Ladies...******COME HERE FIRST******

This is the controlling Cap. in me, but can we all start posting under one thread, this one, since we're basically talking about the same stuff in each of these other 5 exploding threads? It takes me too much time to go into each thread, and get to page 3... or 4... Just an idea.

good idea, i agree...ok I'm shot...too much stuff going on today and yesterday. how's everybody else?
(and i think it's good to take control once in awhile capgirl)

and yeah you just broke your own rule!
Vice President—...funny...i think we're all losing our minds which is a good thing, i for one, can use some laughter here, too much serious crap and we'll all go crazy...i think it'd be great fun to all meet up in Vegas or something
and you know what they say...what happens in Vegas......

stays in vegas!!! lol 😉

lets do it.... !!

Great- here's a recap and where we left off in the FIVE >> threads:

- GEG is on 44 or 45 days of no-Cap contact, still loves Cap., doing well, positive outlook;
- APW is fed up w/ Caps., men trolling dating sites, and men's BS/disrespecting women;
- CapGirl is near fed up w/ Cap., not caring anymore for real, dating on match.com;
- WTML has good thing going w/ her Cap., she's meeting his family, he's oiling her car;
- PF is all-around support and advice provider, she's not actively being tormented by a Cap.;
- MyCap is going through bad awful BUTTER w/ her Cap.;
- Virgo1881 is in beginning stages w/ Cap. but this Cap. maaaay have potential;
- SL has been MIA but she's off the Cap. for the most part for 2 mos. now, with some sporadic phone contact;
- T36 is like PF, but T36 is dealing w/ a Cap.; she has him pretty well tamed. (T36 knows her BUTTER!!!)
- MCShaker is busy with life, finding a job, her Cap. blew it right out of the gate, I fear;
- Sweet&Sour is a bit of a mystery... she's married to a Cap. and has lot to share as to why it's not all it's cracked up to be (life w/ a Cap.); we hope to hear more from her;
- Alana a/k/a — Not sure of her connection to a Cap. but she is advice provider;
- Leo w/ Cap seems to be handling her Cap. quite well for a beginner, she's got him talking about... feelings!! God forbid the word;

Hope I didn't forget anyone. I probably did- there's so many popping out of the woodwork lately!! [**This was meant for HUMOR more than anything, girls!!]

ha ha ha aha ha ah aha aha ha ah omg you are sooooo funny
i love it!!

THAT WAS PRICELESS!!!! you go capgirl...this is getting better and better, what a soap opera, really...we could write a show, make millions...and the hell with any of these guys, we'll be living the high life traveling all around the world!!!

lol good one, now about the potential with mine ummmm i dont know he is not doing that great with me lol

CG you are funny.

I like the run down on all of us...I am not MIA I have been busy, I have been reading post but was not able to comment. Yea I am off the Cap well I would not say off the Cap completely...I do still care and love him that will take time to leave but I can move on with my life..My motto is if I see him or hear from him I just do...I can't sweat the small stuff..and that is small to me right know...Yea I do do the sporadic phone calls...Hey don't they do that?....call every week or 2 or 3 days or hell maybe not for a whole month...FLIPPING THE script.

I have to go know and get ready for my Ski Trip that he knows I and leaving to go to on Friday and he said that he will be by to pick his stuff up before I leave, he still has not pick up yet...Go Figure LOL..

oh well, I gotta go..ladies take care.

Okay, ya'll, glad you're not offended! I just "closed" two other threads! hehe I know it may not work, bc. people want to read and get caught up with the other threads and then immediately post there, but it's worth a try. Streamlining....

I did forget Shaiessence in the recap, sorry!

Have fun on your ski-trip SL and be safe!!

Capgirl...lol ran us all out of the post's ****** CLOSED****** ha ha ha!!!

you ladies are sooo wonderful, just thought I would let you know!! Stay strong!!!

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these are some quotes that I love

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What do you do when the only person that makes you happy is the one who made you cry?

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Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.

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Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.

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Actions speak louder than words.

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Most people walk in and out of your life, only friends leave footprints in your heart.

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Good friends are like stars...you dont always see them, but you know they are always there.

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Dance as though no one's watching you; love as though you've never been hurt before; sing as though no one can hear you; live as though heaven is on earth.

