help w/a capricorn

we were seeing each other. he was hot for me. told me he wanted to do this that and the other. we messed around. now he doesnt talk to me about anything. not even baseball . is deliberately acting cold. im a libra. any thoughts. im pist. i dont like being dissed. i dont mind getting dumped but i hate rude inconsistency

funny...i'm a cap going through the same thing with a scorpio. i can relate to the feeling. i read a few postings about caps and scorps. pretty accurate. i miss him so much. help.
as for caps, i can tell you when we are hurt in some way, we close up, because the pain is sometimes too much to bear. really. maybe you said something, or did something, that you don't know, that really hurt him. the one way to open up a cap is to make them laugh. try it, you'll see.

thanks. that makes sense. i told him i have a boyfriend. that would do it, wouldnt it.

capricorns still are frustrating. libras like to have fun and caps are sooo serious.

Capricorns can not be hurt, she lies to you, we are beyound pain. We are evil at its worst. We make old women and baby's cry. I am so evil that I endorse Tonys Iraq policy. I can make Morgan cry and Gwen when I want to. GRRRRRRRR

capricorns not only feel pain, but they can also put up walls so thick that some painful things, as you state, just do not touch them. obviously, your walls have not been penetrated yet. oh, but when they are, you will get down on your knees and beg for mercy, just like the rest of us.

We would rather get up every morning and go to hell, rather than beg for mercy, We do expect mercy nor do we give mercy. I beleive that when I has pains, I do not have to be one. Mercy me I have to go.

Lola, Caps and Libras just aren't compatible when it comes to intimate relationships--anything else, probabaly okay.

Look for an Aquarius, Gemini, Saggie, Leo or other Libra..

Stay away from Cancers, Pisces, Caps and Scorps.

PS---I'm a Libra too so I know--I've had experience!

Hey what about an Aries...I feel left out...why do we usually get left out here—? Nobody desires us 😢

Mercy mercy me.....
What's goin on?

I get along very well with Aries--a very close freind is one. Libra and Aries are "opposites" and you're suppose to get on great with your opposites.

Sloan~
I adore Libras...my guy pal walking in the park buddie is a Libra and we can talk and talk and walk and walk and then get lunch and talk and talk....he is so nice and a very gentle soul. A very good listener too I might add 🙂

I adore them too Freebird.

what sign are you freebird.

i agree w/james. this capricorn is just plain old mean to me and does reduce me to tears. it hurts that someone can be so cold...so i'm just gonna have to forget that anything ever happened between us. i was with him last week..and now the cold shoulder.

sloane...you wrote about the signs that are compatible w/libra. i find geminis nasty little buggers. i find leos and sag great for a time in the sack or when you need your ego boosted....and i find libra men to be too self centered to care for me. i dont know who i am compatible with. i met an aquarious who i was very cool (no drama/no pain!) w/but he's going through a divorce. as for scorpios....nasty selfish bastards....spent 7 years w/one and 3 w/another .....as for cancer...i think they're nasty selfish bastards too. unfortunately i am in love w/one right now and am getting jealous as hell because someone at his job is trying to take him from me. he's totally oblivious to it. cancers are always taken advantage of by users and never trust those who truly love them.

Hi Lola~

I am an Aries....not the "normal" hot tempered ones because I have a Cappy moon. I am getting better but I so used to hide my emotions to keep them safe. I decided, heck with it...I'm gonna live life with no expectations and enjoy each ride that I am on...IF I don't like the ride and it makes me queezy then I JUMP off and get on another one! Gosh it's great to live in a giant toy store!

Sounds to me like you have been on many rides yourself. Please find it in your heart to not judge the signs by a person you were with you "juked" you. There are surprises out there but you must be open to them or they will not come your way.

I see some coming.......😉

Lola---
I think you are right on the money with those observations!! I was nodding my head as I read about your experiences because I have experienced those same type of personalities--and yes, Scorps and Libra don't mesh in terms of romance--there are problems--much to the dismay of a Libra but in business or friendship it should work.

Freebird does have a point though--but I think only up to a point!

I didn't know that about Cancers--that they get taken advantage of. I sort of have a love/hate relationship with Cancers--I'm 50/50 with them. Especially the men.

Capricorn the sign for the time, I stand alone I am a rock I need no one except Den and whisky, Well some of me mates is nice to have about. but becides I stand alone.

I think to some extent we all stand alone. We entered into this world alone and we will leave alone. I think I am going to become my very own Best Friend!

lola you are on the mark.. Sloane I have to agree with you guys this time. I do have a very good scorp friend..won't trade him, but as lovers, 'twould be difficult. Geminis, I thought would work, but most of them annoy me immensely- (with the exception of you Lazlow 😉). Aquarians and I have trouble sometimes, because we simply cannot agree. sags are 50/50. inspirational but they can really work a nerve, if you let 'em. Leos, when you stroke them right, are wonderful, aries are inspirational so far but tricky, taurus are warm, but can be deceptive, libras, if you find the right ones, may treat you right, cancers are clingy, caps are great comforters, but can be mildly irritating.. pisces are sweet, but not for libras. In the end, who are we compatible with? Our own standards are set so very high, that even the perfect guy has no chance of satisfying us. Idealism sucks.

Sorry about that everyone..it was a terrible but truthful day, I guess.
Now I shall prepare for the backlashing..

