Help Me Figure Out if Cappy Man is Interested :-)

Chill out girl! Get your life more in order. Get your divorce finalized and take it sssslllllooowww. He's obviously keeping the lines of comminications open. Let it flow. What's the rush? You haven't even him face to face?

Meet up and let it just happen. Don't force it. Cappy's like to take their time.

In the meantime enjoy the fact that you have a friend who you can talk to. Don't ruin that by rushing or pushing things.

yeah, definitely cool it. ur head will be much clearer when everything is finalized and when ur health has improved. meditate on these things and get in touch with urself. from what i gather u have been enshrouded in a cloud of chaos for some time and he is the one of the few constants in ur life at the moment. i think ur latching onto him for that sense of stability. just be thankful for that but straighten things out with u first. i really do think he is just being nice and very considerate. one thing i know about caps (men anyway) is that they're attracted to success and stability as well. he'll be there for u during this time but i seriously doubt he will want a romantic relationship with u right now. he may sense that there could be something, and admires u for ur strength to withstand the mess ur in, but wouldn't wanna get involved just yet. so, yeah, slow is the key word here and be friends.

I agree with taking it slow. Caps can be really flirtatious people, and show a lot of interest, but in the long run they like to take it easy and test the waters so to speak. I think on some levels, he is definitely interested, I know that I only take the time to comment or write e-mails to people that I genuinely want to be involved with in one way or another. But for your own sake, I would take it slow.

hak,

He may have a wife or a girlfriend. Have you ever asked him if he's in a serious relationship with anyone? I also thought that a Capricorn I was flirting with was single because he flirted back and never mentioned any wife, he even asked me out for dinner. Then, I asked and he told me he's married with kids. I'm not a mind reader and I suspect that you aren't one too. ASK him! There's a lot you may not know about him. And it's OK for you to ask a man to coffee first, but I wouldn't push him. He knows you would love to go because you already asked, so don't remind him over and over. If he doesn't follow up on his promises, he's not interested and just said "if would be fun" to be polite. Don't call him until you know he's single. And if you do call, don't be all like "So, when are we going to have coffee together or did you forget?" He'd feel pressured. Just talk to him. Ask him how his day's going and what he's been up to. They do, love compliments but you must mean the compliments you throw. Like don't tell him that you love his eyes if don't really like them. Also, thank him for being supportive to you. And give it time, I think he'll make it obvious to you when he likes you.