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Everything is okay in the end. If its not okay, then it's not the end.

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To continue the Match.com convo.... I have been doing it off and on for years and it can be a good way to meet men but it can also be a really good way to get hurt. If you want to make sure you are not with a player just don't have sex with them until they give you a full committment. Don't tell them that is what you are holding out for though or they may just tell you that to get some. A guy only looking for one thing will not hang around long if you aren't putting out. That goes for any dating situation not just online dating.

One of my early experiences with this site...I met a great guy who was really into me and was just so great and told me he was going to go off the site because I was the one and he told me that I was the first girl he had went out with from the site and how he can't believe the first girl he went out with was the girl of his dreams, blah blah blah. By the fourth date I had totally fallen for him and we had sex. Luckily I had been telling all of my friends about him and showing them his picture from the site. The very next day after we slept together he contacted my next door neighbor and told her exactly the same thing. He told her that she was the first girl he contacted and that he was looking for the one. She came over to my house and broke the news to me. I was so pissed off. I told her to go ahead and contact him and make a date and she did. The night of the date she showed up first and then about 10 minutes later I showed up and sat down with them. We both gave him Hell. Not because he was dating more than one woman but because he was lying about it. We made him feel so bad that the guy actually started crying and told him that his feelings for me were so deep that it scared him and that's why he contacted my friend and a bunch of other B.S. He took his site down the next day. Hahahaha!!!

HEY. YOU FORGOT ME!

Shaiessence~ that was on purpose!! ha ha ha j/k how are you darling how the lil one?

love to you

Love, Brandy

You forgot this newbie too. Just so you all know my situation. I am not a capricorn nor am I dating a capricorn. I'm a scorpio and my man troubles are with a Virgo. There is not much action on the Virgo or Scorpio boards and I've always heard that a Capricorn is the best match for a Scorpio so I decided to read your posts about Capricorn men. They don't sound much better than the Virgo men. You girls are having the same problems with the Cap men. Pulling you in just to push you away. I guess it's just a man thing not a sign thing :-)

But just to let everyone know, this is where I stand.
Found a job during the daytime, have a car, have new friends and now is going out more. My (ex) Cap man was happy i found a job but seemed a little insecure because he said " you're going to forget all about me and meet new guys and talking to new people."

gslove~ that is a great story about making the dude cry!! (I think I had referenced you as "Alana"??) Now you all are making me paranoid about these guys I'm emailiing with! I already decided I need to delete/remove one... But really, online dating players/rats are the same problem posed in real life dating/meeting men. You always have to be filtering out the BS from the genuine interest.

Shaiessence~ I mentioned above that I forgot ya! sorry. I forgot the OTHER CapGirl1225 too. I don't know that she's sticking around though.

that gslove was a great story, just one comment though on the re-cap, i was laughing the whole way home from work, thanks capgirl you made my day, so happy i stumbled on this site, i was talking to a friend of mine on the way home and told her about this site cause she's got some cap man stories of her own. we may have another newbie. as for the match thing i've also been on and off it, i would so love to send a couple of these guys a couple of the pyscho women that i've heard about. one guy told me this story of a girl he went out with from there that came at him with a knife when he asked her to toss the salad for dinner that he was making her. i wish i knew her profile cause i'd love to send it the latest cap guy because he'd probably go for her in a heartbeat, she's supposed to be drop dead gorgeous...ah well, maybe he'll stumble upon her himself.
I had an idea driving home, don't know if you ladies are up for it, but maybe we could start using our real names? we know that GEG is Brandi, mine is Diane, i don't mind if you ladies don't.
and capgirl i really wish i could meet you, i think we'd have a blast, similar warped sense of humor, i wasn't kidding when i wish we could all meet up, could you imagine— the first thing we'd ask any of these guys we met in the club or whatever is if they're capricorns...and then(i'll speak for myself) probably throw a drink at them or something
seriously though for a moment, I am truly grateful for the last few weeks of this, it's helped me so much you have no idea. I work in a brokerage firm and they have us firewalled off a lot of sites, including personal email and such and for some reason i can still get this one. Thank you God, because it really helps me get through the day so many times. and you ladies have helped me get through the past couple of obsessive weeks where I'm barely even thinking of the latest cap disaster.
Thank you

