How Strong Is the Cap Men 's Buddy Bonding ?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by ShahBano on Saturday, August 25, 2012 and has 7 replies.

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Cap Guys, how strongly do you bond with other males, whom you consider your friends/equals ?--Are you willing to isolate the woman/child in your life to stand by an other friend whom you consider to be right?

I admit this question hardly does make any sense ---but I still want to have some answers, so if you can ,please, make some sense out of it and answer me- I would be really grateful.

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Posted by ArticleL
Define isolate.

The non verbal frostiness cap men seem to exude when their kids do something different or contrary to their standards. A strange and silent barrier which they will out of thin air and get effected between them and their dear ones.

I am feeling isolated. I just do know how to express myself properly.

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Agreed with the processing M's actually dumber then he looks. -Smirks-

Also agree with the guitar player I dont....put people before other people I treat them equally.

There are many forms of isolation/coldness/barriers they would need defining.

Isolation 1:
Him: Fuck You.
Her: Fuck You.
Him: -Walking away as nothing else needs to be said-

Isolation 2:
Mom: Your about to get a whupping.
Child: -Cries-
Mom: -Calms and colds- Lord forgive me for what im about to do. -Pow-

Isolation 3:
Wife: I didnt cheat on you.
Friend: Yes she did.
Husband: -Processing with a face of coldness usually followed by a harsh blunt statement thats 10x colder lacking warmth and emotion-

Isolation or coldness for I equals logic as people do harsh things and I x them. No feelings at all you just hit a wall of standards.

Ex. You cheat, I leave not mad at you more like mad at me for wasting me time.

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Thank You every one,

I know he loves me it's not that I don't believe in his love; but still the idea that he would actually consider an other man's opinions and desires more important than those of mine, shocked me first and than saddened me.

I know his frostiness will gradually thaw, I was just being apprehensive and a bit pensive that by that time I would be able to adjust myself with this distance and than it won't matter much to me that whether both of them come round to my point or not.----( does that make any sense ?--that a person is sad to realize she can actually live quite easily without the people she loves )