Ran into an old boyfriend

since my cuzzin passed away, we wanted to find his bestfriend which is my ex...my cuz-in-law and i didnt know how to get there but we said a prayer and asked for my deceased cuz to lead the way...we got there to his gma house, she got intouch with him, he called my phone, we went to his home from her home..he went to my house from there, got to my house i needed sum pampers for my son so i let my cuz drive to the store, so while she was gone I was feedin my kids cleanin my house, he made a pass at me...i told him that it was inappropriate behavior and i was not takin it there with him because we do not want the same things(although we do but not from each other lol ) . He then told me he was gonna give me everything that i wanted which was i want the ideal relationship, but he wasnts to get his career together to be able to take care of his woman , so he doesnt wanna jump back into it with me..he is a scorpio...long story short we dated in 07, due to my cuzzin who passed mom and everyone else in our buisness we didnt workout well, now we stayed up all night catchin up I did the relation comparison test and his birth chart(he gave me his time and was willin to have it done) he likes readin astrology too so it intrigued him heres his chart could anyone give me insight because I really didnt get him back in the days or rather i say I did nt think he was that into me from how he behaved. but he was always around me but he didnt express it like that he is very indecisive lol
his
Sun Scorpio 8.32 Ascendant Leo 20.21
Moon Libra 25.03 II Virgo 12.46
Mercury Scorpio 29.06 III Libra 10.14
Venus Scorpio 15.11 R IV Scorpio 12.57
Mars Aquarius 13.44 V Sagittarius 18.06
Jupiter Pisces 13.04 R VI Capricorn 21.10
Saturn Sagittarius 8.22 VII Aquarius 20.21
Uranus Sagittarius 20.05 VIII Pisces 12.46
Neptune Capricorn 3.39 IX Aries 10.14
Pluto Scorpio 7.21 Midheaven Taurus 12.57
Lilith Gemini 27.35 XI Gemini 18.06
Asc node Aries 20.43 XII Cancer 21.10

mine
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 28.33 Ascendant Libra 0.14
Moon Virgo 13.51 II Libra 26.39
Mercury Aquarius 2.46 III Scorpio 27.06
Venus Sagittarius 11.43 IV Capricorn 0.15
Mars Aries 7.28 V Aquarius 3.25
Jupiter Pisces 20.43 VI Pisces 3.50
Saturn Sagittarius 17.19 VII Aries 0.14
Uranus Sagittarius 24.38 VIII Aries 26.39
Neptune Capricorn 6.23 IX Taurus 27.06
Pluto Scorpio 9.48 Midheaven Cancer 0.15
Lilith C

now noone has posted to my thread,but I have new things to add to this now...the virgo and i have had a lil distance between us since my cuzzin's funeral, but we have talked and he says that i havent been talkin to him, but that he is gonna spend the night tonight if it is ok with me...although i have talked to the scorpio too since i am not in a relationship with either of these guys as of now, the scorpio says that he is gonna give me everything i am wantin in a relationship but he wants to get his career, he calls me everyday sayin he is just checkin in...my homeguls say that is something that guys do when they are into you but they know their ish isnt together like that , so what i want from my cap brothers and sisters is to give me some wisdom on what yalll think about my situation—?

I am not havin sex with either at this time but they both shhow interest but they seem very distant at times...they tell me i think to much and i do not give anything a chance i need to learn how to just go with the flow of things...neither is ready to committ which makes me say to hell with it, when ever they call ill talk to them, when ever they wanna come around im cool with it, but if either is ready to get exclusive and give me a relationship(even though they both say that they are with me) I am gonna let the other one go..
Is it wrong of me to do this, even though they both do not clearly want to be in a relationship right now??
What do yall think—

also mr m i would really appreciate if you took a looky at this guys chart resemblance to my chart from Jupiter on down.. why would it be so hard for a guy to understand if they and the female is compatible or not idk

I didn't comment at first because I thought you were in a relationship with the Virgo. I was like what is she doing lol?

I don't have much to add as far as the compatibility with the charts. All I can say is think hard about what you are ready for at this point in your life, and if neither guy is willing to give it to you then keep them both at a faaarr distance. It will only confuse and frustrate you, especially if you'd like more from them. I figure if a guy knows what he wants and he wants you, then he will not let you get away. Don't waste time on these guys telling you what you want to hear but not showing you anything.

Posted by lnana04
I didn't comment at first because I thought you were in a relationship with the Virgo. I was like what is she doing lol?

I don't have much to add as far as the compatibility with the charts. All I can say is think hard about what you are ready for at this point in your life, and if neither guy is willing to give it to you then keep them both at a faaarr distance. It will only confuse and frustrate you, especially if you'd like more from them. I figure if a guy knows what he wants and he wants you, then he will not let you get away. Don't waste time on these guys telling you what you want to hear but not showing you anything.

i know it did look a lil crazy thats why i went back and added to it, but your right .
i talked to scop and he told me he wanted to take things slow this time and get to know eachother all over again instead of rushin back into things like in the past..so i respected that but then the virgo started to hit me up again comin back into my life

Im fine virgo69..mr m,and ana thanks for tryin too..scorp says he wants to take things slow and advance into his career,he doesnt want to have sex cause it will be harder for him to stay focused..pretty much same thing that happened with virgo man,which he and I are at friends level now, choosin between the two is narrowed down to time will only tell who I will be with..scorp says hes goin back to the military,so regardless I may lose one to prison and one to the military..but for now I do c scorp cared in the past and now he does come over cuddle,watch movies,even spends time with the fam,mom loves him,kids too,and he told my mom when he goes off everything will be fine for us,he sounded almost like he was bout to ask her for my hand n marriage ,lol maybe im just overanaylzin

I don't think it's wrong to talk to two guys at once. Then again I am a sag 😉

I was talking to a scorpio and a leo for a bit. I didn't take it to a physical level with the scorpio because I wasn't sure who I wanted to be with, but once I decided I quit communication with the leo and showed the scorpio I was interested, and it didn't take long.

Sorry, what I mean to say is you should probably decide soon because if one finds out you're talking to another he may find you unloyal and drop you. Which I guess isn't so bad if it's only one of them, cus then your decision is made. But just be careful. I made my decision pretty quick. I have a feeling you should pick the scorpio, but just be sure the person you pick is someone you can be 100% sure about.

I wasn't sure about either of the guys I was talking to, but after a bit of time testing both I knew 100% the scorpio was the man I wanted to be with.

Good luck 😉

Your rite virgo69 and im bein patient

Wit each guy we can make love through eachothers eyes,thats been the confusin part for me..the scorp guy I have history with so I feel more comfortable cuz I can just be myself and it all works out n the end..so guys with this guy I really have some strong feelins for but I made a huge mistake with him and dont know how to fix it or even if he will forgive me bbut he acts like its kool but I know hes upset and bothered by it so what do I do

i see there is two of these forums now speakin bout a cap and scorp, but with all of thoses opinions in that other thread it has made me come to a realization of my situation, people do you actually know weather or not you and someones birth chart is compatible or not, because it could go either or way in the end because of those aspects in your chart, so the reason im here is to see do anyone know how to examine our charts together to tell me is this a good pairin by charts cause i see what i get but need more of a readin bout our charts cause on cafe astrology that does say its a good match but both have to be mature and willin to be able to compromise in this relationship

I think you should stop trippin and just let what will happen, happen. The scorp sounds like a decent man and you are probably a decent woman. So accept what grace has bought into your life. Enjoy that you have someone in your life who wants to be in your life that looks promising.