Hi Capgirl,
Don't let my story scare you away from online dating. I still do it and I think it's a great way to meet people. You just have to be careful. Online dating is the new meat market that's all. We just have to be careful no matter what. Always meet them in a public place until you are really comfortable with the person. Another suggestion I have is to just meet them for Coffee and always have another plan for later on in case you need to make a quick escape. Tell them ahead of time that you have about an hour to meet. If you are having a great time you can always pretend that your plans have changed. Believe me they will appreciate you only doing the hour. It takes the pressure off just in case they aren't feeling it either.

PF, oh...PF.... I hope you pop into here soon!! You're posting in the closed threads!! haha Spankie-spankie!!

MyCap~ I'm picking this up off your thread, "Couldn't Be Worse Day" (but I didn't close your thread- LOL).... about him sleeping w/ the other girl just a week after your split w/ him... The ONE time I gave in and slept w/ my Cap. (it was kind of a mutual booty call that happened betw. us), but anyway, in leaving in the morning, I see a condom wrapper on the floor next to his side of the bed... and then I also see the one on his dresser which was "ours". Also, I notice a half full glass of water over on the floor on "my" side of the bed. Oh, and it gets better... the next two nights in a row (he and I were together Fri. and then Sat. AND Sun.), he is seen out dwtn. at the bars with this same hoochie who I was told by 2 people had nothing on me. But he had every intent and hope of running into me on one or both of those nights. So, I know the feelings you're having--

For me, I busted him on it not by acting emotional, but emailed him telling him no more booty calls and that neither of us obviously needed to resort to it and that to be honest I felt kind of crappy being sandwiched in between two others, and that unfortunately I saw the other wrapper. He emailed back and downplayed it that if I saw another one it must have been from a while ago, and talk soon. To which, I replied, don't bother calling me at all unless you're willing to stop whoring around! ha! So, that's my little way of dealing with these man-whores.

Capgirl,

I really don't know how to deal w/him from here on. Shall I just let it go period?

MyCap~ I think you need to just go w/ the cold, silent treatment- not taking or returning his calls- for at least 2-3 weeks. You've already 'shown your hand' that it really upset you and that you're vulnerable, so.... I don't know that it'd do much good to communicate and lay it on the line, stating your expectations and establishing boundaries. Maybe... It'd have to be a very straight-forward, simple email in which you don't talk about your feelings for him or wanting to know his. Just something like, Don't contact me again unless you're serious about wanting a commitment bc. otherwise I don't see the point of this. A message to that effect. Need some others' opinions here. I say it's one of the 2 that you need to do: silence/no calling/no responding; or laying it down in a no-nonsense manner.

Well I'm not going to be the one to contact him, so the email is out of the question. Thinking about it since I replied to this post a while ago, I came to the conclusion that he's not going to change his ways and that I need to just let this whole situation w/him go.

Yes... that'd be the best way to go. It's damm hard though, so be prepared. You just have to convince yourself and believe that it's not going to be any different just bc. he comes calling again. Once you've been through it enough times, you learn that. I think I finally have...

i think i agree with the letting go thing as hard as it is and yes be prepared, i have let go of my latest cap disaster and really know he won't be calling me as he is very busy on the match thing, no need to call when there's so many other available poor souls who will fall for the routine. i can only hope that he will get his, i can't be the only one to have figured it out. interesting thing i noticed is that after 2 weeks of my saying "no more bs, hit the road" his name disappeared off the buddy list on aol. i really don't think he blocked just me off as there was no need, i stuck to my part and made NO attempt to contact him, i can only think that other's caught on to him and he did the "block all" i know myself that i do "block all" mainly because i'm not a big fan of the whole IM'ing thing. if i'm online it just bothers me to get im's, but he was big into that, and maybe just maybe if there's any justice, he just had too many women calling him on his s---t and needed to be hidden.perhaps a loony or two wouldn't stop im'ing him. enough of him, as someone said, (sorry can't remember who and i'm tired now and going to hit bed soon) good riddence, these kind of people are just so not worth our time.
good night to you all, again, thanks for everything

