Hello Caps! I am a Libra Sun (I know, I know) in love with a Cap Sun and needing advice.

Hi everyone,

I've been in a wishy-washy flirty friendship with a Capricorn Sun for about a year and a half now. There have been times when I was certain that she wanted more but other times it has seemed like she's completely isolated from me. Since she moved away, I have visited her twice and we have been in decently close contact via text message, although I am usually the one to initiate. Ideally I would like for us to move past this weird friendship we have now into something a little more intimate, but I am very unsure of where she stands -- I understand that this is common with Capricorn Suns, and lately I have been looking into the compatibility of our Sun signs and it has me sort of insecure about it. Being that I am a Libra Sun, we are not very compatible in that aspect, but I have recently found my other alignments and I was wondering if any of you seasoned readers could give me some more insight into why a Libra Sun like myself would be so hopelessly enamored with a Cap Sun, and whether you think there's any hope. Thanks so much.

Here are my alignments:

Libra Sun

Pisces Moon

Libra Mercury

Virgo Venus

Scorpio Mars

Libra Jupiter

Aquarius Saturn

Capricorn Uranus

Capricorn Neptune

Scorpio Pluto

Aries Lilith

Sagittarius Asc Node

Pisces Ascendant

Unfortunately, I do not know her alignments aside from her Sun sign, but if there's any other information that would be helpful, please let me know. I look forward to hearing from all of you as I find this very fascinating.

your Capricorn Neptune trining the virgo venus could definitely do it.

and you have prominent water, which also enjoys gravitating to the earth sun.

what are his placements?

Posted by lisabethur8
your Capricorn Neptune trining the virgo venus could definitely do it.

and you have prominent water, which also enjoys gravitating to the earth sun.

what are his placements?

I'm not sure what her placements are, unfortunately. I've spent the better part of the last few days anguishing over the fact that our Suns are totally incompatible, so I'm glad to hear that there's some sense to be made for my complete infatuation.

Posted by wefoundwonderland

Posted by lisabethur8
your Capricorn Neptune trining the virgo venus could definitely do it.

and you have prominent water, which also enjoys gravitating to the earth sun.

what are his placements?

I'm not sure what her placements are, unfortunately. I've spent the better part of the last few days anguishing over the fact that our Suns are totally incompatible, so I'm glad to hear that there's some sense to be made for my complete infatuation.

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oh when you first get into astrology it will confuse you but you keep reading and go to sites like cafeastrology and you'll find more info.

but one big thing about Capricorn sun women, they like confidence in a man.

your shyness might put her off, but it depends also on her other placements you know? it's just in my personal experience Capricorn women love confident men.

and confidence as in, self assured, you don't have to "prove" anything to pretend you are all self assured, it just comes natural.

otherwise she wont take you seriously at all. (just food for thought)

and that's just ONE step.....there's a lot. Cap women have an uncanny ability to find the most responsible man.

if she takes an interest in you then she has assessed you as very responsible. but it's still not enough.

edit - you anguished over just sun signs??

😕

already you lack confidence.

i hope you try to get her chart, she might like a very shy guy.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by wefoundwonderland

Posted by lisabethur8
your Capricorn Neptune trining the virgo venus could definitely do it.

and you have prominent water, which also enjoys gravitating to the earth sun.

what are his placements?

I'm not sure what her placements are, unfortunately. I've spent the better part of the last few days anguishing over the fact that our Suns are totally incompatible, so I'm glad to hear that there's some sense to be made for my complete infatuation.

oh when you first get into astrology it will confuse you but you keep reading and go to sites like cafeastrology and you'll find more info.

but one big thing about Capricorn sun women, they like confidence in a man.

your shyness might put her off, but it depends also on her other placements you know? it's just in my personal experience Capricorn women love confident men.

and confidence as in, self assured, you don't have to "prove" anything to pretend you are all self assured, it just comes natural.

otherwise she wont take you seriously at all. (just food for thought)

and that's just ONE step.....there's a lot. Cap women have an uncanny ability to find the most responsible man.

if she takes an interest in you then she has assessed you as very responsible. but it's still not enough.

