PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Virgo woman needs help with cappy. We met in February of last year we talked for a little bit. i thought he was an complete ass. so i stopped talking to him. he contacted me again may of last year. so i figured this time ill take a chance to get to really know him. and turns out hes a cool guy. but just likes to play mind games. hes 44 and im 37. we never met until june of last year. in between time we would just see each other when time remits. we have had many dis agreements and he would be a no show. always used its his work. i understand that cappy men work alot but so much that they dont have a life i dont understand. he once wanted me to have sex with him in a parking lot i wasnt ready. thats when our relationship fell apart. and since then it hasnt been right. he told me a little while back he was getting married and i know that this is a lie. he says he moving this too is a lie. i have told him how i feel but its like hes not hearing me. is it just time for me to walk away. im already starting to not have feelings for him anymore or should i just wait him out—— and to add he visits all of my pages online why if he doesnt want me— Tanking you in advance confused....

You know, another chick in the Libra forum did the same, stupid thing you did- tried to post your ridiculous stories in the update section of your profile. WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT. This is a forum, not fucking Facebook. :/ So effing bizarre.

I'm seriously wondering if we're getting an influx of trolls around here. So many ridiculous stories showing up.

If they're legit, that's just effing depressing.

Personally: as a Sag, I've fucked my Cappy in parking lots, mine and his cars, and random dead end streets... After a decade, sometimes it's nice to be a little naughty, and spice things up!
But to your question OP, honestly, if any man, of any sign (sorry man or woman) gets pissy Bc you don't want to have sex with them, then that's a clear as day sign, (more like a RED flag) that, that's all they wanted from jump! If someone respects you, and actually has feelings for you, then they would respect your feelings and wishes, even if it made them a little down. They certainly wouldn't turn around and show their ass, if they were truly into you for something outside of the bedroom... Or in this case, the parking lot. Lol sorry not a funny situation, just funny for what I wrote. I hope what my two cents are, has helped in some way! I wish you luck whichever way you decide to move forward! 🙂

OP, I must add... You deserve much much better than this!!! You are a grown woman, not a teenager, and should never allow some one to try to take advantage of you in this horrible way! Go find someone who will respect you, before and after (if they've earned the chance) sleeping with you!! He's out there, and this particular @sshole, needs to find some girl with no self respect of confidence in herself to fulfill his wishes! That certainly should NOT be you! And I repeat, NOT YOU!!! Smh he sounds like a complete and utter ass! Rubbish....

So FrenchKpricorn, your saying just because i didnt screw him when he wanted it i lost him? this man had this 90 day rule. and keep in mind i met him online in February we never met until june in person. so im wrong for not screwing on the 2nd date—?? get the fvck out of here. what ever happened the 90day rule that he had set? im looking for someone to marry me for me not because i screwed him on the 1st,2nd,or 3rd date or just so they can get my cookies on a regular. all of that will come with time. i want to build a relationship with someone before giving up the cookies. am i wrong for this too. how do you go from making plans to have a future with someone to barely speaking at all just because of not having sex when you want it— i think we as a people need to stop and figure out what true love is all about dont you—

and if he still wants to screw me FrenchKpricorn, why not just say that so we get it done so that all curiosity can stop?

You didn't bother to make your post readable, so I won't bother to answer your question. Sorry.

Posted by confused37
Virgo woman needs help with cappy. We met in February of last year we talked for a little bit. i thought he was an complete ass. so i stopped talking to him. he contacted me again may of last year. so i figured this time ill take a chance to get to really know him. and turns out hes a cool guy. but just likes to play mind games. hes 44 and im 37. we never met until june of last year. in between time we would just see each other when time remits. we have had many dis agreements and he would be a no show. always used its his work. i understand that cappy men work alot but so much that they dont have a life i dont understand. he once wanted me to have sex with him in a parking lot i wasnt ready. thats when our relationship fell apart. and since then it hasnt been right. he told me a little while back he was getting married and i know that this is a lie. he says he moving this too is a lie. i have told him how i feel but its like hes not hearing me. is it just time for me to walk away. im already starting to not have feelings for him anymore or should i just wait him out—— and to add he visits all of my pages online why if he doesnt want me— Tanking you in advance confused....

Are you dense? Of course it's time for you to walk away.

Posted by confused37
So FrenchKpricorn, your saying just because i didnt screw him when he wanted it i lost him? this man had this 90 day rule. and keep in mind i met him online in February we never met until june in person. so im wrong for not screwing on the 2nd date—?? get the fvck out of here. what ever happened the 90day rule that he had set? im looking for someone to marry me for me not because i screwed him on the 1st,2nd,or 3rd date or just so they can get my cookies on a regular. all of that will come with time. i want to build a relationship with someone before giving up the cookies. am i wrong for this too. how do you go from making plans to have a future with someone to barely speaking at all just because of not having sex when you want it— i think we as a people need to stop and figure out what true love is all about dont you—

He was being sarcastic....duh!!