I agrew with Capgirl and APW. The best thing to do is just let go. I've learned to let go of my ex cappy and let him do whatever he needed to do. After a while (when they thought long and hard) he'll come back crawling or calling, whichever one.

hello ladies,
CAPGIRL~ I'm soooo SORRY!!! I know how you feel exactly I had that happen to me tp in high school he was a (sag) an a/hole at that... oh it was horrible that same thing happend to me... but silly me let him convince me that is was "HIS FRIENDS"!! But later found out that was not true...and if thast not bad he ended up sleeping wiht my step sister....and then came and got in bed with me (it was a dunkin night i ws passed out) then later in hte morning slept with me...wanna talk betrayal and disgust.... I
have felt it trust me. I know you are all wondering what happened with my sister... I forgave her after all blood is thicker then water "yes she was a step but in my family we are all blood! I also forgave him not right after bit years later i had to just let it go and the only way to let it go is to forgivehand the PAIN over to GOD and move past it.... Im telling you Ladies all this crap that has happened to us only makes us stronger.. I have stories like this can go on for days....but you know what it does not matter you have to forgive in order to move on. Brian on the other hand has NEVER done something like this to me EVER!! And I NEVER once had hte feeling he was seeing someone while he wsa seeing me... so I guess He has that in his favor.... IM sorry ladies but for those of you whos man was sleeping with you and another girl within a few days... forgive them and move on that shows no class or respect...YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN AND DO NOT DESERVE SUCH CRAP!!!

Mycap~ The two of you were not together...and people make mistakes we are human... follow your heart with this one sweetie!! PRAY you will get answers!!

Im so sorry that all of you have to go through such CAP/CRAP.. IM am!!

just know love yourself and when that fells ya!! KNOW that JESUS loves you 😉



love always, Brandy

And when he comes back crawling/calling I won't be there. I really need to stick up for myself and stop being so stupid w/this. I know that if he ever calls again that it will be the same routine w/us and I'm done w/that. I can't believe it took me this long to realize what the hell he was doing to me. How stupid could I have been. I have never liked someone so much and that, I guess, blinded me from the obvious way he was treating me. My friends would tell me that I deserve better but I always went back w/him whenever we'd break up and he'd come back. It's amazing how stupid I was. I think he realizes tho that when I walked out of his house yesterday morning that that was it for me. I had finally reached my stopping point and was that fed up w/it. When he told me he didn't know what he wanted after being w/me for 9 mos now, I knew that this would never amount to anything. He didn't realize what he had. He will when he finally realizes that I'm gone....FOR GOOD!

Thanks for the support chicas. Keep telling me that I need to let him go. It feels like a relief somewhat already. Yeah I miss him, but this is the best thing. Knowing that he's a potential (well probably is) a player, I don't need him in my life and definetely don't need to be used like that. These are some of the hardest lessons we learn in life, but it will only make me stronger!

MyCap, really feel for you...and you're going to get a lot of advice from your friends, from us etc and i know how easy it is for other people to say let him go flip the script move on or stand by your man as capman said on the other thread. but just thinking here that in any relationship be it friend lover or otherwise, it's supposed to be mutual,with the result of each other feeling good about themselves, mutual trust and respect support and all. whenever i can't trust someone it turns me into a person i don't even like, i become suspicious of everything, start listening and looking for clues of deception which inevitably turns me into a basket case, i'm a good detective(should be in that field) and can usually tell when a person is trying to get over on me, the trick is doing or not doing something about it. i guess what i'm trying to say is that people in relationships should enhance your life, not drag you down. at least ideally, problems always happen even in just friendships, after all we're all just human, but when i find that i'm allowing someone to lower my self esteem and self respect it becomes my choice to continue or not. and often i've made the wrong choice, thinking i could handle it...i can't...as i said, i turn into someone i don't even like.
i'm really sorry for your pain, it hurts i know, it hurts to be taken for a fool, it hurts to feel someone doesn't respect you, it hurts to think you're replacable, it just f---ing hurts, and i guess i'm just saying, i feel your pain, you're story has touched me because i have been there a few times.

