I need some advice. When A Capricorn says I love you..please read.

I need some advice on something that had happen 2 nights ago (Wednesday)

I have been talking to a younger Capricorn male (23 and im 26) since June. This is online we are both apart of a gaming community and have the same group of friends. He had an interest in me from the beginning and at first i didnt see it as anything. As we started to hang out more during the summer i started to have romantic feelings towards him and i had told he how i felt and he had told me he likes me as well,even said he was thinking about a relationship but has never done a Long Distance Relationship before. I have never been in a relationship or had a boyfriend. So, we took things slow and that was that didn't really talked about what exactly we were doing. Just went back to what is was fun, playful and exciting. He even told me in the beginning that I'm his favorite person. Among amazing compliments.I never had a guy say those nice compliments.It was really nice.

When Sept came around we started to distance each other, I was dealing with the lost of one of my best friends and he was dealing with his life situation. We didnt talk as much as we used to during the summer.

Fast forward to now.....On Team-speak (only way to talk with our voices) the Capricorn was saying good night to everyone and while saying I love you... I love you... I love you..(my online name) and after saying I love you to everyone no one else said it back until he said "-sigh- Now, I won't be able to sleep" so I go and say "I love you!" and one of our friends said "YEAH YOU DO!"

Now before he went offline on Steam I didnt know if i should've said something to him about "I love you" comment and me saying I Love You. It's been a day or so now since that happened and im so confused on what he meant by saying I Love you not only to everyone in our group chat but to me and I being the only one saying it back.

I never had someone say "I Love You" before especially when its a romantic interest. I have been hurt in the past by another Capricorn male who is the same age as me but he never treated me as the Cappy that im talking to now. And that Capricorn chose someone else, someone closer to them (again, LD) This was two years ago. I didn't expect to find someone who was so interested in me in the beginning and felt the same.

My question is Should I bring it up to him and asked what he meant by saying I love you? And if he meant it as a friend or something more. Since we haven't been spending a lot of time together since Augs. He has been busy with 3 big projects at work.

Any Advice on this topic would be very helpful

**Also, he is only an hour a head of me. The other Capricorn is from the same place but moved when we dated (3hours) this is in Canada.

That’s uncomfortable if friends are around. Sounded friendly. Not romantic

@aquarius_man What do you mean "No" can you give me a reason?

@pinkbird03 I know and I have been confused about it :/

@ariesno I was thinking the same, after it happened and he went offline. Was he trying to get a reaction from me? etc etc. So i hear what you're saying.

Thank you for the reply and advice I will take on it 🙂

@aquarius_man oh thank you, i'm still new to this site lol

Thank you for your reply as well!

I understand what you're saying,that's really nice how you put it. I always kick his ass in games 😉 haha Thanks you again!

I'll wait awhile before bringing it up, I'm hoping to hang out with him this weekend to watch a movie.

It wasn't romantic for sure. They'd never say it like that I'm pretty sure in that. Actually have to disagree sometimes they do some things to get reaction from us but not much really. And yes, no feelings talk whatsoever lol good, bad, anything that's related to feelings, if you try you'll just fail bu from my experience so far they tend to slightly open up by themselves when you don't push it at all. They just say something when they feel like doing it

Well my story also started in group of friends talking, he would talk to me there but not in private. I wondered why too. After some time something I did made him talk to me in private and then he said he wanted to for long time before but wasn't sure if I want to talk to him.So I said I wanted to as well and he asked why I didn't talk to him lol well I said I'm a girl, I don't really initiate contact so much, prefer to leave it to a guy...from that he talked to me in private only. But if I got it well from OP's post they were talking in private but went distanced on each other and now it's just a group talk? Or maybe I misunderstood

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@aquarius_man What do you mean "No" can you give me a reason?

@pinkbird03 I know and I have been confused about it :/

My guess is that they all planned it just to see what you would say. They tricked u.

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Well my story also started in group of friends talking, he would talk to me there but not in private. I wondered why too. After some time something I did made him talk to me in private and then he said he wanted to for long time before but wasn't sure if I want to talk to him.So I said I wanted to as well and he asked why I didn't talk to him lol well I said I'm a girl, I don't really initiate contact so much, prefer to leave it to a guy...from that he talked to me in private only. But if I got it well from OP's post they were talking in private but went distanced on each other and now it's just a group talk? Or maybe I misunderstood

The preference in your story still geared towards one-on-one though. If the Cap had feelings for OP, then from her "I love you" and the fact that their friends confirmed, the Cap should have already took initative to talk in private, just like yours did, no?

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I agree, mine did show quite interest in me, I had absolutely no doubt he likes me, said it and acted like it, put effort into conversation ever since. I did question him a bit about feelings which he completely avoided but I find that part fine, he doesn't want talk talk about it yet so I just dropped it. Not everyone is open in same way and that's fine

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Posted by Aries18
@aquarius_man What do you mean "No" can you give me a reason?

@pinkbird03 I know and I have been confused about it :/

My guess is that they all planned it just to see what you would say. They tricked u.

For what purpose?

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As a joke. I’m sure they all suspected you’d say it back so maybe they wanted to see if they were right.

Wow so many replies! xD

I have an Update for you guys 🙂

My sweet Cappy and I talked for awhile and we made plans to hang out tomorrow (Sunday) to watch a movie(Crazy Stupid Love) he said i could pick the movie lol 😉 so i'm taking it slowly and maybe talk about something that would need to bring up like where he stands in our friendship/relationship that we have and what he's thinking etc but i wont just say it i will work myself up to a conversation. AND he was the first to start our conversation today which was really nice 😄

Thank you for all your replies and advice i really do appreciate it. And i will let you know how Sunday's movie night goes 😉

I'm really happy guys 😄

I think he said "i love you" to see if you liked him back, i dont think he means i literally love you, but since it was in a group setting it was a fun way to see if you had any feelings for him! Caps do that, they're tricky when they dont know if you want them around but you're an aries and make it very known how you feel which is why he chose to message you first. You respond very well to his efforts.

This is cute. He got to fish out your feelings for him and also the group’s feelings about the two of you together.

Careful talking about feelings. Not saying don’t do it, but we’re kind of weird about it. I mean, be you and genuine and stuff, it’s working so far. Only saying that it’s easier for us to talk about our feelings when we intellectualize them and not approach them from a place of pure emotion.

Have fun on your date. 🙂