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My Cappy Cares About Me!!! Hate If U Want 2!!!
Posted by faith $ golphin
The sex got even better!!! He's verbally expressing his feelings when we have sex now. He even cuddles with me!!! LOL He's got a lot better but we still have a long way to go before commitment although he have been bringing the conversation up a lot..
So you started this thread to say that you guys are still fwb. Somehow I am not surprised, but thanks for the update.
This is more of the same, faith.. can you not see that? He's NO BETTER than he was, no matter how much you want him to be, and no matter how much YOU'VE changed to try being what you think he wants - your actions still say he can treat you any way he wants and you will take it. And playing those reverse-psychology mind-games is only going to work short-term, honey. You can't PRETEND anything, it backfires because your outside doesn't match up with your inside, and guys pick up on this really "off" vibe around you even if they have no idea what it is. But I feel so sad that you think you needed to change for some man who isn't even stepping up, isn't even offering you anything real and solid, but keeps sleeping with you. You are KILLING your chances of long term with this guy.... insisting on being respected by demanding an end to a one-sided "relationship" was a very good start.. but you negated it all by going back on it.. he's not giving you anything more.. a few sweet words about not wanting to lose you, and you're right back where you were before. Still not even close to a relationship, aside from a FWB-type thing. (Which is clearly messing you up inside, faith. Your perceptions are skewed, like most women get in these situations!)
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt here, faith.. maybe he LIKES you, even if he won't say so. The thing is, he doesn't like you ENOUGH to move things forward. If a man really wants to be with a woman, he will move mountains to be with her, period. He won't drag his feet and take her out once in awhile, and just keep having uncommitted, casual sex with her - for a year. A man who truly cares about a woman is concerned with how his various actions keep twisting her up and making her FEEL BAD... a man who cares will NOT keep doing this to a woman. He KNOWS you're in love with him.. you've told him so many times, you've thrown yourself at his feet (figuratively) and are begging for any crumbs of affection to latch onto and say that there's hope. You are accidentally KILLING his attraction for you, because he sees that you will do ANYTHING to be with him, make yourself constantly available to him, weak (or no) boundaries about what is unacceptable behavior, even throw away your pride and try to change everything you can about yourself. This never, ever works, honey. All it gets us is dumped, or a FWB guy for as long as we'll put up with it and then a broken heart when one of us finally walks away.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt here, faith.. maybe he LIKES you, even if he won't say so. The thing is, he doesn't like you ENOUGH to move things forward. If a man really wants to be with a woman, he will move mountains to be with her, period. He won't drag his feet and take her out once in awhile, and just keep having uncommitted, casual sex with her - for a year. A man who truly cares about a woman is concerned with how his various actions keep twisting her up and making her FEEL BAD... a man who cares will NOT keep doing this to a woman. He KNOWS you're in love with him.. you've told him so many times, you've thrown yourself at his feet (figuratively) and are begging for any crumbs of affection to latch onto and say that there's hope. You are accidentally KILLING his attraction for you, because he sees that you will do ANYTHING to be with him, make yourself constantly available to him, weak (or no) boundaries about what is unacceptable behavior, even throw away your pride and try to change everything you can about yourself. This never, ever works, honey. All it gets us is dumped, or a FWB guy for as long as we'll put up with it and then a broken heart when one of us finally walks away.
Please, faith... tell him AGAIN that you won't accept this half-assed situation. That you feel you deserve better than this. That you need space and time to figure out how you feel, to see if you feel like even trying to be friends with him, much less dating or more. Then END the sexual relationship; it's backfiring! You also have to END contact... NO CONTACT.. let it go, for just ONE month will help you get centered and gain clarity on what you truly want, need, and deserve. It will be SO HARD, to not take his calls, to delete his texts w/o reading them, to shut the door in his face. But you have to.. he will panic and try to talk you out of stopping this (very beneficial to him) relationship, just like he talked you out of it before. No, he DOESN'T want to lose you, he wants to keep things just how they are... him giving so little to you, and you jumping through hoops to be with him. This can't be the way you want things to stay, girl... and they will, for as long as you accept this poor behavior and lack of commitment from him. He has no reason to change, not really. He doesn't respect you or your feelings, and you will have to stand up for yourself if you're ever going to GET that respect from him.
If what you REALLY want is a relationship, girl you can't go along with this fucked up FWB situation and think it's going to magically blossom for him like it did for you. You aren't being true to yourself. You must INSIST on being respected.. you must be HONEST about what you want, and esp STRONG about what you DON'T want.