APW, yeah the whole thing just sucks. I had a real problem trusting him when we first starting seeing one another. I always would think he was lying to me about something. But then ended up finding out that he wasn't. What's crazy is when he and I finally became exclusive for that whole week a little while ago, he asked me how I could be w/someone I didn't trust. I told him I did trust him because he did earn my trust gradually over the 9 mos. Well he was saying this after the fact that he had slept w/the other girl. But all he has to say about it now is that it was during those 2 wks we were apart, and he thought things were seriously done w/us. But that still is not good enough for me. I know a lot of u have said forgive him, ppl make mistakes, but it's just really eating me up right now. I mean I stood in his doorway one nite and asked him if he ever was w/anyone else while he and I were together and he said no, not while we were together. Ok I gotta stop, because it's making me really angry just thinking about the talks we've had, how much I did believe and trust that he hadn't been w/anyone during the whole time. And again, as I've mentioned, how blind was I?

Hey CapGirl!!

You are too funny! No problemo!

gslove. my ex is a Virgo (12 years). What do ya wanna know? I'll tell you this, YOU ARE RIGHT, Virgo's are not good for Scor. Virgo's are critcal and BORING! The good thing about them is that they are very humble people. My Cap has a Virgo Moon/Taurus Rising. POWER! He can be very critical of others and I have to let him know that "judge not, lest ye be judged" Anyway, ask away.

CapGirl, keep us posted on the Match.com thangs! Who knows, I may be a potential customer, at some point!

MyCap, Let that fool go! My Cap is in law enforcement and they are known to have NO PROBLEM meeting women on the job AND they are known to have several realationships.

I'm a firm beleiver that the more you focus on SELF, the more the Cap stuff doesn't phase ya! If you have any kind of connection to your Cap. he will feel you slipping away, TRUST ME. Over time it just gets boring and routine and you start to ask yourself, WHY AM I DEALING WITH THIS FOOL? It's coming. Don't say, "If he calls, I won't respond" It is important to be as honest as possible with yourself, when dealing with Caps. YOU WILL TALK TO HIM AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN, until you are tired of the crap. And this is the kind of tired that is not rage or revenge or even anger. It's a calming that you don't have to fuss, cuss or hit. It's an ephiphany!!! It's internal..all of it. You see if we have "SELF" in check, nothing these Cap men do or any man for that matter, can really hurt us. Don't put expectations on people, put it on God! That way you won't be disappointed when they disappear.

Do we really know who we are? Honestly. I realized that all my life I had fears of abandonment and rejection and I have carried this into every relationship I've ever been in. My ex Cap allowed me to work out my MOMMIE ISSUES ( My mom is a Cap). This man would say and do things just as my mother would do and it brought out every type of anger and rage that existed. But one day I got an ephiphany and now, I'M FREE FROM THAT MAN!!!

I told my ex Cap, that because of him I am the woman I am today. He has no clue of what I'm talking about. But because he took me through the ringer so many times, I got strong and realized that he was no where near my level of maturity. IT'S A BEAUTIFUL THANG!

Ladies, I am glad I found this site. Funny Stories and real and honest people..

God Bless YOU ALL!!

T36

T36, I am letting him go. May take a while but I will accomplish it! I've heard of ppl in law enforcement having several relationships also. So r u not scared of urs doing that to you? You are right about the SELF. It does help a lot, I'm learning that.

Nope doesn't bother me one bit, because I am very confident, something Caps cannot handle with there mates. I have so much faith in the Lord, that I know that when it is time ALL THINGS SHALL BE REVEALED. You see I'm a singer and I perform in front of very large crowds and so I can't afford to be insecure. When we are out and I see him peaking at another woman, I don't get mad I get even, and by the end of the night I have men flocking to me without a single action. THAT IS CALLED CONFIDENCE! He always seems puzzled. as to why men approach me in his presence. It's because he's INSECURE!! LOL! Men know when other men are insecure. And I have gone out with a lot of men, you could not me handle me, especially Caps.

He has told me in the past that he has slept with other women, but so what, he wasn't my man at the time, but if we are committed, that's a problem. You being a Taurus know that we don't tolerate our man cheating on us. We will not compete with other women. NO WAY!

So you keep your stand and if you decide to bend, it will be on your terms, NOT HIS.

He'll be back.

