Seriously?!? .... got burned by another capricorn

So I haven't posted on this site in a while, usually it was about my other capricorn (who still hasn't changed his ways) but I still haven't seen him/talked to him in months. (He's tried but I'm not really into it.)

In the span of the past few months I was getting closer to another one of my cap guy friends. In the beginning, he was full force hitting on me, flirting, etc. Then out of nowhere he'd go all distant on me, so I'd give him space and he'd be back in no time. I've accepted him and his strange moodyness. I have opened up to him a lot (ugh! Its so easy for me to talk to you caps! its like you guys just GET me.) But anyways, just last week he was texting me all these sweet things, and then this weekend I text him that we should go out for a drive and he never answered me so I went with another friend and I text him later on in the night "hey we missed you" and he goes "sorry" I'm like, "its ok. theres always other nights!" and he answered "I'm kinda seeing someone" and I go, "oh?" .... he answers "its complicated" thats the last I hear... :/

This all just hit me out of nowhere.
*sigh* I mean, cool for him, Thats great, he deserves to be happy but this really just threw me off completely.
I wanted to go on that drive with him so I can tell him I was having feelings for him. Guess that won't be happening!

I'm always just inches away from what I want.... then I fall into a hole. lol.

Could it be that--right from the beginning-- Cap no.2 realized that you were still recovering from your previous break-ups and that he was just being there for you as a friend? Maybe his "hitting on you" & flirtations were his way of distracting you from your melancholic mood? And in recent times he may have noticed that you're more cheerful & positive (judging by your recent posts on the Pisces forum) and decided that his job is done? It's possible that he may not have realized that the reason why you're more positive & cheerful is because you have developed feelings for him.

If there is one thing I've learned being a Pisces with a 20 plus year relationship with a Cap man is that we as Pisces must learn to let Cap man reveal his intentions first before we fall under his spell. LOL I know. Hard to do right? Especially since they do "get us" in a big way and that we seem to belong together in spite of our differences in personality. Don't feel too bad though. It happens to us all...the mixed signals that we interpret the wrong way. Not saying Mr.Cap was intentionally leading you on or anything. That's just the way the chemistry flows between us Pisces and Caps. I would just let it go for now and let him figure out what he's doing with the "someone" he mentioned. That could only be a passing fancy and not last for long and then you might have another shot. If you do and you still want one let this man come to you. When a Cap man knows what he wants he doesn't waste time, his or yours. He could very well be attracted to you beyond just friendship but due to his present situation with "someone" and your redent past with your last Cap, he may not be ready for more with you. But there is always hope. Just keep the lines of communication open, be a good friend and then proceed forward with your own life and opportunities with other men.

Aww Pidelight you've been with your Cap 20+yrs? That's good!

Please excuse my randomness, but I was watching a movie last night with a Pisces woman and Cap male playing love interests, and although it was just a movie, they looked like gold together. I've never seen a better looking couple on screen or in real life.

dreamingpisces, I agree that just give it time. the whole "it sounds complicated" doesn't sound like anything too serious right now, or even anything he's optimistic about. I wouldn't wait on him, but you may definitely get your chance.

wow so I just had to come back to this thread....

yeahhh. him and his gf finished about a month or more ago.
but he still disappeared for a bit.
and my feelings still haven't changed.

I've spent the majority of this year pushing others away, including him. being afraid to live my life and accept love into my life.

now I think I'm past that hurt stage and ready to get out there again. but I don't want just anyone.. I want him.

and now I think that because in the past I have rejected him (because of me not ready for anything at the time) I don't know how he feels about me now.

I think next time I get the chance to see him (which unfortunately isn't as often as I'd like) I will attempt to tell him my feelings. wish me luck guys.

the last time we were hanging out, it was at a party and I went and sat by myself on a rocking bench and he came and sat next to me. then we were kinda cuddling cause it was cold out, and just sat there in comfortable silence. I was thinking to myself "hmm should I kiss him?" but didnt... then our friend called him over. moment over. and for some reason the rest of the night he was all moody. so I just kinda left him alone.

(awww wow, as I was typing this he randomly sent me a heart on facebook. and I haven't even heard from him in weeks. hah) maybe he senses I'm thinking of him.

I got butterflies in the tummy awww 🙂

Aww too cute! I wish you luck expressing your feelings to him. I really admire ladies like you that know who/what they want. Hopefully he comes to his senses and don't let a good thing pass him by.

Posted by dreamingpisces
wow so I just had to come back to this thread....

yeahhh. him and his gf finished about a month or more ago.
but he still disappeared for a bit.
and my feelings still haven't changed.