"Mr. Cappy, I really love spending time with you, but I feel confused and upset by this situation. I don't want to continue having casual sex with you, committed sex within a loving relationship feels better to me. I feel worried that you aren't ready or able to offer me what I'm looking for, and I don't want to waste my time. You are entitled to take all the time you need to decide what you want, but you cannot have me all to yourself while you're making up your mind. It feels wrong for me to close off my options before I have the kind of relationship I'm looking for, so I will be dating other men now."
And then DO date other men.. maybe lots of boring and not-so-sexy men, to help you break your addiction to the Cappy. Stay away from Cappy for ONE month to start. You cannot deal with Cappy from a place of addiction, from a place of weakness and acceptance of a situation that FEELS BAD to you.
Check your mail.
If what you REALLY want is a relationship, girl you can't go along with this fucked up FWB situation and think it's going to magically blossom for him like it did for you. You aren't being true to yourself. You must INSIST on being respected.. you must be HONEST about what you want, and esp STRONG about what you DON'T want.
"Mr. Cappy, I really love spending time with you, but I feel confused and upset by this situation. I don't want to continue having casual sex with you, committed sex within a loving relationship feels better to me. I feel worried that you aren't ready or able to offer me what I'm looking for, and I don't want to waste my time. You are entitled to take all the time you need to decide what you want, but you cannot have me all to yourself while you're making up your mind. It feels wrong for me to close off my options before I have the kind of relationship I'm looking for, so I will be dating other men now."
And then DO date other men.. maybe lots of boring and not-so-sexy men, to help you break your addiction to the Cappy. Stay away from Cappy for ONE month to start. You cannot deal with Cappy from a place of addiction, from a place of weakness and acceptance of a situation that FEELS BAD to you.
Check your mail.
Please, LovelyScorp.. take it with my blessings. That is a Feeling Message that I carefully scripted for her, but it's universal, a template for a woman to state what she does and does not want... in words that REACH a man WITHOUT making him feel attacked or blamed, and without him getting defensive. You're just talking about how you FEEL (which IS powerfully magnetic with men)... no blame or accusations, no demands on HIM to do anything about it. DON'T WANT is especially powerful, it sets our Boundaries and demands respect. I'd like to tweak it a little bit, though...
"Mr. Cappy, I really love spending time with you, but I feel confused and upset by this situation. I don't want to continue having casual sex with you, committed sex within a loving relationship feels better to me. I feel worried that you aren't ready or able to offer me what I'm looking for, and I don't want to waste my time or put pressure on you. You are entitled to take all the time you need to decide what you want, but you cannot have me all to yourself while you're making up your mind. It feels wrong for me to close off my options before I have the kind of relationship I'm looking for, so I will be dating other men now."
"Mr. Cappy, I really love spending time with you, but I feel confused and upset by this situation. I don't want to continue having casual sex with you, committed sex within a loving relationship feels better to me. I feel worried that you aren't ready or able to offer me what I'm looking for, and I don't want to waste my time or put pressure on you. You are entitled to take all the time you need to decide what you want, but you cannot have me all to yourself while you're making up your mind. It feels wrong for me to close off my options before I have the kind of relationship I'm looking for, so I will be dating other men now."
i like to think that she talks exactly the way she writes 🙂
Well maybe I want a endless supply of good dic!!! Lol
Posted by CapGal
He's just acting a little nicer to ensure he has an endless supply of your puzzy. That's how men behave when they are with an EASY woman. You told him what you wanted and he simply obliges. Geez, its not so hard to figure, is it??
I have never dated a married man!!!
Posted by LovelyScorp
you never answered the question in the last thread. Is he married?
if he wants you to be his gf he'll come right out and do it and not tip toe around the idea, maybe after he dumps his other gf...
Reality is I'm not looking to explore in a committed relationship with him or any other man at this present time. I didn't change my ways to accommodate my Cappy. Remember I've never dated a Cappy before! That's why I was getting an abundance of knowledge from this forum. At 1st thing were stupendous between us
and I made some major mistakes that resulted in a significant change in out relationship. I generated these mistake from being inexperience with a intricate Cappy man. I wouldn't play any type of games with my Cappy he's way to smart for that, plus I have too much respect for him to do that.