One last thing. Caps love to throw stuff in your face and brag about the women that want or desire them and BUY THEM THINGS. My ex Cap was notorious with this and he tried it yesterday and This is what I said:

"If you got all these women wanting and desiring you, then why are you on my phone, all up in my grill!! you need to where you are wanted FOOL! I don't want you no mo! PEACE".

And then I hung up the phone. When you get to a place where you don't care, they will come crawling back to you and you won't care, who they are with or what they are doing. No matter how many times they call, you don't give them the time of day.

But you can NEVER let them see the emotion. Keep in check. Pretty soon he'll either go away or step up to the plate.

sglove
I have dated at lease 4 or 5 virgos I love them, I am still good friends with 2 of them my ex before my ex Cappy was a Virgo and he still calls me and tells me he loves me and will tell me if I need anything to call. The only reason why I am not with him is because I was not trying to have anymore children I have (1) and he was having personal issues in his life that he needed to work on first but then he went away we stayed in touch and then he got married to a younger women 6 months after he met her he started having children and then he called me and told me he made a mistake. He and I both know that he regret what he did but I can not go back to him.

I don't think they are boring, they work a lot they have alot of patience, reserve and very humble, they love to cook or love to cook for me the sex is off the hook. They can be very arrogant also. They are not to big on coversation. I use to have to keep the conversations going. We use to talk about everthing, very intelligent they have taught me a lot.

If I met another one I will date him I just need to make sure that I have the right virgo. I have dated a very very Arrogant Virgo, been married like 3 times wanted me to submit..TOTATLLY to him I was like NO.

One thing I don't like about them is when you make them mad they will with hold the sex.

hi all,

When a cappie goes on treating you like a princess, trust me...sooner or later he is gonna get u down..I am not being pessimistic..its just tat I have had lots of painful experiences with my Cappie to know why I am saying what I am saying...
For cappie men, its all about the hunt...They woo u as if there is no tomorrow and once they realize thay have u ...Bam..all their attention stops and the pull-push games begin...
With Cappie men, life will only be a rollercoaster ride with incredible ups and downs...U have been warned
:-)
Bittertaurus

hey bittertaurus, nice to hear from you, yes we all have ridden the roller coaster and know all about the wooing like crazy, at least i do

Where do these women come from?? Bittertaurus! Glad to hear from you.

T36, I think that I am FINALLY there! His shyt (BUTTER) is so boring. I swear if I see him pop up in my IM window again, I am going to flat out tell him 'this is boring'. The fastest callback/response I've ever had from him, was when I texted him, "Should we just screw again and be done w/ each other?" ha!

I have had one other Cap. male experience... He's a fellow attorney in the community, married w/ 3 kids. At the time we met, I was unhappily married, and he asked me for drinks under the guise of a business/networking type thing. There was an obvious attraction betw. us and flirting going on. I was actually separated by the time we met for drinks but was still wearing my ring. Then, a year or so later, he suggested drinks again, and now I was divorced/no ring and we discussed my situation. And that was the end of that flirtation! "Smart guy" attorney knew he didn't want to be messing w/ a single woman and that the married/married thing was "safe." He was good at covering up what his real intentions were behind our drinks together, bc. he didn't know ever if I was "up" for a dalliance/affair. His poor wife- gosh knows how many times he's run this routine. His business partners met me too, and I suspect they told him, "No way, buddy! You are not getting involved!" bc. a messy divorce would cost the firm and the partners as well.

MyCap~ Just be prepared, I guarantee he's letting you simmer and cool down, and he will strike when you least expect it. He'll wait long enough to be fairly sure that he won't have to answer to things, bc. he'll assume and hope that you're desperate enough by that time to forget all. I'd be equally or more put off by his not taking you out on real dates, which is what I have gathered and correct me if I am wrong. The summonsing you over in the evening is not the makings of a healthy relationship. Don't feel bad- that's what my Cap. was trying to reduce things to also. When I said I wasn't having any booty calls (11-12 pm), he just started calling earlier (8-9 pm), like I don't know and see that it's the same sack of BUTTER! These guys underestimate and think that all women can eventually be conquered on their terms.

well... im stumped today ladies!! this is all so much info to take in... dont get me wrong I love it but....WOW!! MyCAP just PRAY!! and I bet he will be back in a while and when he does come back you will know how to handle it then.

