Are virgo's this straight forward?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Aquaunanswered on Thursday, April 9, 2015 and has 8 replies.

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@Aquaunanswered
12 Years

This is the virgo girl whom came up to me that night at a party whom I walked away from and whom I overheard discussing with her friends later how she must not be my type. The one whom seemed to ignore me for the rest of the night.
*Obviously I do not know if she was directing this at me or someone else
*Again I cannot bank on my alcoholic recall to be 100% correct

A few days down the track, and our whole university cohort (quite small), are practicing for exams. I was with my friends and she with hers. She comes up to my group and starts striking a conversation then essentially pulls me away to practice with her. We're flirting and affectionate the whole time. Now this felt awkward as I essentially felt also two friendship circles eyes on us not accustomed to her bold move. I simply let her guide me. In particular her male friends did not seem impressed watching on. Her best friend walked pass and I could almost pick up on a sly smile and chuckle as she carried on to her friends.

Now I am at a cross roads. On one hand I do like her. On the other I do not plan on being simply another follower for her to add to her legion of male fans. I just cannot pick which angle she is coming at.

Bare with me. It's just been a while since I've been in this situation especially after the scarring woman gave me a while back.

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@risesafterall
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Virgos will tell shit just the way it is.

And, you're very lucky to find a girl that guides you. If you do like her, make sure not to be her drag doll, otherwise you'll lose her interest and you'll become her 'brother' 😉

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@duchesslibro
11 Years1,000+ Posts

My Virgo had many very straightforward moments when we were early dating mixed with many moments of shyness.. swung back and forth. I loved it. Maybe something to do with all my Lib and his Lib Asc.

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@Aquaunanswered
12 Years

Thanks a million guys! You've helped me understand her a bit more and from a guy that's useless in the dating scene, that is so much appreciated.

Alas, I think my ship has sailed from all my stuff ups. Day after she went bit distant on me. I mean we had a moment where we were leaning on each other and had a little chat then she jumped off back to prepare for exams. That night, I unfortunately had some drinks with the guys and they pressed me to ask her out as I was too scared to. I did. She replied very excited about it but then stopped messaging me after I tried to carry the conversation the next day.

Still no reply to this day. I'm pretty bummed. I just wished she didn't make me so nervous that I did stupid things and acted like I didn't care. Guess I'll just watch from a far with pleasant content how her life unfolds and carry on my own way. I don't know if I should still buzz her about our plans after exams.

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@Aquaunanswered
12 Years

And with that I shall return back to the Aquas area. It's time I answered a few more questions out and help you lot rather than busting in here whenever I've had a problem then disappearing!

Hope you all have a great weekend!

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@Aquaunanswered
12 Years

Cheers again! Alas, I am still waiting for her reply and it is still nil. I'm not one to be desperate and message her again and I have not seen her in a while obviously because of different friendship circles, holidays and exam practicing groups.

We are part of quite a many social events throughout the year. Guess I shall leave it at that and see how we are when I see here. Hope you all faring well!