Posted by Nefer
This is more of the same, faith.. can you not see that? He's NO BETTER than he was, no matter how much you want him to be, and no matter how much YOU'VE changed to try being what you think he wants - your actions still say he can treat you any way he wants and you will take it. And playing those reverse-psychology mind-games is only going to work short-term, honey. You can't PRETEND anything, it backfires because your outside doesn't match up with your inside, and guys pick up on this really "off" vibe around you even if they have no idea what it is. But I feel so sad that you think you needed to change for some man who isn't even stepping up, isn't even offering you anything real and solid, but keeps sleeping with you. You are KILLING your chances of long term with this guy.... insisting on being respected by demanding an end to a one-sided "relationship" was a very good start.. but you negated it all by going back on it.. he's not giving you anything more.. a few sweet words about not wanting to lose you, and you're right back where you were before. Still not even close to a relationship, aside from a FWB-type thing. (Which is clearly messing you up inside, faith. Your perceptions are skewed, like most women get in these situations!)
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt here, faith.. maybe he LIKES you, even if he won't say so. The thing is, he doesn't like you ENOUGH to move things forward. If a man really wants to be with a woman, he will move mountains to be with her, period. He won't drag his feet and take her out once in awhile, and just keep having uncommitted, casual sex with her - for a year. A man who truly cares about a woman is concerned with how his various actions keep twisting her up and making her FEEL BAD... a man who cares will NO
Reality is I'm not looking to explore in a committed relationship with him or any other man at this present time. I didn't change my ways to accommodate my Cappy. Remember I've never dated a Cappy before! That's why I was getting an abundance of knowledge from this forum. At 1st thing were stupendous between us
and I made some major mistakes that resulted in a significant change in out relationship. I generated these mistake from being inexperience with a intricate Cappy man. I wouldn't play any type of games with my Cappy he's way to smart for that, plus I have too much respect for him to do that.
Posted by Nefer
This is more of the same, faith.. can you not see that? He's NO BETTER than he was, no matter how much you want him to be, and no matter how much YOU'VE changed to try being what you think he wants - your actions still say he can treat you any way he wants and you will take it. And playing those reverse-psychology mind-games is only going to work short-term, honey. You can't PRETEND anything, it backfires because your outside doesn't match up with your inside, and guys pick up on this really "off" vibe around you even if they have no idea what it is. But I feel so sad that you think you needed to change for some man who isn't even stepping up, isn't even offering you anything real and solid, but keeps sleeping with you. You are KILLING your chances of long term with this guy.... insisting on being respected by demanding an end to a one-sided "relationship" was a very good start.. but you negated it all by going back on it.. he's not giving you anything more.. a few sweet words about not wanting to lose you, and you're right back where you were before. Still not even close to a relationship, aside from a FWB-type thing. (Which is clearly messing you up inside, faith. Your perceptions are skewed, like most women get in these situations!)
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt here, faith.. maybe he LIKES you, even if he won't say so. The thing is, he doesn't like you ENOUGH to move things forward. If a man really wants to be with a woman, he will move mountains to be with her, period. He won't drag his feet and take her out once in awhile, and just keep having uncommitted, casual sex with her - for a year. A man who truly cares about a woman is concerned with how his various actions keep twisting her up and making her FEEL BAD... a man who cares will NO
She's a Leo. And I've blown my gasket at her before, because she doesn't listen to anyone who doesn't tell her what she wants to hear. :/
Very well, faith.. if you're truly HAPPY with this FWB situation, more power to ya and ignore what I've written. (What I wrote pertains to women who DO want committed relationships, not to be someone's casual sex partner.) I guess I'm more the type of woman who refuses to be a man's convenient piece of ass, the type to insist on a committed relationship over an FWB situation. I've had a guy drag his feet over committing before, been in situations where he was getting a whole lot more than he was giving, and it feels so awful inside when that's happening. My intention was only to help you find your way out of that sea of yucky feelings... though you insist you're fine. No problem. But I admit I'm very puzzled.. you seem to swing back and forth between talking like you want a full-on relationship with this Cappy, and then suddenly switch to the FWB thing is all you really want, it's so great. Back and forth. I'm getting whiplash, and can't keep up, I guess. Best of luck to ya. Maybe if nothing's changed in another year, when you decide you ARE ready for him to commit but he's still not stepping up, you might come back to re-read these old threads and be ready to try something new.
