testing or lost interest—

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bella521
@bella521
10 Years

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Hi! I met this cappy online back in march. And he would always ask me out. I always said no. Well one night i called him and say hey want to meet up. And i haven't been the same since then. We hit it off, he was so sweet. We did mess around a little bit 🙂 anywho, so about a week later he asked me out. I was so excited bc the feelings i got w him were amazing! Almost as if my heart was being pulled out of my chest. So he ended up blowing me off. Didn't even answer my texts. So i politely asked for an explanation and no answer. So I said my goodbye. I had a feeling he would contact me again just wasn't sure how long it would take. He ended up texting me 2 weeks later apologizing, saying he freaked out. So we met up again a few weeks ago. My feelings were intense and i am pretty sure the feelings are mutual. He looked at me in the eyes and told me that he liked me etc. And at the end of the night he said to me "you freak me out, you're everything I have ever wanted in a woman." Explained it was a good thing. I have never gotten feelings like this for a man. But recently he has started to be short w me. I know he works a lot. His ex gf did cheat on him. Idk what to do?! He is all I can think about. I don't know if he is testing me to see how much patience I have w him or if he just not interested anymore. I want him and him only!!!!!! BTW I'm a Taurus
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truecap
@truecap
13 Years10,000+ Posts

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I just love how so many people blame lack of interest or disrespectful behavior as a "test".

It's not a test. It's called two dates. It's not a relationship. He owes you nothing. Dating means you go out occasionally and get to know each other gradually to decide if you want to keep going out with them and continue getting to know them.

It's your fault you messed around with him and now feel bad he isn't as into this as you are. Cap men usually don't respect women who give up the goods too soon.