Hey, I can get angry!!!

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by lildol on Saturday, July 10, 2010 and has 19 replies.

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Yes, I can! And I yelled too!!! The damn Virgo had me do his dirty work for him today... meek, sweet, little me. I wasn't so meek and sweet when I confronted him about putting me in the middle of his bullshit. I told I'm I'll go to bat for him whenever he needs me, but he needs to be forthright with me and give me all the facts before sending me into a fire storm! And, my presentation wasn't pretty (I pride myself on my reserve, but this was just too much). Although, I handled the fire storm with the tact and self assurance only a Cap can deliver! 😄

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It had to do with money (of course, I'm his financial manager/adviser these days) and he didn't give me all the facts of the situation - HELLO? I handled it fine though - I suppose it's a given, that is why he asked me. Maybe I should really question why I'm the only person he actually seems to trust, if not him, who he associates with...

He definitely saw a dif side of me though!!

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We're still going back and forth about it... not about my reaction or he not giving me the whole scoop, but about the situation and what "I" think he should do and how "we" should go forward... and this is his deal, how did it become an "us" thing— 😛

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Anyway, I just wanted to acknowledge the fact that I can get angry given, since, I, in general, fail in that emotion as I have stated elsewhere! I am vindicated!!!

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Posted by lildol
It had to do with money (of course, I'm his financial manager/adviser these days) and he didn't give me all the facts of the situation - HELLO? I handled it fine though - I suppose it's a given, that is why he asked me. Maybe I should really question why I'm the only person he actually seems to trust, if not him, who he associates with...

He definitely saw a dif side of me though!!

Okay, so he didn't lie to you. He sent you to take care of something without giving you all the info and there you are looking crazy because you believed with he told you was 'the whole truth' not 'part of the truth'. *rolls eyes* Virgos!! lol

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Posted by lildol
and, to top it off, he suggested that I was siding with "them" because of my response... AAAARRRRGGGGHHHHH

Are you serious? Its too bad I don't know the whole deal to really comment on it but okay, you had a right to voice your opinion about his situation since he PUT YOU IN IT lol!!!!!!!!

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adore the guy dearly... but, I'm feeling he's a little slimy!! Be that way with others if you think it gets ahead, don't be that way with me!!! Funny thing is (without going into details) he want's to steer me away from people like that.

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Posted by lildol
adore the guy dearly... but, I'm feeling he's a little slimy!! Be that way with others if you think it gets ahead, don't be that way with me!!! Funny thing is (without going into details) he want's to steer me away from people like that.

... do you two go out?

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Posted by cappysweetie

Posted by lildol
adore the guy dearly... but, I'm feeling he's a little slimy!! Be that way with others if you think it gets ahead, don't be that way with me!!! Funny thing is (without going into details) he want's to steer me away from people like that.

... do you two go out?

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I've been seeing him for about two months now (have you not followed the saga girl??). I'm his "go to girl" for opinion, direction and financial planning - affection, not so much (although, upon stating that a simple kiss may be insignificant to him means the world to me got me many). I just need to slap the guy upside his head a few times I think!!!

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Posted by lildol

Posted by cappysweetie

Posted by lildol
adore the guy dearly... but, I'm feeling he's a little slimy!! Be that way with others if you think it gets ahead, don't be that way with me!!! Funny thing is (without going into details) he want's to steer me away from people like that.

... do you two go out?

I've been seeing him for about two months now (have you not followed the saga girl??). I'm his "go to girl" for opinion, direction and financial planning - affection, not so much (although, upon stating that a simple kiss may be insignificant to him means the world to me got me many). I just need to slap the guy upside his head a few times I think!!!

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If I've commented on your situation, I've probably been following but OMG I just don't remember right now.

Ok, well as long as you know what you're doing with the new guy in your life, things should be fine, right?

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not sure... I like to be thought of as important and purposeful, but the comment, IDK, I've started answering his calls with "what can I do for you?" He has come back with that he just wanted to see how my day was going and if I was ok (always asks if I'm ok and can he do anything for me).