Need help being ignored by Capricorn male.

I have gone on two dates with a Capricorn male. But he is very aloof. I don't know if he likes me. After our second date it was me that asked whether he wanted to meet again. He said yes but the following week as he's busy next week with work.
I kissed him and I wasn't sure he even wanted to kiss me but it was that awkward moment leaving the car saying bye so I pecked him on the lips. As Id asked him out I thought I wouldn't contact him. He contacted him a few days later by text. He had very little to say and didn't reply back to me. I am a Taurus and I say what I think as a lot of the time when I don't say things it eats me up inside. Anyway. I messaged him an hour or two later and said I'm not keen on him being so aloof and not being able to see me in a week. I don't know why I sent that I was kind of hoping for him to say he's not interested or he is. I hate feeling like another guy is leading me up the garden path when he has no interest in me.
I like him. I used to like him ten years ago but now he hasn't replied to me and it has been a couple of days. I didn't think I was really pushy or emotional but I guess your not meant to speak your mind so early on. I seem to get nowhere with relationships even when I say nothing and then I find out further down the line I should have said something.

Is the Capricorn ignoring me because he is completely not interested? Did I totally mess things up? Will he come back after I leave him alone?.

Thanks for your help xxx

I don't think you did anything wrong. I think he's just not interested. In the early dating stage, a Capricorn will just fade out and hope you get the message.

Thanks. I will leave him alone. Maybe he isn't interested. But he was the one that asked for the second date and then text me a couple of days later. I give up with men 😢

Maybe too full on, id definitely back off now and let him come to you, if he's going to its more their style to pursue and they for sure will if interested

Thanks to be honest. I am pretty put off now. My feeling of worry has turned to disinterest. So if its a chase he wants hes now got it. All I flaming well did was be honest and say about him being aloof and busy that week. I am sick and tired of what you can and cant do with men. Whatever you do is wrong they don't know what they want and play you around for fool most of the time. Im glad I sent that message so I can now see the type of person I am dealing with. certainly not interested in someone whos going to ignore me when they choose.

Posted by Shell14
Thanks to be honest. I am pretty put off now. My feeling of worry has turned to disinterest. So if its a chase he wants hes now got it. All I flaming well did was be honest and say about him being aloof and busy that week. I am sick and tired of what you can and cant do with men. Whatever you do is wrong they don't know what they want and play you around for fool most of the time. Im glad I sent that message so I can now see the type of person I am dealing with. certainly not interested in someone whos going to ignore me when they choose.

I don't think you did anything wrong.

I think, though, with men, if you're the right one, you can do whatever you want and it won't matter to them. You can do no wrong with the right guy.

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Posted by Shell14
Thanks to be honest. I am pretty put off now. My feeling of worry has turned to disinterest. So if its a chase he wants hes now got it. All I flaming well did was be honest and say about him being aloof and busy that week. I am sick and tired of what you can and cant do with men. Whatever you do is wrong they don't know what they want and play you around for fool most of the time. Im glad I sent that message so I can now see the type of person I am dealing with. certainly not interested in someone whos going to ignore me when they choose.

I don't think you did anything wrong.

I think, though, with men, if you're the right one, you can do whatever you want and it won't matter to them. You can do no wrong with the right guy.

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I like that.

I feel you, Shell. Going through the same, being ignored (less than 48 hours so far), but I haven't even met my guy in person yet. I posted today about my ordeal, how we had a great 12 days straight of constant communication, then he came back home to our city from being away for a month (we met and started communicating while he was traveling), and yesterday, a day after he came back, he was short, abrupt, and didn't call when he said he wanted to talk. I called him, but didn't respond or return my call. I'm so confused, hurt, and sad. But he just may have a lot to catch up with after being gone for so long. Hopefully, he'll reach out to me in the next few days.

"I am sick and tired of what you can and cant do with men" -- soooo resonates with me. Why can't they just be real, don't play games, and be straightforward? Hope things have gone well for you. Feel free to read my post if you're up for it. It will make you feel at the least that you're not alone. ha Let us know of any updates if you have any.

Capricorn men are sort of boring. They don’t like to keep going out all the time spending hard earn money, especially if he don’t really have a lot. Maybe he just don’t want to go out. Tell him you will treat him to lunch and see if he responds. Tell him you would like to meet him at the park and sit in the car and talk. See if he responds to that. He could not be into u enough to keep going out spending on you. After the kiss most men are trying to see what’s it hitting for lol I don’t what’s up with this one.