scorpiforlife
@scorpiforlife
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Scorpio Woman & Capicorn Man
I have a Scorpio moon and would tell you just one thing. If you don't feel safe with him, then better to quit everything. You cannot allow yourself being constantly hurt. You need to create an environment for yourself that you like. Being there for him, and listening to his family problems, does that help you? You even gave him support by listening about his son and wife. That was something he had to deal with before entering in a relationship. That is not a bargain that you need to take, if he is not treating you right.
@ Anaphora: I have no idea what you are talking about. Is the guy a Scorpio moon or are you talking about yourself?
@Scorpiforlife: I am a 27 year old January 13th Cap as well though chances are that he has some slightly different placements.
Let's recap:
- You got mad because he had a son and didn't tell you
(Not that strange, it is a turn off when dating people. How did he tell you?)
- Asked him about his ex while you knew this was a sensitive subject because he just broke up with her again
(Besides, it is none of your business to go snooping in his old relationships. Just don't do it. There is a reason why they broke up)
- You looked him up at work to talk about your relationship. BIG NO NO
(Crazy psycho ex +1)
- Changed your cellphone number to cut him off
(But only after he told you he didn't want anything to do with you anymore. That's called taking revenge)
Either that guy is a complete psycho and you would be better served staying away from him.
The more likely scenario is that YOU did much more than you wrote here or made the classic mistake of continuing trying to contact him when he was trying to get some distance between you two to get his head straight. From your reactions the best thing I can say is that you are wishy washy. Breaking up and making up repeatedly.
Look up his chart. If he has similar placements as me I can perfectly understand his response. I get the feeling you were boxing him in, prodding for secrets and couldn't leave things be. I would run too.
If a girl cannot take the hint when I try to break up I will get rude. Very rude. That's why he sent his colleague instead of face you himself at work.
WHEN I AM AT WORK I AM WORKING. DO NOT BRING MY PERSONAL SHIT TO WORK!
When my now ex-Virgo came to work I would give her a quick kiss but then keep going. When I am at work I am in a completely different mindset than when I am in private. Nothing personal, I will still love that someone and treat her like a princess when we are together.
I know you probably don't understand what happened and are trying to understand what went wrong. But you won't get those answers from him. Especially not from him.
Leave it be and move on.
@Scorpiforlife: I am a 27 year old January 13th Cap as well though chances are that he has some slightly different placements.
Let's recap:
- You got mad because he had a son and didn't tell you
(Not that strange, it is a turn off when dating people. How did he tell you?)
- Asked him about his ex while you knew this was a sensitive subject because he just broke up with her again
(Besides, it is none of your business to go snooping in his old relationships. Just don't do it. There is a reason why they broke up)
- You looked him up at work to talk about your relationship. BIG NO NO
(Crazy psycho ex +1)
- Changed your cellphone number to cut him off
(But only after he told you he didn't want anything to do with you anymore. That's called taking revenge)
Either that guy is a complete psycho and you would be better served staying away from him.
The more likely scenario is that YOU did much more than you wrote here or made the classic mistake of continuing trying to contact him when he was trying to get some distance between you two to get his head straight. From your reactions the best thing I can say is that you are wishy washy. Breaking up and making up repeatedly.
Look up his chart. If he has similar placements as me I can perfectly understand his response. I get the feeling you were boxing him in, prodding for secrets and couldn't leave things be. I would run too.
If a girl cannot take the hint when I try to break up I will get rude. Very rude. That's why he sent his colleague instead of face you himself at work.
WHEN I AM AT WORK I AM WORKING. DO NOT BRING MY PERSONAL SHIT TO WORK!
When my now ex-Virgo came to work I would give her a quick kiss but then keep going. When I am at work I am in a completely different mindset than when I am in private. Nothing personal, I will still love that someone and treat her like a princess when we are together.
I know you probably don't understand what happened and are trying to understand what went wrong. But you won't get those answers from him. Especially not from him.
Leave it be and move on.
Posted by TigerCap
@ Anaphora: I have no idea what you are talking about. Is the guy a Scorpio moon or are you talking about yourself?
@Scorpiforlife: I am a 27 year old January 13th Cap as well though chances are that he has some slightly different placements.
Let's recap:
- You got mad because he had a son and didn't tell you
(Not that strange, it is a turn off when dating people. How did he tell you?)
- Asked him about his ex while you knew this was a sensitive subject because he just broke up with her again
(Besides, it is none of your business to go snooping in his old relationships. Just don't do it. There is a reason why they broke up)
- You looked him up at work to talk about your relationship. BIG NO NO
(Crazy psycho ex +1)
- Changed your cellphone number to cut him off
(But only after he told you he didn't want anything to do with you anymore. That's called taking revenge)
.
I wasn't the one doing all the break up, it was mostly him.
Also, I mentioned he worked in a strip mall, there are about 50 other stores there. It's a large strip mall. So, no I never did go into his work. I would NEVER go into someones work that just sounds ridiculous.
And yeah, I guess I did run across his exes profile considering me and his mom are friends on Facebook and it wasn't a new break up. It happened two years ago, and he saw her one weekend a month to get his child from her. I was dating him and I had a right to know why she was like that and what he was doing. Especially after he said he never sees her and then she turns around once a month a post a picture and he's in it. So no i never went into his work and since we were dating I did have a right to know things, but thanks anyways. And since he was the one insisting on coming by every night, he was the one blocking me in. Not the other way around.
Also, TigerCap, they never got back together.. he was trying to work things out only for his son and didn't realize his ex had a new boyfriend already. But, seriously, thanks for making me sound like the destroyer in the relationship.
Posted by scorpiforlife
But, seriously, thanks for making me sound like the destroyer in the relationship.
In that case, my apologies.
The information you just posted paints a very different picture.
The guy is probably a psycho or immature. Don't bother trying to understand him.
Posted by scorpiforlife
[...]"I broke up with him"[...] I decided to look past it and we got back together and then we broke up a month later because he didn't felt that he saw me enough (it lasted 2 weeks). Then we got back together for a month and then we split it off again when he said he was going to try and work things out with his sons mother (lasted a month). He came back again and decided that he wanted to see me every single week day [...] Then he broke it off again because I asked him one thing about his exes facebook.
Still that's four times you two break up and get back together again. For whatever reason something isn't working yet you two keep going back to each other. I understand the attraction between Scorps and Caps can be strong (I know) but what would you do if he told you he wanted to try again? Would you take him back?
He probably should not have been getting into a relationship that soon. He clearly was not ready.
TigerCap, I probably would take him back, but I'd lay down the law that if did it again I'd leave. But, who really knows if he will ever come back.. Oh well.
The guy is probably a psycho or immature. Don't bother trying to understand him.
Yeah, he probably is. I knew that when I first got with him. He's a Marine and hes been deployed three times. I knew something was probably mentally wrong from the beginning, but I still tried to accept him for him :/.
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