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I suppose there'd be a requirement for confidence in a Libra woman just the same, right? I'm normally very confident but I feel so off-kilter around her. Even when she gives me compliments on my physicality or intelligence, I find myself doubting whether or not there's an attraction there. Is this feeling of uncertainty normal when pursuing Capricorns? It's been a year and a half of confusion for me.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by wefoundwonderland

Posted by lisabethur8
your Capricorn Neptune trining the virgo venus could definitely do it.

and you have prominent water, which also enjoys gravitating to the earth sun.

what are his placements?

I'm not sure what her placements are, unfortunately. I've spent the better part of the last few days anguishing over the fact that our Suns are totally incompatible, so I'm glad to hear that there's some sense to be made for my complete infatuation.

oh when you first get into astrology it will confuse you but you keep reading and go to sites like cafeastrology and you'll find more info.

but one big thing about Capricorn sun women, they like confidence in a man.

your shyness might put her off, but it depends also on her other placements you know? it's just in my personal experience Capricorn women love confident men.

and confidence as in, self assured, you don't have to "prove" anything to pretend you are all self assured, it just comes natural.

otherwise she wont take you seriously at all. (just food for thought)

and that's just ONE step.....there's a lot. Cap women have an uncanny ability to find the most responsible man.

if she takes an interest in you then she has assessed you as very responsible. but it's still not enough.

edit - you anguished over just sun signs??

😕

already you lack confidence.

i hope you try to get her chart, she might like a very shy guy.

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Hard not to anguish when almost everyone's experiences with a Libra Sun/Cap Sun relationship were very bad! Lol.

well you do have virgo venus, that is a SHY placement for men.

but you have Scorpio mars, you may have been stalking her for awhile. lol

Posted by lisabethur8
well you do have virgo venus, that is a SHY placement for men.

but you have Scorpio mars, you may have been stalking her for awhile. lol

I'm a lady also...lol. I should have maybe mentioned that in my original post. Is Virgo Venus a shy placement for women?

Stalking?? Oh goodness...so there's a chance I've been totally misreading this whole thing from the start?

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Posted by lisabethur8
well you do have virgo venus, that is a SHY placement for men.

but you have Scorpio mars, you may have been stalking her for awhile. lol

I'm a lady also...lol. I should have maybe mentioned that in my original post. Is Virgo Venus a shy placement for women?

Stalking?? Oh goodness...so there's a chance I've been totally misreading this whole thing from the start?

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lol oh ok,



you know, it's very very different with all women, of sun sign/moon/ venus.

i mean you have Catherine Zeta Jones, who have the same sun/moon and venus as you,

and i get some feelings that she's a bit shy,



then there's also, Kim Kardashian, who have the same placements but she's more "out there".

your scorpio mars generally speaking really loves a deeply brooding, kind of powerful guy. (he has power in his own way in the world)

it'd be nice if you got his bday and made a chart so we can see too what /where his energies lie.

also if you feel /get that intuition that he likes you back.

edit - ops i mean HER energies. lol

Posted by lisabethur8
it'd be nice if you got his bday and made a chart so we can see too what /where his energies lie.

also if you feel /get that intuition that he likes you back.

edit - ops i mean HER energies. lol

I only know her birth day and year, not location or time. Would that be enough for more information?

Posted by wefoundwonderland

Posted by lisabethur8
it'd be nice if you got his bday and made a chart so we can see too what /where his energies lie.

also if you feel /get that intuition that he likes you back.

edit - ops i mean HER energies. lol

I only know her birth day and year, not location or time. Would that be enough for more information?

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that's good enough for now. yup! try that.

btw, it's really really hard for me to understand the female/female dynamic.

I'm heterosexual so, hopefully someone here can help you with this type of dynamic.

Posted by champranger
Is this Cap lady into female OP? You might want to find that out first, imo.

Yes, definitely.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
How far is away? We can be fairly outta sight outta mind and not being able to physically see you may keep her from seeing out the flirtation. Or not. I've done distance before, but blame my Aqua Venus. Depending on her other placements, she's probably more practical.

Nearly two hours away...nothing too drastic. I would guess based off of her other actions and decisions that practicality is very important to her, so I see your point in that.

I feel your pain OP the connection is almost painful beautiful yet out of reach.