Im in love with a cappy man! YAY or NO!?

Hey guys,

I need some help. I've known this guy for a couple of years, he is a friend. Recently we've been talking almost everyday for hours. He's shared alot of personal information/stories. He is making plans to take me places (adventures) I absolutely adore this man. He is funny, smart and so caring. I've noticed just recently that he can be kind of cold in texts. I remember telling him that I missed him, and he kind of shrugged it off and didn't say anything back just a "lol" and a kiss.

I'm an aries by the way!

Me-

Sun - Aries
Moon - Libra
Mercury - Taurus

Him -

Sun - Capricorn
Moon - Aquarius
Mercury - Capricorn
Venus - Cap

(Are we compatible?, what does this mean?)

Thank you for taking the time to help me out!

In my observation, Cap men are drawn and attracted to Fire sign ladies to be sure. My own man is a Cap and he has several close relationships with Aries females although in his case it isn't romantic in nature. However, the pull/connection can be there. Just be aware that all that firey intensity while a turn on in one sense for a laid back emotionally in control Cap who in a lot of ways is just the opposite can also cause him to be turned off by the ensuing drama that can come when level of emotion is on an overly extreme level that most Caps just are not up for male of female.

As you are friends you have some idea of what he is like much of which won't likely change even if the friendship were to become more. He doesn't do grand over the type extreme emotion something that many Aries thrive on. If you are trying to move to the next level give him some space and time to process the change and ease himself into it. You on the other hand will need to stay grounded and patient if him becoming your man is the ultimate goal. He is usually a friend for life so if you don't mess that up in the transition that will remain and continue to grow as well.

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People who cant go slow to build something stable should jump off a cliff.

He's going to be very cautious. I wouldn't read too much of the "coldness" in texts. Sometimes emotions/intent don't translate very well to the written word. You can't see his face or hear the tone of his voice, so don't analyze the texts too much.

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People who cant go slow to build something stable should jump off a cliff.

LOL ...what?!?!