Capricorn Male's erratic behavior

There are a lot of details I'll have to leave out due to space. First he and I had an awesome relationship, trustworthy, awesome sex, great support etc. He proposed, I accepted. He came over two nights later and was completely giddy with the idea of the future (our future), seemed very happy.
Next morning he called to tell me his mother was excited, but he had not told his dad yet. Called around lunch time to tell me that when I got off work we needed to talk. I knew what that meant so I said let's talk now I'll meet you at my place. He agreed.
Skip to the talk, he broke the engagement off and the entire time he was hysterically crying. He kept saying he didn't know how he felt and he had nothing to offer etc. He was flipping out. I was calm and told him that the real question here is if he wanted to be with me or not, and after that we can take it one day at time etc, that we don't need to get married or engaged etc. He said he wanted to stay together and once he was calmed down enough he left to go to work. We spoke later that night over the phone and once again he was hysterically crying, saying he was stressed (his family pretty much has him as a slave, he has school and work and really it is too much), he then said again he didn't know how he felt and he couldn't ask me to wit etc. That he likes me only as a friend (this I know is a lie), so I said okay. I told him I wished him the best and should he need any help with school (tests) etc he could call me.

We have seen each other several times since and things are civil and he keeps trying to make conversation. I finally asked if he could come get his things, he kept pushing it back but finally came this week. When he came over he seemed rather regretful and a bit somber. He wanted a hug and he informed me that he had a Christmas present for me. He also asked when I was moving, I explained it may be three-six weeks. He got a little sad but pulled it together.

He called me last night and talked for a half hour about his schooling and future plans etc. He slipped once and said we but corrected it to I. He also informed me that while I am traveling I should come visit him in his country when he moves back. That he will be my tour guide. While I'm glad this is all civil and nice, I'm not sure if he is trying to keep things peaceful so when he gets his crap together he can see if we can work out, or if he really can just his emotions off and be just friends etc. Any advice please?

Wow! That is probably the worst story I have read here. I am very sorry this happened to you, lady.

Were you at least given some decent explanation why? Is this a religious issue?

Since this is kind of an astrology forum a birthdate and city and country of birth would shed a ton of light. His not yours unless you want to post yours also.

Hysterical, crying Capricorn man. #shouldershrug# first time for everything I suppose

I'll take water in the chart for $ 400 Alex.

It has to do with his dad. Has to be some threat there and his dad is forcing the breakup. Perhaps his dad is cutting him off unless he breaks up with you?

Just my impression of things.

Yes it is sad. The only explanation is he's confused. Doesn't have his crap together etc.
He's columbian i am American. I am a cap also and i make more money have my crap together.
My family was very accepting and his mom and sis liked me. His dad seemed to as well. He was really happy about his mom and i.
I just am confused as to what really happened. I also don't understand getting me Christmas presents after breaking up and the "friend" thing. His Venus is also cap fyi.
He keeps thanking me for support and understanding.
To be honest he really is a good genuine person so that's who this is even harder to understand.
Agreed crying hysterical cap is a first. Something i have not seen before.

His birthday Jan 5 1987

I knew it ! Assuming he was born in London or somewhere near there. Look at all that water. 6 water placements. Mars in Pisces is the most horrible placement for a man in the whole wide world. You got a live one here. Good Luck. If you love him then stick it out I guess otherwise consider yourself spared. Water Moon, Water Venus, Water Mars, Water Jupiter, Water Pluto, Water Lilith.

I HOPE YOU KNOW HOW TO SWIM.

Sun Capricorn 14.37
Moon Pisces 27.20
Mercury Capricorn 10.18
Venus Scorpio 28.11
Mars Pisces 27.54
Jupiter Pisces 18.15
Saturn Sagittarius 15.53
Uranus Sagittarius 23.52
Neptune Capricorn 5.52
Pluto Scorpio 9.34
Lilith Cancer 4.51
Asc node Aries

He was born in Columbia but that us a lot of water. Scorpio and i always seem to find each other. Blerg lol, they are head cases. Love my scorp friends though .

It's not that bad on a woman because you are permitted to be soft. However, pisces is a feminine sign. The planet Mars represents man or masculinity. You have feminine traits where masculine ones are supposed to be. It's the same with woman who have Aries in Venus. They come off like bitches but they can't help it. They have a masculine sign in a feminine postion.

Capricorn is also a feminine sign. However, that doesn't mean that the guy is. He is not going to be doing any fighting I will tell you that. Probably never had a fight in his life. He might snap and kill someone (Cap and Pisces together probably beat the case too) but generally he can't be violent.

This is why sometimes you will see Pisces, Cancer or Scorpio men..who are not sensitive at all and would probably never ever cry. They have a Fire or Air Venus and or Mars placement.

Hope this helps. I don't know a lot but I love to read so I am learning rather qucikly.

Remember Fire and Air-Masculine and Water and Earth Feminine. 6 masculine signs and 6 feminine ones.

Columbia- 5 water placements still a lot.


Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Capricorn 14.50
Moon Aries 0.06
Mercury Capricorn 10.38
Venus Scorpio 28.23
Mars Pisces 28.03
Jupiter Pisces 18.17
Saturn Sagittarius 15.55
Uranus Sagittarius 23.53
Neptune Capricorn 5.53
Pluto Scorpio 9.34
Lilith Cancer 4.53
Asc node Aries 16

Lol yeah I think unstable is accurate.