Very well, faith.. if you're truly HAPPY with this FWB situation, more power to ya and ignore what I've written. (What I wrote pertains to women who DO want committed relationships, not to be someone's casual sex partner.) I guess I'm more the type of woman who refuses to be a man's convenient piece of ass, the type to insist on a committed relationship over an FWB situation. I've had a guy drag his feet over committing before, been in situations where he was getting a whole lot more than he was giving, and it feels so awful inside when that's happening. My intention was only to help you find your way out of that sea of yucky feelings... though you insist you're fine. No problem. But I admit I'm very puzzled.. you seem to swing back and forth between talking like you want a full-on relationship with this Cappy, and then suddenly switch to the FWB thing is all you really want, it's so great. Back and forth. I'm getting whiplash, and can't keep up, I guess. Best of luck to ya. Maybe if nothing's changed in another year, when you decide you ARE ready for him to commit but he's still not stepping up, you might come back to re-read these old threads and be ready to try something new.
Hahaha I love youre new profile pic LovelyScorp!!!!!!
SURE, its a flower.
BUT IT LOOKS LIKE SUNSHIIIINE TA ME!!! lol 🙂
SURE, its a flower.
BUT IT LOOKS LIKE SUNSHIIIINE TA ME!!! lol 🙂
So which is the lie? That you are truly IN LOVE WITH this man, or that you're truly happy to be only his FWB and don't want a committed relationship with him?
Because it can't be both, sweetie. And you're deluding yourself if you believe both are true. Don't lie to yourself in order to lie to us. You're better and stronger than that. FFS, you're a Leo!
Because it can't be both, sweetie. And you're deluding yourself if you believe both are true. Don't lie to yourself in order to lie to us. You're better and stronger than that. FFS, you're a Leo!
Posted by SuperCap
Hahaha I love youre new profile pic LovelyScorp!!!!!!
SURE, its a flower.
BUT IT LOOKS LIKE SUNSHIIIINE TA ME!!! lol 🙂
I must be a freak. It didn't look like a flower OR sunshine to me! 😉 LOL
Posted by LovelyScorp
it's a social experiment......and its working 😉
thread to follow later 🙂
cannot WAIT for the thread!!! ( wiping this grin off my face)
Posted by NeferPosted by SuperCap
Hahaha I love youre new profile pic LovelyScorp!!!!!!
SURE, its a flower.
BUT IT LOOKS LIKE SUNSHIIIINE TA ME!!! lol 🙂
I must be a freak. It didn't look like a flower OR sunshine to me! 😉 LOLclick to expand
.......you naughty Nefertiti you...😉
Posted by CapGalPosted by faith $ golphin
The sex got even better!!! He's verbally expressing his feelings when we have sex now.click to expand
ANY MAN CAN VERBALLY EXPRESS THEMSELVES WHEN THEY HAVE SEX. ITS A FACT.
all i can say is, its a hopeless case. You can only learn the hard way, since you won't listen to what anybody is saying. When you find yourself alone, rejected, feeling used, unloved and down...you will know what people meant on hea. Most of these people, are old enough to know what they are talking about. If you cannot realize that, you, being a woman in todays world, a working woman, deserves better than a trashy guy who continues to use and abuse, yet you're taking it down with a spoon full of sugar...huni, you only have yourself to blame. He cares. But that does not mean that he cares enough to wana be with you truly. As your companion. To get a little somethin something, yeah!! but somehow its like you're telling this guy its okay. Come back and get some more whenever you wana ill be right here waiting.
A man, and especially a cap man, will never ever love a woman who does not respect herself. Who doesn't stand up for her infinite worth. Who doesn't have the courage to c whats right infront of her!!!The truth is right infront of u. You urself know it deep down.
i know this feeling of being used...😢
hmm. sounds like this cappy is baiting her. he will say what needs to be said in order to have her cake. or maybe he is interested. i dont tend to like easy women. or weak ones. not saying she is weak or easy. anyone can get thier mind fucked with. hell i thought this cancer was fucking around with me but she was actually playing around. happens when you pick on oithers. they pick back 😢
oh i injoy it lol. especially if they are younger lol. teasing is fun.
maybe she does. im not getting into her business.
i am new lol.
hlete and he never had a problem getting pretty women. He gain maybe 35 pounds since he stop playing but he is still sexy as ever!!
Posted by TasteOfChaosPosted by LovelyScorp
I wish he could post. Now THAT would be interesting 😉
Spooky! I was thinking the EXACT same thing!
