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CapGirl
@CapGirl
20 Years1,000+ Posts

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Well, my Virgo friend can't seem to see the forest through the trees... She has a spreadsheet she uses in her dating pursuits... listing the qualities she's looking for, and not just a dozen or so; this girl's an engineer and this is a SPREADsheet! But yet she'll date guys and give them 6 months of her life, who are late30s and never married, religious upbringing and who didn't have sex until AGE 30! These are all traits possessed by ONE guy she spent 6 months with... And now he's BACK... after dumping her unexpectedly and inexplicably... and I am shouting at her "commitmentphobe" and at one point wondered about... "gay"!!! So-- yeah, to me, Virgos see all the small details but they have little instinct/intuition/basic common sense about people.
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capchic*
@capchic*
19 Years

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33 year old woman - obviously I am a cap. Briefly dated a cap - never again, he got me into some sort of trance where I cut him an unprecedented amount of slack. I am now interviewing for his replacement. In the last month I've been gone on dates with three guys but I am still thinking about ex-cap. Basically I think I'll get over him faster if I get into a relationship with someone else.
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stardance
@stardance
19 Years500+ Posts

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Hi capchic, thanks, you have a very good point. I also thought a little more about it and I'm cool with sharing, regardless. I guess I just needed to warm up to the situation. I'm such a cancer. I am 38 and live in AZ. My sense of humor gets me in trouble when I let it out, most of the time I am very reserved and well, what can I say, sometimes you just gotta cut loose or you'll find yourself c**kiemonstering everyone you can b/c your such a sourpuss. Who needs that?

This is my first cap and I really enjoy having him in my life. I started thinking, hey I should ask him to commit and declare verbally what I mean to him, but heck, I'm having too much fun, so, I'll trust his actions and see where this takes us. He really is Y....y, fill in the blanks, I'll control myself for capgirl, she's having a rough time it seems. I have really enjoyed reading everyone's posts and the interesting dynamics between different personality types and how they seem to enjoy c**kiemonsterings. Not me, I'm a lover, just don't mess w/me, Crabs rule. hehehe. 🙂

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