I'm a Scorpio with a Capricorn. He's great in everyway except for somethings:
he's always very angry with other people but with me he's sweet as honey but when things bother him he explode/yells about others me. Like other drivers that dont know how to drive, how his friends say this and that and so stupid, like what does that have to do with me?
Also my cap man does focus in his own when I call him. Gives me all sorts of excuses like I had my phone ringer off, I was asleep, I was just chillin. But yet when hehe calls me he text and calls me to know end. Is this just a man thing or a cap thing?
Like it will be like weeks of attention everyday for 3 week calling coming over wanting to go o ut, then ill only hear from him once a week. How do you have the patience to wait for someone on someone else's terms and when he wants to spend time with you?
And the last thing, if he's got some medical issue/dental/vision, like a toothache or lost his glasses and needs to get a new vision test to get new glasses, he'll avoid going. Instead of going to make a appt he says he's too busy and then when i say ill make the appt for him, he says he wont go. Why can't he see that he needs to take care of his problems to be healthy so that he stays healthy?? I understand bullheaded and stubborn becuase as a scorp I am that as well, but not when it comes to my own health??
thanks for listening and please give your two cents.

You need to be mean biatch and tough as old boots to have a relationship with a Cap..bring them downnnnnnnnnnnnnnn..that self-brick wall is a facade..break it down and they are pussycats!

Missmorals,

I sooo agree with you. I stand up to my Caps, I've called my Cap every name in the book and that idiot keeps comin' back for more HA! The more you act like you don't care, the more they will love you. The newer one is testing my patience and it's about time to set him *ss straight!

I've gotten so use to the disappearing acts that it don't even phase me anymore. I do my thing and give them to the space to do there's. But catch me when I'm PMSin, I will rip you a new *sshole if you cross me HA! You think Caps have nasty mouths, yeah right try a Taurus. Once we say it, we don't take it back. And my Cap men know I don't play. I had to call my Cap a (female dog) yesterday and I meant it!! Ahhhh! feels so liberating LOL!!!

Stand up to those knuckleheads!!

Lol @ Taurusbabe..A girl after my own heart!..I tell it how it is...And as for my cappie friend..treating him mean, keeping him keen 😉. And thats how it should be done..A rule of thumb is that!

I don't call anyone, I don't feel the need to..I don't chase either..NEVER..if they are worth keeping, they will stick around..and they get used to it..

You taurus chicks rock!..soooooo similar to us Scorpions..I feel like a bra burning session coming on..lol

thanks. i am giving him space. i am wrapped up in my own life today and when i dont think about him so much, its ok. he finally text me back. so im cool and havent even felt the urge to text him back yet. I have to realize he likes his space as much as I do and as much as he says he loves us becuase im just as complex as he is and i give it back to him as much crap as he gives me. I just dont want to lose him an di was just freakin out for nothing. The passion in me. trying to control things where they just dont need to be controlled. Thanks for all the advice.

Taurus rocks too. I dated a taurus and it was great since we think alot alike. we'd be up for hours and hours just talking never fought and that's a first for me. There just wasnt any passion for me in the bedroom and I wasnt attracted to him as much as he was with me.

Well he finally called and I had a long talk with my cap and everything is so great now. I explained to him how it makes me feel that he doesnt call me for a day or two because I either worry that he doesnt care about me, doesnt return my phone call/text or what not, and that he's alive and safe. I also told him what is important to me to in a relationship for trust, reliability, support of being there. I asked him if even if he feels like he needs to disappear if he can just call me or text me on a daily basis even its its like im alive, thinking of you or im busy but wanted to know that im here. He said that alot of people have asked him to do that like his friends (buddies), family (mom), etc etc and he's never done that before. I just explained to him that I can understand that. I do the same things I dont contact my family and friends on a daily basis, but now that we are in a relationship that I need to feel secure in it between you and I. That yes I love my family but I still need my space but with you, I'm in love iwth you as you are with me and its not for me to control you. Its just a way to settle my mind because I'm a worrier and it makes me feel good to know that you dont ignore me (or my calls/text), you and I are ok, and most of all that you are safe (becuase if i dont see you for a week/or hear from you for a few days, how am I suppose to know that something didnt happen to you? and if I dont hear from you on a daily basis then it freaks me out and/or makes me feel like I dont matter or makes my head think a million things a minute.
He said you really know how to make me smile huh? I said huh? and he said I'm in a bad mood its a monday and he's so busy, but he said I am very sweet and that nobody has cared about him in this way and explains it the way I did. I told him that I'm a control freak of my life, but I'm not here to control him or anyone elses. But to hear his voice to know that he's ok even if he doestn want to talk to me, he can just text "I'm alive and well or im busy and cant talk but am thinking of you or something to know your are ok" or even if we talk for 2 seconds just to say hi and miss you and got to run, then that's enough for me. I said that builds up my trust, the respect, the accountability, the support knowing you are there for me and makes me feel more positive about us. That that is just as important as being "exclusive" to each other in this relationship". So he finally said that that's very true and that i couldnt make him do anything he wouldnt want to do and this is a small request and that he would call or text me everyday even if he needs his space just to ease my mind.
Then we talked about religion and politics and life in general and no matter if we agreed or disagree we can talk and not argue. its a beautiful relationship!!
It made me so happy becuase this is the really only issue I have with him. I just wanted to share and update my progress. So I'm sorry if this is so long. Thanks for all the advice. I'm not going to stress out about us anymore. I feel content now and not on emotional overdrive.