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HEY! I found all of ours THEME SONG-- the new Kelly Clarkson "Walk Away"!! I just listened to it closely for the first time. She has got to be talking about a Cap. guy!!

My beast is online right now, ignoring me (I'm on his buddy list). Ppffff! I'm too busy to chat anyway!

Hey, I want to do Vegas! I've never been there. We must stay at the Bellagio. You know us Caps.- gotta have the best, class, and sophistication!

HA!! I couldn't resist... I just sent over a "little bomb" to him-- IM'd "Hey I'm on match.com! See if you want to date me! lol" and then I put my match screenname. HA ha -- He may not be responding but he'll get the message.

Had to update ya'll-- I got that f'in GOAT!! He responded after 10 minutes, and acted like he just got home from school! Asked what I was up to, I told him I was pretty busy on match weeding through my prospects. Chatted for 30 minutes. He was avoiding direct questions about why won't he come over, return my calls, call... So, I told him this pen pal thing is fun and all but I've got to get back to the task at hand. LOL He acted like it was he who needed to go and eat dinner then, and that he'd catch up with me later. (Control freak, he had to turn it around!) This is just amusing at this point!

I wanna go to vegas!!!!!its about 6 hours from here we should plan a date... do any of you like to DANCE!!!!Im getting excited about it I think we should do it and im being very serious!! I need a getaway...and I have a few vaction days I can use!! whoo hooo

Hmm... I was going to go to St. Barts in June, but I might be able to swing a weekend getaway in say April? With 4 girls to a room, it could be affordable! Who's interested??

LOVE IT! I wanted to start a site called "Happy with cappy"...but feared no one would come to it....I can't remember whose advice it was BUT don't remind a cappy of something they didn't do right...Mr Cappy was a tad upset that I joked about the no flowers thing (all the stores were closed when he got out on Vday) he looked and acted mildy hurt....
my boy is super cutie, being well behaved, loving, adoring, etc...I am waiting for something to go wrong it feels too good...

you know... it is highly possible that it's just a man thing. but that would sound to easy. hey girls, i posted my story on 'New to the Board - My Take on Cap men' if you want to read it, i'm a newbie and think this is a wonderful sight for us women to chat it up about those guys that just frusterate us! as i asked in my story, what's the secret to getting this guy to put a ring on your finger? i know it's supposed to take a lllllooonngggg time, but i think i'm willing to wait for this guy, i just want to make sure i don't screw things up in the process.

Oh gosh, Veritas... a ring/marriage?? That could be like a decade away w/ one of these guys! How old are you?? Young, I hope! I read your thread/post. At least he's calling you a few times a week- that's impressive. Is this a fairly new deal- I think I recall like 2 months but w/ long distance involved? What is your sign? You really should be yourself for the most part. Don't try to be on good behavior or cater to him. Get the book, "Why Men Love Bitches" -- those are great rules to live by w/ Cap. men and all men. And listen to T36 on here, she's got it down, the attitude needed to handle them.

ha haha why men love "cookiemonsters" = b/i/t/c/h/e/s!!!

Capgirl Funny was supposed to go to cabo in April but we can try to swing something...but with my ex being a real pain in my side. I have to pick a weekend that I do not have the babies!! sooooo those weekends that im available are........april 1,14, or the 28th!!

yeah, i'm a young 18 year old Pisces. and don't worry, i know i'm not going to get married til i'm at least 20, so yeah i'm ready for the wait. and yeah, i'm really impressed at how much he is calling as well... we've been talking for since last September, and i went to see him the second weekend of January. we live six hours apart right now, but that's going to change because i'm transferring to another college which happens to be about an hour away from him (and no i'm not transferring just to be close to him, but it definately is going to be nice).
lately he's been caving and being really sweet to me. i asked if he'd care to go to a play with me at the college i'm transferring to when i see him in a few weeks. he proceeded to ask what kind of play, and whether or not it was a musical because he doesn't like musicals (though he's never seen a real musical performed). and i told him, yes, it's a musical, but a funny one, trust me. it ended up like this, him saying 'hmm, i dont know.' and i said, 'so... you won't go with me?' and he replied, 'i guess i could do that...' honestly, i didn't think this would happen, i was amazed! tell me what you think of it!

sorry, i forgot to add a few facts about this guy. he's 24, i'll be 19 in march, and we've talked about the age thing, and he told me that it wasn't a problem, and if it ever became a problem, he'd let me know.