I think he would defend her/the sex though... He must have a hard time getting laid (except when faith is around of course 😉)
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etty honest and open about everything. I'm sure he have strong feelings for me. He's a nice looking guy that have a lot going for himself. We been thru a whole lot together. If feelings weren't involved from the both of us we would have been stop seeing each other.
Posted by LovelyScorpPosted by HappyCappy
hmm. sounds like this cappy is baiting her. he will say what needs to be said in order to have her cake. or maybe he is interested. i dont tend to like easy women. or weak ones. not saying she is weak or easy. anyone can get thier mind fucked with. hell i thought this cancer was fucking around with me but she was actually playing around. happens when you pick on oithers. they pick back 😢
HappyCappy, I can't imagine you picking on anybody. Shame on you 🙂click to expand
etty honest and open about everything. I'm sure he have strong feelings for me. He's a nice looking guy that have a lot going for himself. We been thru a whole lot together. If feelings weren't involved from the both of us we would have been stop seeing each other.
Posted by LovelyScorpPosted by HappyCappy
hmm. sounds like this cappy is baiting her. he will say what needs to be said in order to have her cake. or maybe he is interested. i dont tend to like easy women. or weak ones. not saying she is weak or easy. anyone can get thier mind fucked with. hell i thought this cancer was fucking around with me but she was actually playing around. happens when you pick on oithers. they pick back 😢
HappyCappy, I can't imagine you picking on anybody. Shame on you 🙂click to expand
Those woman are haters! Maybe some of them was giving their honest opinions but they were clearly opinions and not factual.
Posted by MorningMist
Naaahhh...you are new. But if you think this chick is obsessing about the cappy, the ladies that have had a problem with her about it have been obsessing about her even more. It's crazy. I think obsessive people stick together.
I'm not pretending and Im actually happy without being committed right now. I'm focus on my career at the present time and he's focus on his also. We have a lot in common and we really care for each other. We have fun together and that's all that really matter for now. We have great conversation about everything. My Cappy's like a homie love a friend if you know what I mean. As long as we respect each other we should be fine. At 1st we was fine and I did some deranged things that made his alarm go off. The things I done wasn't the norm for me. He have the real me now.
Posted by LovelyScorp
"Mr. Cappy, I really love spending time with you, but I feel confused and upset by this situation. I don't want to continue having casual sex with you, committed sex within a loving relationship feels better to me. I feel worried that you aren't ready or able to offer me what I'm looking for, and I don't want to waste my time. You are entitled to take all the time you need to decide what you want, but you cannot have me all to yourself while you're making up your mind. It feels wrong for me to close off my options before I have the kind of relationship I'm looking for, so I will be dating other men now."
Love this. If you don't mind Nefer, I'm going to put this in my back pocket and save it in case I need it later.
faith $ golphin, what's going to happen when you get tired of changing for him? When you want to be yourself? When the reverse psychology becomes too damn emotionally draining? Don't you want someone to love you for you? You shouldn't have to pretend to be anything you are not to please someone else. Don't lose yourself. Be you.
cookoocappy, troll troll troll troll troll troll troll troll troll....is it working——? 🙂
Amethyst2002 we do have feelings for each other, casual sex, feelings, emotions, whatever you would like to call it. I'm happy with our relationship the way it is. If things change to a more committed relationship so be it. I'm just not pushing for that right now. He has mentioned it several times but reality is we are focus on our careers right now. Being committed is cool but concentrating on furthering our achievements in life is much more important.
Posted by amethyst2002
...make up your mind. You talk like it's just casual sex, then you start bringing feelings and emotions into it. So much of what you say does NOT match up. Then you wonder why everyone talks "negative," about your situation.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/how-do-leo-woman-regain-a-capricorn-man-interest-1924503/#1924504>Read here
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/how-do-capricorn-react-when-they-are-jealous-1965220/#1965221>and Here
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/how-can-a-leo-woman-win-over-a-capricorn-man-1924520/#1924521>here too
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/Advice-to-rekindle-a-man% 27s-interest!!!-1926267.asp#1926268>and this one
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/strong-leo-woman-who-felt-week-for-a-capricorn-man-1938181/#1938182>and here.
