I've atleast posted something constructive. And I hate virgos so much that I'll never post anything comstructive there...

"However, I try like hell to let them know it bothers me because I'm damned and determined to keep that fact hidden. "

I meant I try NOT to let them know.

Only venting true cap, just questions i'm asking myself. Full of hate lately..

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Lucriu
And I hate virgos so much ...

Stop making me moist. I just took a shower.

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NEVER 0.0

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Lucriu
Only venting true cap, just questions i'm asking myself. Full of hate lately..

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering"

Not worth it. If you don't like those traits in you than remove them, but to internalize other's perceived weakness, not a good idea, life is too short.

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You're sexy when you make sense... Keep talking like that =P

What the treetrunk is up with all that need for security? Why must you guys analyze the butter out of everyone and everything before deeming it worthy and discarding something as not valuable if it doesnt meet your treetrunken list of what perfect is? How can you be so insecure to make goals based on the physical plane where everyone can see and admire your efforts, but where it matters the least? Why cant you laugh at yourself? Why must you take yourself so seriously that cracking a joke at your own expense is unimaginable? *Done venting* Not talking about caps here in dxp, caps in RL are pissing me off.....

Why you ask? Well pretty simple coz We are caps and that is what caps do? I might I add not all caps are like this and it might just be your perception of us that really needs adjusting.

Answer to questions-
-we need security to feel better to know that what we work for is going to happen and by God it will happen coz we said it will happen. Waste of time being with people who do not hold this view. We bring practical matters into the world and it happens because of us. If people do not hold this view then we are wasting their time and our time by useless trival banter that majority of people are about, sounds superfical but it isnt when you as deep as us. Although that useless trival banter is fun at times its not what we strive to bring out into the world.

-we like to analyse things coz we know what is worthy and valuable to bring it out into the world. Anything else is a waste of time unless it is to take time off and get away from it all. we don't want to waste time with others who are not like this and seem to know who the time wasters are and who aren't serious about such matters. If you going to waste our time and we have more important things to do with time instead of listening to superfical bullshit such as what you go on with then we will tell you and leave you and you will be wondering why when we were 'such good friends' etcetc basically because we don't put up with people who waste our their own time and everybody elses.

-Goals help to bring out what we work for. We achieve what we work for through use of goals its the only way to get what we want. How that is insecurity I do not understand.

-we can not laugh at ourselves coz if we did laugh at ourselves and took everything as a joke nothing would get or ever be achieved and the world needs us caps to bring about happenings. No other sign can do this except for us caps. Not to say we don't laugh at ourselves we do but never in front of people unless we have that rebellious streak running through us and have those days in which just makes us laugh at everything and not only that what we caps deem funny isn't funny to others at all. Which is quite funny coz we get accused of not having a laugh at ourselves and not funny at all. This is amusing to say the least.

-we take ourselves very seriously and cracking a joke at our expense is unimaginable because it is not on our goal list or to do list to achieve or to bring about. Usually we are serious about more important things like making sure other people are ok instead of ourselves that it is difficult to even imagine cracking a joke at our expense. It is just plain selfishness to make joke at expense of oneself instead of making sure others are ok unless it is on our to do list or goal to achieve then it will be done. If it is not our work to crack a joke at our expense and then coz we do take ourselves seriously it will not get done.

I'd exclude my stalker if I could but for some reason it just keeps coming back for more even though I keep telling him to go awauy and that there is no future for him and I and us and all. Does not listen and funnily enough seem to find it really fucking funny though other people may not. Need a sense of humour to deal and begin a cap this allows the sort of way to get through it all. Its funny to but not to others as they don't have the same humour as to deal and then coz they jealous remark about how us caps are unable to have humour at all. Which obvious is untrue coz without humour not here would we be. Gets boring when this continuely happens and others accuse caps of not having humour? Huh!! They need to perceive different and instead of one view have many. Makes the world merry indeed. Yeh also need to have many views which caps have to bring about happenings and matters and such stuffs. its like having a virtual kaleoscope in ones head all the time and listening to all channels all the time and then having to listen a one view for a many it not very good for us caps. we need broadmindedness not one sidedness

So yeh I hate us caps too only coz I hate being a cap coz it comes down to us to bring about happenings and without us you would all be ducked but I love being a cap because of this. Its a fact get used to it. Its not us caps thinking we are superior and being made out to think that way coz it aint like that at all. It just the way it is. Like the other starsigns they all have their own thing that they can only do that no other starsign can do and thats why I get pissed off with idiots who judges caps or vent when they have no idea of what they are talking about and they better leave alone if they know whats best for them coz if they do not they will die. And no this is not a threat it is just the way things out there and up there work and because us caps do actually care for others wellbeing moreso than there own they prefer to make others understand that when you disrespect a cap it brings bad unto them that they had wish not happen. So if they want good things to happen to themselves then be good to us caps, if you want bad things to happen to themselves then bad things will happen coz you disrespect us and diss us and hurt us and coz you keep doing what you keep doing.

