i dont get you caps!

ok...its this one cap. shes a good friend of mine that keeps pushing me away all the time because i 'annoy' her. she doesnt seem to like to get too into things i.e jumping at gigs, being under pressure, doing extreme stuff, etc

i know this annoys a lot of our other friends, so what can i do to slightly push her to get into this stuff. i know she wants too deep down but she always excuses it with her weight or her mum.

what should i do ?? it isnt a major issue but it bugs me.

me: scorpio
her: capricorn

make PLANS we love PLANS...we like to see the road ahead of us...spontaneity really annoys me too.

no.

she just doesnt want to have fun.

:/

I say suggest the idea, but don't MAKE her do it. We don't like to be told what to do even if we want to do it.

i dont get you caps!

Don't worry, not alot of people do 🙂

AMAN cappysweetie, most people don't and we don't give a big rats ass if they do.

We are not for all to "get us"!!

I have noticed virgos can get us most, followed by leos. Little delayed chance for scorps 😉 and no chance for pisces manipulators!!!

Try gatherings with just a few people maybe 4 or 5. Remember she probably cherishes her "me" time. Try activities that enlighten and add to her personal growth.

Everything you need to know about a capricorn is right here.

LOL 4yr old post.... none the less.

Caps like plans, YES. Like crowds, NO. Like to be with ourselves, YES. Want all the hoopla of going out, NO. To the OP (who is no longer with us, but for those whom this might benefit), it's not that she doesn't want to have fun, she has a different perspective of what fun is (i.e., what is interesting and mentally stimulating)!

"she doesnt seem to like to get too into things i.e jumping at gigs, being under pressure, doing extreme stuff, etc"

Have you ever seen a person trying to get a goat to move along? If a goat decides it's not gonna move, you're gonna end up pulling it by the horns yourself because it will not budge. But the minute you let it be, sooner or later you'll find that it just moved right on its own.

You need to let her be. A cap is a cap, once we feel we're being asked to do something just to fit in with the group, or look right, there's no way that will happen. Let her be. If she doesn't want to, it's becasue she doesn't feel comfortable doing it...i mean doing extreme stuff....?if its extreme for u, imagine what it is for a cautious cap. Just let her be...always keep the offer open...as in, you can join if you want to, but you don't have to.

"I know this annoys a lot of our other friends, so what can i do to slightly push her to get into this stuff."
Your friends don't depend on her for fun do they? So why should they get annoyed @ all? She actually has a right to say no, I don't want to do this. And y'all should be fine with it, seriously. She'll come around if you just let her breath a little...(i think)

all we ask for is a little bit of your patience and understanding. i also agree with Tate, we really don't give a rat's ass whether you do or not. mainly because when all others fall by the waist-side, we're the ones left standing. we are the strongest of the zodiac probably always will be. it's in our nature. 🙂