interested or not, how to go about it?

How would a cappy guy show interested in you? At times I think he shows interested and other just want to be friends.

Sun-Cap
Moon-cancer
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Sagittarius
Mars-Leo

What does he do that you intrpret as interested? What does he do that you see as his just wanting to be friends?

We are just starting as friends, I really didn't think more friends chilling here and there nothing more. I talking about how my ex was a few times, just didn't want another one like it. He brings up chicks he wants to date along he calling/texting me hanging around me then tells me when I'm in serious relationship I don't stray. Then comes the non commit, the back to wants a relationship with someone. It's giving me whip lash, should I be more interested or not. I see the cancer and sagittarius traits with. Cap wants to buy me lunchs,being a gentleman around me. It's all nice and all for a change just not used to that kind of treatment.

Few of my friends say you don't need that behavior and leave him alone. I'm sticking it out waiting patiently. Wondering what more I can do? cancer and sagittarius seem at tug of war with how he feels about me.

He's probably just trying to decide whether he likes you or not. Could be just feeling you out to see if you like him. We can be uncertain about going out on a limb and usually won't unless we know the result will be favorable. I can't speak for all caps, though.

If he's spending money on you, that says something. As a cap, I can be generous, but I don't spend frivoulously and I definitely don't usually spend on just anyone. So, I'm leaning toward he likes you.

Maybe just drop a hint and see if he picks up on it. Guys can be clueless sometimes, though. I'm just saying, if you give the green light, perhaps he'll pick it up and run with it.

How Venus in Sag flirts (http://aestrotex.wordpress.com/hoe-flirten-de-signs-wat-is-hun-stijl-volgens-venus/)

Venus in Saggitarius

If you have Venus in Sagittarius in your birth chart, when you go into —flirt mode?? you tend to —act to attract?? in some of the following ways:

Expansive. You show an appetite for variety, new ideas, and new experiences. —Excessive?? might be a better word, for you can over-do things a bit — or a lot. You may find yourself —embellishing?? or exaggerating to inspire more interest in you. You may be thinking a little —hype?? would help.

Adventurous. You seem willing to explore new experiences and new places. Foreign countries, foreign food, flying, or horseback riding may suddenly seem so interesting. A motorcycle ride may seem so appropos.

Care-free. You appear to be free of restrictions; and will give a partner —space?? and freedom. In flirt mode you may act more like a —free spirit?? than usual, or seem more optimistic and enthusiastic. (You might also act a little —clutzy?? or clumsy.)

Companionable. You want to pal around with your flirting partner, to be —friends first??. Your naturally friendly style may be mistaken for serious interest and attract unwanted wanna-be's.

Philosophical or humorous. You play the part of philosopher or clown. You may laugh a lot, or make someone laugh. (If you find yourself making bad jokes, you are probably in flirt mode.)

Spiritual. You seek to share your spiritual path or be a guide. Or you act as a —seeker?? or student to one who can teach or inspire you.

If Venus is in the sign Sagittarius then you love with an adventurous spirit and searching mind. You need freedom in love, that's for certain. Any forced commitment or overbearing lover is likely to send you running for the hills. But at the same time, if a romantic partner can engage your higher mind and click with your ideals and beliefs then you might never get that itch to escape. Then you know you??ve found a soul mate. Venus in Sagittarius attracts others easily through a fun loving personality and infectious sense of optimism and idealism. Venus in Sagittarius will need a sense of humor in love and may tire easily if romance or sex becomes too predictable.

Adventurous, impulsive and independent Sagittarius loves getting to know new people, and starting new ventures, such as relationships. They may not last, but they can be fun initially in the eyes of The Centaur.

Adventurous, impulsive and independent Sagittarius loves getting to know new people, and starting new ventures, such as relationships. They may not last, but they can be fun initially in the eyes of The Centaur. Love takes on a fiery, spontaneous tone! You may never know where and when they are taking you for date — but it will be fun!

They play the field but can be loyal once they find the right person. This is the sign that is willing to do spontaneous activities or spend hours fiercely debating a subject and think of it as a great date.

The person with Venus in Sagittarius is seeking to form relationships that are based on the basic pure pagan delight (think Pan) and faith of love. They want a relationship to open their world and broaden their perspectives. In past lives they have experience sexual oppression and restraint, stagnancy and boring routine.

If you can inject joy, spontaneity, individuality and sexual freedom into your relationship the person with Venus in Sagittarius will be greatly attracted.

Venus in Sagittarius: believes love should bring happiness, great times, and good luck; likes outgoing, intelligent, independent, adventurous people; attracts love by being friendly, fun-loving, generous, and free-spirited; flirts through friendly conversation and making someone laugh; wants freedom, honesty, few expectations, and undefined commitment in a relationship; visiting exotic places, meeting foreign people, exploring foreign cultures, and different accents are aphrodisiacs

I don't know if he will like me now, I called him out on his crap, how he's treating me with something. When I did say it, I feel he might not get over it.

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I don't know if he will like me now, I called him out on his crap, how he's treating me with something. When I did say it, I feel he might not get over it.

What did you call him out on and how did you do it?

I didn't want a relationship fast and I did say that to him on our talks. Basically the only reason he talking to is a rides. We only hang out twice with out him asking for rides. I said I don't mind helping out that way. He said that's our hang out but it didn't feel I like tho. It was throw text I said it in small text and left it alone after that and not message him alot, he messaged me alot saying he felted bad, even worse. He had the same actions someone did a long time ago and I was a fool and not say anything just let go. I said I'm learning from it, so it can happen again for so long.

It's my fault I should have said it face to face.

I little glad and not nip that in butt, sooner then later. We have things in common and get along great.