Need more advice..anyone?

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Aquarius29
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Hello everyone, I need some advice...I've been talking to a cappy man for about 2 months now.. I really like him and I think he likes me he even introduced me to his parents. but we don't talk as much as I'd like..and we have talked about this and he said he didn't know if I felt the same way and that he didn't want to bother me..I told how I felt and he called everyday for 4 days after that..then one day he called and I missed the call and he told me to call him when I get the msg which I did and he didn't answer, call back 2x more times and left a msg and I haven't heard from him since...it's been a week now...what's up with that...should I call or just leave it alone...Confused.
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krobe03
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Krobe,
I sent another msg on another board for you. Capricorn men are very, very, GOOD men. I have tamed one for 10.5 years now. WHOA! IT WAS ROUGH! They get a thrill out of challenges. Stay HARD< HARD< HARD. No mean NO. But make his ass work for you! Don't make him feel that what he is doing for you is that much appreciated. Where talking about a SLOW, SLOW mover here. Its been 10.5 years and I am finally getting my capricorn male to tell me what I want to hear. He is very, very, unaffectionate. Its by nature. Not intentionally. THATS HIM. At night I hug my cappy man when he is sleep and kiss him, and he tells me to leave him alone he is tired. He doesn't want to talk or have sex. Leave him alone at that time. He will eventually wake up and come around and want you. Then tell him to leave you ALONE. Respect me. I'm sleep! I tried talking to you earlier, you didn't feel like talking you missed out. That kind of attitude. Be unpredictable as you can. I think all men like this. He is stable. I'm not. But since I have been with him he has MADE me stable. Don't show emotions. He will for some reason scold you for it. I am a Leo-sun, cancer-ascendent, taurus-moon). I'm double stubborn. Im no pretender. This is what your going to get! He now asks me to marry him, and I tell him i'm not ready yet! It splits his wig! But he easily says OK, I give you ten more years if you want. I can't explain this unaffectionate, cold feeling. You will have to experience IT! When I tell him he is unaffectionate, especially while he is sleep, he blurts out, "Baby, I don't mean to be." And I know he means it. But don't let him think that hes got you. As unaffectionate as my mate is, I have made him cry! Cry his ass off. Not intentionally, but if you don't want to lighten that cold heart up. I will. That attitude! Hope this helps.
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Aquarius29
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18 Years

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Krobe03...Thanks very much, your words were very helpful and they seem to make a lot a since...and since you've been with your cap for 10.5 I think that's pretty good advice and just so you know...I talked to him like a week and a half later and he told me he was out of town working now, but he had been sick (which I knew this because during the week he was calling me almost everyday he could barely talk on the phone)and he said he was in hospital for 3x with an allergic reaction to meds...oh yeah he told me all this over a text? and I haven't talk to him again in 3x days but I'm glad I talk to him b/c now, Im not sweating it ...if it works, it works but...I can't stress out about it like that anymore.
Thanks
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krobe03
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Hey Aquarius29,
Can I give you a word of advice? I know it sounds crazy, but I worked two full time jobs, and went to college full time until I earned my degree. I didn't have time to think about our relationship much which didn't put pressure on him or me because I was so busy trying to reach goals in life. THIS HELPS! I looked up and we were together for 8 years. I was like d--- we have been together 8 years at that time. Now, I have the potential to earn 100+ a year. If it doesn't work out, at least I KNOW that I can take care of myself! But don't let being a independent woman get in the way, because capricorn men want to be the bread winner, and THEY-will GIVE you there WHOLE paycheck if they fear you have better options.

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krobe03
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CapAngel,
I think what I might be saying is misleading. I don't mean that he is mean, that he doesn't have feelings, that he doesn't show love. I'm just alot more emotional than he is. I am a female. When I hug him, he doesn't want me to all the time, sometimes he shruggs me off. I call that unaffectionate. I might want a kiss on the lips, he gives me his cheek. You may not need men to shower you with affection, you are a capricorn. When I slow dance with him, he doesn't move the way I want him. He stands there. To me that is cold. He is a good man. No I don't mean it like that. But to emotional people who are very affectionate. Capricorns are unaffectionate. NOT unfeeling, just cold natured. Maybe you know someone who is very affectionate, however, you may not want them to shower you with clingy behavior all the time. To that person, you are unaffectionate. His ascendent is sagittarius (I know), moon aries I believe.