For the new LADIES welcome!!

Capgirl~ call me slow...but i just figured out that you are an attorney...what type? No wonder you are sooo organized!! LOL my divorce attorney I love her she is sooo organized!! I have always wanted to be an attorney I can always see both sides to every story and I love to argue (who would have ever thought) lol j/k!!

well ladies guess what (as you all roll your eyes....especially APW)... I LOVE MY BABY GOAT!! and its been 47 days!! he he he!!


love to you
Love, Brandy/ GEG

I really hope he doesn't come back tho. That's the problem. I wish he'd just stay w/me in a relationship or just get the hell away from me for good. So I'm hoping as of right now that I don't talk to him for a long time. WE'll see

and yes capgirl ur right he didn't take me on any real dates. Well one, but that was just weeks ago.

hey ladies, well GEG again, your spirit is amazing...and you love anyone you want to, it seems to work for you, god bless you, i truly hope you get back all the love you give...seriously...but yeah, i didn't quite roll my eyes, but i did shake my head back and forth a little..oh well, i'm a cynic, you all know that.
Mycap i know that cycle so well, as i said did it with the old cap for almost 4 years back and forth back and forth, and we actually did go on some real "dates" we' went away a few times and all kids of fun stuff, and he'd act all jealous if anyone paid attention to me. funny story about their ego though now that i think of it, we were at the hilton in atlantic city for the weekend and he was trying to get us tickets to see a band. i was up in the room and he came up with two that he scored. cool right? then we go down and see the guys he got them from across the room, they looked me up and down and gave him a big thumbs up...he took it to mean they thought he was so cool for getting the tickets when the reality was they were hitting on me(which one of them did in person when i went to the ladies room) the whole point of this story is that his ego if you get what i mean.

they are a trip, and most of the time, not a fun one.

Thank you APW~ And I will hold onto my FAITH 😉 I will never let it go!!


xoxoxoxoxo
Love, GEG

Hi everybody!

CapGirl this is a great initiative! I laughed when I read your recaps!

Officially at home now...looking for work...I am stressed to the max, sad and...lonely...

Will read and write more later and I don't know who said this board is great support but I second that motion! There's a good vibe coming from here...

I appreciate reading you all. I will have more time now to reply I guess...

I will unload here soon...maybe tomorrow...about my story with this Cap man...I guess you were right CapGirl in your recap.

Well got to go...having dinner at my girlfriend's place...She's a Cap! Should be fun!

Who said Vegas? I'm in! Avec toute mon amiti?! MC

I don't speak french but it was I who suggested Vegas...let's go ladies, what a blast!!!good to see you again mcshaker, i also was the one who wondered if you were with the same cap jerk as i was recently...Mr. Troller, actually DR. Troller, although i have a more graphic name for him that they would censor.
hope to see you here again soon, this IS an amazing support group

hello ladies~

I found something on a board that I freuent, and would like to share it with you

"A story tells that two friends were walking
through the desert. During some
point of the journey they had an argument, and
one friend slapped the other one in the face.

The one who got slapped was hurt,
but without saying anything, wrote in the sand:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.

They kept on walking until they found an oasis,
where they decided to take a bath. The one who
had been slapped got stuck in the mire and
started drowning, but the friend saved him.
After he recovered from the near
drowning, he wrote on a stone:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.

The friend who had slapped and
saved his best friend asked him,
"After I hurt you, you wrote in the
sand and now, you write on a stone,
why?" The other friend replied "When someone
hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds
of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone
does something good for us, we must engrave
it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."

LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND
AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE."

that was really nice GEG, i'll remember that one...see? I'm really not a complete cynical woman
thank you

Hello all. Well I talked to my ex cappy again and he thought we were together (becuz we kissed) but i told him that we never actually discussed it or really truly talked about it. Then he got really quiet and asked me why i dont call him anymore and he feels as if i dont want to be with him. Trust me i do, but im enjoying how he is acting, and don't want it to go away.

Hi sheila!
just whatever you do dont play games with his heart... he will pick up on it and be gone!True love does not boast! 😉 be careful!!


love to you sweetie. Kiss away!!

love, B