Why would a Virgo Woman asks a lot of questions?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by FieryAries9108 on Monday, May 25, 2015 and has 10 replies.

Why a Virgo Woman Asks Many Questions

Virgo women ask many questions to understand you better and assess compatibility. Their curiosity stems from a desire for clarity and sincerity. Asking questions does not necessarily mean romantic interest but shows they value genuine communication and connection.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

I do the same shit. I'm a fellow earth sign..I realized I really want to get to know you more..atm...

I know I've been called a drill sergeant online. Haha lmao yeah it's overwhelming to the more emotional signs. I need strong. And mental stimulation which can happen right off the bat..

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Virgos really enjoy humanity so we like to know what makes people tick. But we also are very interested in the person we're into so ofc we'd like to see what makes him/her tick too. On that account, I agree about it being hard to distinguish friendliness from personal interest. Look for the "extra mile"..I have no idea how to phrase it.

Think of us as Scorpios in a way..but with softer edges to our inquisition campaign.

Look for our eyes lightning up when we talk to you. If we're only asking from a purely intellectual stance you will feel a more dettached perspective as opposed to us going "all in" in a way. There's an extra bit of vaseline on our robot eye system when we're into you.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Virgo out of friendship will approach it as an experiment. Gather details about your mind wanderings but won't go deeper.

Virgo who is into you..will insist on unveiling what made you have this opinion, they will backtrack through your life.

In the first instance, Virgo questions only your opinions and present thought patterns. In the second scenario, we want to map your entire life out and understand what made you be..this awesome person you are (since we like you, therefore you immediately seem interesting to us).

Example: Say you have a phobia.

Friendly Virgo will ask about it, talk about phobias of their own. Debate it, chit chat about it.

Interested Virgo will dig deeper, to try and understand when the phobia formed, what are the ways it can be surpassed..will surprise you with articles on it awhile after the conversation ended. Soothing patterns, emotional opening (novel concepts for virgos) will take precedence over dettached intellectual reasoning.

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@VirgoDragirl
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I ask a lot of question because I want to avoid talking about me.

Sometimes me asking so much question was mistaken as a sign that I'm interested in this boy or in this girl. Their reply used to be "Hey, I really enjoy you!" Those kind of comments sounds to me like I need to back off. It's just me, hot and cold at the same time. I blame my Scorpio moon.

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@spiritedcuriosities
11 Years

When I ask a lot of questions, I am either being conversational and polite, or I want to know you on a more personal level so that we can develop a solid friendship. Although my curiosities are sincere, they do not always mean that I am pursuing a person in a romantic or flirtatious manner. Often, I am interested in a friendship instead of a relationship.

If I want to pursue someone romantically, I do not bombard that individual with questions unless the subject matter intrigues me. I usually adopt a more distant approach, voicing a curiosity here or there, being careful not to betray my interest too quickly. 🙂 I take my sweet time getting to know the people who I am pursuing in a romantic manner because I want to maintain an air of mystery.