I said broadmindedness will work not openmindedness though having an open mind will help it will not give you broadness of mind.

Posted by mfwb55
-we like to analyse things coz we know what is worthy and valuable to bring it out into the world. Anything else is a waste of time unless it is to take time off and get away from it all. we don't want to waste time with others who are not like this and seem to know who the time wasters are and who aren't serious about such matters. If you going to waste our time and we have more important things to do with time instead of listening to superfical bullshit such as what you go on with then we will tell you and leave you and you will be wondering why when we were 'such good friends' etcetc basically because we don't put up with people who waste our their own time and everybody elses.

+10000

Posted by Perspicacity
I have a weak spot for Caps. Always have. I don't know why, but I do. I find most of them to be totally irresistible. Do I need to see a doctor? 😛

Let me cure what ails ya 😉

Calm down.

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Posted by Perspicacity
I have a weak spot for Caps. Always have. I don't know why, but I do. I find most of them to be totally irresistible. Do I need to see a doctor? 😛

Let me cure what ails ya 😉

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well astrologers say that it's your venus/moon for a man which is attracted or who is attracted to.

Its just how we are. Call me crazy, but if anything, I think we need to push for more self acceptance.

Call a Capricorm crazy, but I dont think Caps have lists of regrets. We are by far not perfect, nor do we look for perfection, but we do whats true to US and no one else, which is a good thing.

As far as perfection, its not what we look for. We just know what we can and cannot do. We can be highly irritated by nearly everything, because we are highly sensitive. Id rather push someone away than keep them around and constantly nitpick, and I think we just try to find our closest compatiblity.

WHO IS THIS LUC CUNT BLING BUGGER HER

Don't know. Even though I'm a perfectionist I can still accept when I've screwed up and have humor about it. Even if someone else laughs, it stings a little but it's still funny. If they dive a little too deep into insult I just confront them about it. Sounds like those people just have confidence issues of their own.

As for security, I'm not a perfectionist when it comes to other people. So I can't explain that one for you. I will say that if I'm looking for someone to live my life with, I'm preferring someone who is my absolute equal or someone who can balance me out. Why? I'd hate to be in a relationship with someone years down the line who I absolutely hate or are indifferent to. Already been there and done that, it's unfair for both parties. I've never thrown anyone "out" though just because they weren't "good enough". That sounds very superficial.

I'm sorry to hear you have to deal with some twats in RL luc. Tell em to grow a pair and deal with their lives like every other matured human being. Or ignore them.

Love Cappies even when they're trying to be assholes. Never have I met one that I didn't like straight away, female or male. Never dissapoint. Ooze respect. No BS. Very elegant personalities.

she loves cap ass holes there is hope for us bling.

So, you pretty much hate yourself man? Dude don't hate anyone. We are what we are, and we should at least accept it. And besides, as they say it depends on the other planets. I'm not as perfectionist as most.

I HATE CAPS
CAPS HATE ME
IM AS HAPPY AS CAN BE
WITH ATICK TACK PADDY WACK
GIVE THE DOG A BONE
I WISH THAT CAP WAS HUMPING ME

Need for security - I need that money to make my dreams come true. Last time I looked at my bucket list, everything cost money. Also, the fact that I have tons of money in bank account allows me to sleep well at night and be ready for worst case scenario. Shit happens and I want to be there for my family and good friends.

Analyzing others - I don't want to be used by others, so I analyze them before I can trust them. I am tired of people wanting to squeeze crap out of me or benefit from me. I don't have a problem with helping others but I hate being used.

Laugh at myself - I do this all the time with coworkers, family and friends. The whole aging in reverse thing is true because I do notice I am becoming more chilled as I grow older.

The OP basically sounds like you're asking why someone else has a different personality than you. Just because you don't like certain Cap traits doesn't mean those traits need to be justified or something. Unless the Caps you're mentioning actually did something seriously wrong to you then I don't know why you even "hate" them in the first place.

Maybe instead of ranting you should actually confront one of those Caps you have a problem with and try to reach an understanding.