He has a girlfriend, whom he neglected to mention at first, but he's clearly still with her. Faith keeps telling herself the girlfriend is a LIE he tells her to get under her skin. (But really - when a man tells you something like that - BELIEVE HIM!) So Faith has to SAY she's cool, fine, great, awesome with the crumbs he throws her way (sex mostly), because he's not offering her any more than that! They live in different states, hours away from each other, and have been sleeping together approx. ONE night a month... unless she tells him she has feelings for him, and he pulls away and ignores her for two months. This has been going on for a YEAR! Men don't respect women who allow themselves to be used like this. This man will never respect her because she's still bangin' him, still going along with his bullshit and making excuses for it, even after him saying he has a woman, even after he treats her so shabbily.
She's lying to herself in order to lie to us about how she really feels. She's so emotionally caught up and addicted to this Cap man who is using her for sex and ego-stroking.. she doesn't even know which way is up anymore! All of this makes me feel terribly sad - she SHOULD be spending her time and energy on herself, and with a man who doesn't do this to her, one who loves and adores her instead of making her feel insecure and crazy inside because all he wants is sex. She's inadvertently teaching her sons that women are like this, that it's okay for men to be like this. Someday the Cap man cheating on his woman to use another woman for FWB sex will be HER son. I wonder what her stance will be then.. will she make excuses for him cheating and acting like a douche? Will she sympathize with the girl he's cheating on, or the one he's cheating with?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/how-do-capricorn-react-when-they-are-jealous-1965220/#1965221>and Here
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/how-can-a-leo-woman-win-over-a-capricorn-man-1924520/#1924521>here too
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/Advice-to-rekindle-a-man% 27s-interest!!!-1926267.asp#1926268>and this one
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/strong-leo-woman-who-felt-week-for-a-capricorn-man-1938181/#1938182>and here.
He has a girlfriend, whom he neglected to mention at first, but he's clearly still with her. Faith keeps telling herself the girlfriend is a LIE he tells her to get under her skin. (But really - when a man tells you something like that - BELIEVE HIM!) So Faith has to SAY she's cool, fine, great, awesome with the crumbs he throws her way (sex mostly), because he's not offering her any more than that! They live in different states, hours away from each other, and have been sleeping together approx. ONE night a month... unless she tells him she has feelings for him, and he pulls away and ignores her for two months. This has been going on for a YEAR! Men don't respect women who allow themselves to be used like this. This man will never respect her because she's still bangin' him, still going along with his bullshit and making excuses for it, even after him saying he has a woman, even after he treats her so shabbily.
She's lying to herself in order to lie to us about how she really feels. She's so emotionally caught up and addicted to this Cap man who is using her for sex and ego-stroking.. she doesn't even know which way is up anymore! All of this makes me feel terribly sad - she SHOULD be spending her time and energy on herself, and with a man who doesn't do this to her, one who loves and adores her instead of making her feel insecure and crazy inside because all he wants is sex. She's inadvertently teaching her sons that women are like this, that it's okay for men to be like this. Someday the Cap man cheating on his woman to use another woman for FWB sex will be HER son. I wonder what her stance will be then.. will she make excuses for him cheating and acting like a douche? Will she sympathize with the girl he's cheating on, or the one he's cheating with?
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Okay, so I have this court case I have to go fight today -- thats if you can call it that, actually I think I'm just bei
There was this capricorn man I seen a few times at parties and random get together who was friends with my best friend,
yep,,,,virgo here putting it out there Can't handle real so move on, ok? So I'm not skilled in this area but LO
I have made many changes with my CAPPY. Examples; I changed the way I behave; I changed the way I think; the way I approach and the way I respond to him. These changes along with a conversation I had with him, about not being interest anymore
helped our friendship significantly. I just used reverse psychology on him. I told him I was putting too much into our friendship/relationship and I just wanted to be just friends without any sexually attachments. I let him know I still love him and I wasn't involved with anyone else that helped me to come up with this conclusion. I basically told him I was tired of this one sided relationship.
My Cappy was extremely concern and he stated by me wanting to end everything wasn't the solution to our problem. He asked me what he could do to make things better. He also asked me if he change would I be able to handle every thing. He ask me this because he use to show his emotions and affection plus he would call all the time and when he didn't I thought he was up to something. I would become a nag and constantly get on his nerves. I??ve change because I'm sure he cares about me now and I don't need to ask strangers that have no knowledge of our relationship.
He treats me to dinner and he invites me places with him. The sex got even better!!! He's verbally expressing his feelings when we have sex now. He even cuddles with me!!! LOL He's got a lot better but we still have a long way to go before commitment although he have been bringing the conversation up a lot..