I've spent the majority of this year pushing others away, including him. being afraid to live my life and accept love into my life.

now I think I'm past that hurt stage and ready to get out there again. but I don't want just anyone.. I want him.

and now I think that because in the past I have rejected him (because of me not ready for anything at the time) I don't know how he feels about me now.

I think next time I get the chance to see him (which unfortunately isn't as often as I'd like) I will attempt to tell him my feelings. wish me luck guys.

the last time we were hanging out, it was at a party and I went and sat by myself on a rocking bench and he came and sat next to me. then we were kinda cuddling cause it was cold out, and just sat there in comfortable silence. I was thinking to myself "hmm should I kiss him?" but didnt... then our friend called him over. moment over. and for some reason the rest of the night he was all moody. so I just kinda left him alone.

(awww wow, as I was typing this he randomly sent me a heart on facebook. and I haven't even heard from him in weeks. hah) maybe he senses I'm thinking of him.

I got butterflies in the tummy awww 🙂

Why don't you quit wasting time with capricorn douchebags, and date a Cancer?

Sheesh, it's not that hard to figure out who goes best with Pisces.

For some reason I actually don't come across many Cancers.
I did once. and trust me the connection was magnetic.
The first day I saw him, before he walked through the door I was staring at that door as if something big was gonna happen. then he comes in.
still probably the craziest attraction I've felt for someone. It might sound like a really cheesey cliche story. hah.
We lost touch, and when we did fall back in touch with each other hes now in a serious relationship.
We're friends though 🙂 its ok. and I have no intention of messing up his happiness.

Capricorns however seem to follow me wherever I go!! and it seems I'm always drawn to them somehow

I remember your old posts. I could be wrong, but it seems you spend alot of time crushing, falling, and then nursing heartbreak. Looking for love in the all the wrong places? Try focusing on YOU. The right person will come when you are emotionally and spiritually healthy. Until then you will keep attracting a bunch of duds - because we attract what we are ready for. Just something to think about. Good luck sweetie. (Fellow Pisces here) 🙂

I agree with you!! I've spent the past few months just focusing on myself and its been great. I've never felt more secure and good about myself. Everything thats happened to me has definitely served as a learning experience and I have no regrets 🙂

thank you dear 🙂

Posted by Dreamer02
I remember your old posts. I could be wrong, but it seems you spend alot of time crushing, falling, and then nursing heartbreak. Looking for love in the all the wrong places? Try focusing on YOU. The right person will come when you are emotionally and spiritually healthy. Until then you will keep attracting a bunch of duds - because we attract what we are ready for. Just something to think about. Good luck sweetie. (Fellow Pisces here) 🙂

Posted by scorchedearth
and cancer goes best with taureans. so, if everyone dated who they were supposed to date you as a pisces would be stuck with scorpios because all the cancers would belong to me.

OR

you could let people date whoever the hell they want without making douchebag comments.

just a thought.

I was referring to men and women who seek companionship and enjoy spending time together, not venomous lesbian Harpies with axes to grind.

Chill out, asshole.

cowpuncher, thanks I looked at some of your posts and they were pretty helpful/insightful...

fortunately, this cap sounds like a good one. he seems very much like me, hopeless romantic and devoted.
so if this goes anywhere I feel like it will be a good thing.

how's things going, DP?

things are ok... I think :/ lol
the other night we were texting and it was late, he was all "you should come over and watch a movie and cuddle with me, I'm cold!"
but I couldn't cause I had to go to sleep and wake up early..

then I invited him out to go on a drive with me next week... and he said "maybe, we'll see" so idk... but I hope he does come because i want to just tell him how I feel.

LoL@ coming over late and cuddling cause its cold. Glad you didn't go.

Posted by lnana04
LoL@ coming over late and cuddling cause its cold. Glad you didn't go.

Why? It could have been a magical night.

🙂

lol I thought him cuddling was a little odd. especially so late at night.
see with the other capricorn cuddling usually turned into sex :/

but he does seem the gentlemanly type and wouldn't try something like that with me.
besides that, hes a virgin and waiting for something serious.



ohhh old capricorn resurfaced last night and is trying to play matchmaker with me and an aqua friend of his.
i'm extremely hesitant about this
because of feelings I have for current cap
and the fact that I don't trust old caps judgement on anything anymore...

Posted by BeoWulf

Posted by lnana04
LoL@ coming over late and cuddling cause its cold. Glad you didn't go.

Why? It could have been a magical night.

🙂

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could have. 🙂 I was actually saddened it was so late when he asked me.

Dreaming Pisces, aren't you more valuable than a late night *cuddle* call?
Aren't you worth a man inviting you out for a respectable date?

No to the drive, but yes to a late night come get in my bed with me?