36 Gemini and he is 28 Cap/Aquarius cusp 1/19. I met him out and he came on strong and pursued me for several weeks and we hung out a few times. On my B-day about a month after we met he took me out,nothing romantic and I gave it up I needed it. He continued to pursue and he said he loved me right away and told all his friends I am his future wife. I just told him he is in lust. He stopped calling me on the weekends and we started just seeing during week? Then I went out and he was with another girl,no big deal-no scene,I didn't feel like he owed me an explanation.I text him and told him I was not mad, we hung again, then he lied and was out with her again the next weekend, basically blew me off. OK I go out he with girl, she made scene, he apologized through text and I responded with I don't want drama and we didn't talk for 3 weeks. I text him say I still want to be friends and he immediately responded and contacted me to hangout. I went to his house, girl shows up, drama..ever since we have been together. He asked me to be his girlfriend and then took it back? I told him not to ask again. He has been o.k. for a few weeks. He doesn't always respond to my texts and often pulls away when we are close and he says he loves me. He will not contact for a few days. Sometimes I just let it go and other times I send him a quick text(no response of course). He eventually will call/text if I do not contact him. When he does call it is during the week and I know it is mainly for sex, he just sweet talks it up. He says he misses me and wants to kiss me on the phone..lol. I have told him not to call me late at night and during the week because I am busy. He finally called last Friday, professing his love again, I did not go to his house, because I wanted to go out on a date. He promised date on Sat, never called, oh well went out with friends, I ended up at his house anyway. He then called last night telling me how much he loves me again. I go over he talks marriage and love and I eventually left because he will keep me up all night if I don't. He asked me what he has to do for me to believe that he really loves me? I tell him actions speak louder than words. He wants me to tell him I love him, I DO but will not tell him. He aske me if I will marry him, no ring? Should I continue with this situation, seems unhealthy, not real, is it just sex or does he love me? Not sure what to do, I thought about taking a break,but afraid to lose him. Go with flow or no?
