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Define romance.
(Please dont define it... I'm merely illustrating a point)
Do you mean the other signs were debating whether Caps are romantic or if they are romantic?
Posted by TigerCap
Do you mean the other signs were debating whether Caps are romantic or if they are romantic?
Sorry. what I meant was that other Signs' Forums were or have been discussing their signs' fondness for or use of romance or romantic gestures. Is Capricorn a sign that is romantic, likes romance or likes to be romantic?
I hope I cleared it up
Big flowery words and over the top gestures would make me uncomfortable. I like flowers and letters, a home cooked candlelight dinner, things like that. I also like little inexpensive gifts that you bought just because it made you think of me and you bought it because you thought I'd like it and if it has to do with a private joke, thats even more special.
Mostly, I really like and notice the small and subtle things too, like giving up your comfy seat for me, or opening the door for me, holding out your hand and helping me out of my seat, making me a cup of coffee just the way I like it, remembering things I said...and the list goes on.
I try to do these things for my guy, too.
I'm very romantic, love all mushy stuff. If someone felt that I was unromantic, it'll be because they were unable to evoke those feelings or they weren't special enough for me. That side of me is for very special person, someone who has proven his worth.
Not really imho.
My Cap friend tells me about how he'll sometimes cater to his wife, and will rub her feet when she gets home...or do random sweet things, but the way he says it sounds soooo unromantic.
I personally think sometimes we can have a tendancy to be sweet or do sweet things, but just because, without putting a lot of thought or feeling behind it....................or is it just me??
Posted by M
In our own earthy way. We "show" more than we "tell" in the things we do and the things we say. Caps care, and be ridiculously loving. You earn us, and we'd like to be earned by you.On the receiving end it's a little different, because there's an aversion to putting everything we feel on display. That said, we do let those special people know just what it meant or how we're feeling.
We pay attention to the people we care about too, which works both ways. Makes us good at assessing the thoughtfulness or significance in things done for us.
I see this in me. It must be the earth in us.
the cap guy i had was one of the most romantic in my list. Very thoughtful we have the same style in terms of giving gifts and writing love letters.
We think we are very romantic because we have all these romantic thoughts, but we don't do it often enough to show we can be romantic. Or it's just me?
Are Capricorns Romantic?
Look closely, you money-grubbying little whores...
...and you just might fall in love!
Posted by libra08
the cap guy i had was one of the most romantic in my list. Very thoughtful we have the same style in terms of giving gifts and writing love letters.
Dir Libra08,
Doo yo have lots and lots of monee? I herd that yoo do and I thinck you are the most wunderful persun in the entir univrs ever ever.
Love,
Capricorn
PS.... Can I controll you and your monee too? Thank you!
Posted by SirB2
My Pisces GF draws it out very well and she responds to it very well too. It makes me feel very human; makes me feel very Earthy yet very Watery at the same time.
I think you touched on to something here worth examining.
I think a lot of how romantic we are is how our partners respond to our gestures.
For instance, a woman that loves and appreciates romantic gestures lights up with pleasure and she tells you she appreciates it and you can read in her eyes how happy it makes her when you do something for her, it encourages a man to do more so her so he can see that look and witness her happiness again.
If a woman doesn't respond in a way that makes the man feel good about what he did, he will stop doing romantic things for her.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Are Capricorns Romantic?Look closely, you money-grubbying little whores...
...and you just might fall in love!
Looks like a snake or la piovra. Meh.
I think you touched on to something here worth examining.
I think a lot of how romantic we are is how our partners respond to our gestures.
For instance, a woman that loves and appreciates romantic gestures lights up with pleasure and she tells you she appreciates it and you can read in her eyes how happy it makes her when you do something for her, it encourages a man to do more so her so he can see that look and witness her happiness again.
If a woman doesn't respond in a way that makes the man feel good about what he did, he will stop doing romantic things for her.
Yes I agree with this. if the person your with will not respond the way you expect when making a romantic gesture, at least in my case, I tend to think I did something wrong.
The recipient should think of this and if they really like the person giving make sure they tell them 'Carnations make me sneeze.'
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There's been a lot of debate in other signs' threads on this topic but I don't remember seeing anything in here. So Cappy's what are your thoughts on Romance and Romantic gestures?