Never come across a Capricorn male..

Hi everyone!!

I am an aries female, i was recently in lust with a cancer male.. for 3 long years but things were painfully slow, nothing happened and the crab boy barely came out of his shell.

So i came across a capricorn male, who seems alot more confident and outgoing. We were out with a group of friends, and he said from afar but out loud about me, 'I like this girl, she is on another level'

I was confused at first, as i hadnt even had a proper conversation with him. so i looked at his friend, puzzled, and his friend said trust me, take it as a compliment.

I messaged the capricorn the next day, saying thank you. He replied, NO WORRIES!

I am just wondering whether to pursue the capricorn and how to go about it? I hear capricorns like to initiate things. I do like him. He seems incredibly ambitious and talented.

What have your experience been with an aries girl?

"in lust with a cancer male"

LOL ...Glad U kept it real.

You went from a cancer guy because of his slow moving ass only to find a capricorn..lol..good luck with making him move any faster!..they are polar opposites after all.

well, as a capricorn with a lot of aries in his chart, i think you answered your own question. it's rare, but it happens, that capricorns will initiate something, but don't be thrown off if it doesn't happen immediately (but it might take a little long). if you couldn't handle it with the cancer, i'm sure you will with the capricorn as long as you tell him how you feel. something simple like "you're cute" should work. the fire in me wants something straight up and to the point, without wasting any time, but my earthiness requires a little caution. while caps can be straight forward, we take a long time to look before we leap.

just go ahead and bang your head on the table and pull your hair out and you will be ready for the cap...good luck d:

warholian, thank you so much! I feel like its a lot more easier to talk to this cap boy. Its almost impossible to talk to the cancer boy, we are both painfully shy around eachother. There is definately something different about this cap boy. I will be taking your advice. I am an honest person, although I do hear that capricorns don't like to express their feelings a lot? Would this get in the way, or in time will there a balance between sharing emotions?

haha tiki33. Why are people so negative! I find cancer and capricorn behaviour very intriguing. I dated a leo for 4 years and have always attracted leo guys.. but i need change.

thats not negative, thats truth lol...he's a huge change....you will soon see

I heart Cap men

"I do hear that capricorns don't like to express their feelings a lot?"

this is true. we do express ourselves. sometimes in covert ways, materialistically, or when the balloon bursts. from my experience, it has NEVER been enough, even when i thought i couldn't do any more. if trust is established, and you know that you like each other, take that to heart. we capricorns HATE wasting our time and would not stick around with someone if there wasn't true feelings there (which is why we are prone to staying in abusive relationships). i doubt that you will get that balance of sharing that you're looking for, but trust me, there is plenty of other stuff that will more than make up for it.

ps. i've said it before and i'll say it again: to be with a capricorn, you have got to get yourself a hobby. we stay busy and unfortunately, that has nothing to do with our feelings for you.

Cappies display their feelings more through action than with words. You have to be patient though