who the hell knows? but i find it so interesting that you can;t call him but need to wait for him to call you, as i recall you said "he set me straight" on that.
you've read the posts...all on HIS terms...someone said on another post yesterday, be forewarned, it's usually always on HIS terms

yes, he actually told me he has a rulebook (abstract of course), and i asked for a copy, and he says, 'no, i think it'd be more fun if we learned the rules together.' a little over a month ago on the phone with him, i naively asked if i could make a rule. and of course, he says, 'no, i make the rules, sorry.'
i'm ok with that though, because his rules really aren't that bad, i haven't come across a rule i didn't like yet, he's a good guy. i've broken more than a couple rules already, but he's pretty good about telling me when i do something he doesn't like, he then explains the rule to me, and i add it to my memory bank. for some reason i kind of like the way he controls the situation. in all past relationships i have been the driving force, getting everything i want my way, and now he is, it's a nice little break, actually. but don't think i can live without having some given back to me, he's done some very sweet and romantic things for me, and i was sure to let him know that those things made me happy, and i think it makes him happy when he knows i'm happy about something he did.

i can't ditch the guy, i want him too much

ha ha ha ha thats what they Veritas... they suck you in then spit you out!! i have said that over and over... ha ha!! AS fars as RULES there are none when it comes to love and If you dont want to love him and be with him why bother? HE did say one thing i liked..."'no, i think it'd be more fun if we learned the rules together" this is how it should be learning and growing together!! IM sure I understand that this may have been a lil cute joke...but i find it to be the CAPPY test. And be careful you dont want to be the "nice girl" the one who gets walked all over the doormat! You really should pick up a copy of "why men love b/i/t/c/h/e/s!!" it a great book opens your eyes...you can take the advice or leave it. I choose a lil of both!! At any rate I wish you lots of love and happiness with this man. And remember to Pray about it!!

lots of love to you!!! xoxoxoxoxo

love, GEG

I agree with Ms Cool Leo lady, those are dumb rules! Watch of for these guys, they can be super controling and it will take away all your self esteem, especially if you are a sensitive pisces. Be very careful and don't make excuses or pretend like you are ok with his bad behavior, he is going to walk all over you. I am sorry to sound negative but I have been dating a cappy for 6 months and he tried all that s/h/i/t on me, I fought hard against it because it drained my soul....he repects me and called me "strong" all the time..

I agree with Ms Cool Leo lady, those are dumb rules! Watch of for these guys, they can be super controling and it will take away all your self esteem, especially if you are a sensitive pisces. Be very careful and don't make excuses or pretend like you are ok with his bad behavior, he is going to walk all over you. I am sorry to sound negative but I have been dating a cappy for 6 months and he tried all that s/h/i/t on me, I fought hard against it because it drained my soul....he repects me and called me "strong" all the time..

but how do we get a success story with a Cap guy instead of a heartbreak?

ha ha ha ha who knows still tring to figure this one out... im banking on a whole lot of PRAYER and FAITH!!


goodngiht sweet dreams my lovley Princesses!!!

love, Brandy

alright, well, my goal is to get this Cap and keep him! the only thing that would make things easier is if i lived closer to him, but i'll deal with that. i'll keep you girls posted on his actions and mine, and mine, and maybe, together, we can figure out what their weaknesses are...

Good Morning sunshine's!!!

well today is an interesting morning he he! I thought for sure that I was going to make it through motherhood without the BABY POWDER experience!! LOL This morning I walked into my 2 year old sons room and there was a white cloud of powder all over!! LOL he had it all over his bed, his lamp his baby, his window seal, his rocking chair, his dresser!! It was everywhere!! At first I was like OMG tyler what did you do? ANd his answer...."my Foggy "froggy" did it!!! LOL i started laughing so hard that my daughter ran in the room to see what was so funny!! I swear her jaw dropped to the floor!! ANd again told his sissy that his foggy did it!! She started lauging.. but then we started to choke cause all the powder in the air! it was sooo funny!!!

well ladies im stepping out Of dxp for the weekend.. I need to stay away from all this sad cappy/crap!! But i wish all you ladies a wonderful weekend and I will keep you in my prayers!! love to all of you!!


love, Brandy

I wouldnt say all cap men don't say mean things because there were a few times he said mean things to me. (intentional or not, i odnt know.)

Hello Lady's how is everyone doing? I really don't have any comments today just wanted to speak and say I.

i have realized something that i should have realized a long time ago. this guy that i'm into, he's been chasing me for months and i haven't even realized it because i've had a boyfriend, that he never knew about because he never asked. but, now that i don't have a boyfriend, and i went to see him, i'm finally showing the interest back, so i'm thinking that during the last few months i've been 'hard to get' without even realizing it because i wouldn't say anything along the lines of 'i like you' because i had a boyfriend and i'm loyal, i was just being friendly with this guy. so, now that the boyfriend is gone, and he's still there, and i like him now, he might just think that he finally won me over after all this time, when really, if i hadn't had a boyfriend in the beginning, i would have really messed things up being too clingy or obsessive. now, is that awesome or what? i didn't even have to 'try' to be hard to get, i just was on accident, and i think that's why he still likes me... hmm, it doesn't look right written down though... it's weird.