Is this Capricorn story over?

Maybe he doesn't think you are taking him seriously because it sounds like mixed signals.

You said you're not easy and not gonna sleep with him but then you were in bed with him 2 was later.

Then a month goes by and you tell him there's no one else but he says don't lie and you kinda dropped it even though he didn't really want to drop it from the sounds of it. You didn't further deny it or discuss that you wanted to be exclusive. Although I think if that's what he wanted he should've said so but maybe he didn't think you were into it.

Also you didn't tell him about your accident so maybe he thinks he doesn't need to tell you stuff either since you are so casual.

That should say 2 dates. Hate typing on my phone.

It's only been 2 days since you've heard from him so I'd just wait him out.

Well, once again, I agree with capgirl. I was thinking what I was going to write as I was reading this, and she said every thought I had. It's almost like a twin thing! lol!

Mixed signals. He was probably hurt you didn't tell him about the wreck. Usually, its instinct to tell the people most important to us first and he realizes that wasn't him, so.....

Posted by airespisces
PS from what i read caps usually pursue someone that they like and dont waste, and he was always the one to text first and always things like :miss you, how is my love type of texts... i was just cautious, and im not expecting to go to dinner on valentines, fine.. we just met, but after all the attention shouldnt he at least ask if i fixed my car before he leaves town??

Honestly, I think you may have given in too soon. That third date rule is bullshit. Caps want to work harder for what they want and want to earn what they get. And someone like him can probably get just about anyone to sleep with them so he might figure you're just like the rest even though you might be the only one who didn't want his money.

I know this isn't what you wanted to hear.

Posted by airespisces
ok so how about this : ill just text him something cute and how i finally fixed my car and cant wait to see him. (considering he doesnt know i know he s leving town). and just see what he sas, insead of waiting for tomorrow the 14th.. what do u guys think?

I think that would be okay. Just leave it conversational. Make it cute and funny. If you can make him laugh, that would be best. See, we like people who make us laugh.

Well, you've got cap advice and advice from other signs. Quite a variety there and plenty of fat to chew on. The caps know how caps think, though. Glad you sent the text. Let us know how he responds.

And she shouldn't have asked or expected a car or to have him fix it. She's not in it for money or what he can give her. That was a good thing you didn't ask for help. But, I do think he might have been a little hurt you didn't tell him about the accident. Seems like you got close in the time you've shared, he would have expected to know about the accident.

People sure have a lack of appreciation of paragraphs.

I'm no grammar-nazi but it sure would be nice if folks used paragraphs.

I agree - they have been sparse in the relationship threads lately. I'm starting to think they are chicken! lol!! Hope they realize how much more helpful their opinions are to those who post questions.

Well, M, do you have any opinions for our OP?

Sure would be might kindly of ya!

Posted by airespisces
@cowpuncher me too!! Which is why i basically told him ill call once i figure it out. But should nt he check on me??

Yes.

Posted by airespisces
88nppisces: it s 10pm im on the west coast. we usually meet at night because we both work till late. we did spend 2 days too though on saturdays and went to eat with his friends. oh and he invited me to go to church with him but i couldnt. he lives 5 mins away from me and has a HUGE house so i love going there. it looks like a museum lol. i honestly never invited him over dont wanat him to know where i live yet. my ex is still stalking me (thats another story). so yeah.. i hope i will see him tonight i wanna get answers LOL. i didnt text him back yet ( i know, im crazy ) but i usually give it time.. like an hour. wtvr crazy pisces 🙂 yay he s still in town 🙂

If you keep going over late at night and don't spend any daytime, early evening together, you will be a booty call. Be careful!

And you're upset with him not texting you in two days. Text back. Be nice. But I hope you didn't go over there and reward him for not texting you.....

Play smart, hun!!

I agree, something feels off.

Hmmmmm....

You know, sometimes I wonder if some people post as a way to learn to play the game and manipulate a certain sign, as well as how to adjust their behavior to be what that sign wants.

It should be about understanding, getting advice, but never to manipulate or how to adjust yourself. In the long term, you can't change who you are.

Not saying the OP is doing that, but I also feel that there are a lot of details that are being left out. I'm starting to wonder if she is really just the booty call and trying to figure out how to manipulate not to be the booty call and get more—

OP, if you are sincere, I will apologize in advance.

Posted by truecap


I agree, something feels off.

Hmmmmm....

You know, sometimes I wonder if some people post as a way to learn to play the game and manipulate a certain sign, as well as how to adjust their behavior to be what that sign wants.

It should be about understanding, getting advice, but never to manipulate or how to adjust yourself. In the long term, you can't change who you are.

Not saying the OP is doing that, but I also feel that there are a lot of details that are being left out. I'm starting to wonder if she is really just the booty call and trying to figure out how to manipulate not to be the booty call and get more—

OP, if you are sincere, I will apologize in advance.

yeppers. +1

Posted by truecap

Posted by airespisces
88nppisces: it s 10pm im on the west coast. we usually meet at night because we both work till late. we did spend 2 days too though on saturdays and went to eat with his friends. oh and he invited me to go to church with him but i couldnt. he lives 5 mins away from me and has a HUGE house so i love going there. it looks like a museum lol. i honestly never invited him over dont wanat him to know where i live yet. my ex is still stalking me (thats another story). so yeah.. i hope i will see him tonight i wanna get answers LOL. i didnt text him back yet ( i know, im crazy ) but i usually give it time.. like an hour. wtvr crazy pisces 🙂 yay he s still in town 🙂

If you keep going over late at night and don't spend any daytime, early evening together, you will be a booty call. Be careful!

And you're upset with him not texting you in two days. Text back. Be nice. But I hope you didn't go over there and reward him for not texting you.....

Play smart, hun!!

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Totally agree.

At the risk of sounding like your mother:
You shouldn't talk to him past 9 at night. You shouldn't go out with him unless he asks you at least a day before.
Don't keep going to his house. Make him take you out.
Don't be so eager. You're here complaining that you haven't heard from him in 2 days, then the moment he texts you are like, "OMG!!!" and you are practically jumping to go over there. You're being too happy to get the bare minimum.

Posted by 88NPPISCES
lol, CapGirl69. I totally agree with all the ladies posting here. 🙂


Capgirl we are from the same planet and we share the same name. 🙂

Yes we do! 🙂

Interesting read... the part I find weird is that you go to his place to spend long hours together and yet he doesn't even know where you live?

Thanks for clarifying. I've got a better picture now. You seem happy with everything, so as long as you communicate, you will get along fine. Seems like you guys are on the same page now. Have fun and enjoy getting to know him!

I apologize if I was wrong.

Finally getting a sec to update🙂 we ended up meeting last night. He texted all day to plan but it happened that i had to work till later than what i told him innitially. So by the time i was done..he fell asleep. Lol. But did wake up when i texted and said he really wants to see me. So we went to a late night dinner date. Adorable. He then told me he s going out of town the next day..leaving at 7 am and he s gonna miss me and that he knows we have to spend more time when he gets back. So fun. Hugs and kisses. No sex. I went home after. It does matter to me that he kept his promise and saw me even if he was sleeping and was leaving in a few hours. This is ghe kind of man i need to deal with. That puts in an effort!! Interesting. 🙂 thank you guys you helped me understand a few things and also communicate better. We ll see where thisgoes🙂