the pisces and I or lack there of....

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daligogh
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ok so the pisces started calling again and since I'm tired of the hot cold....tons of attention one second ...none the next , no commitment making, or making them and then claiming to have never made any or saying I dont remmber saying that like I hold no importance at all because of all that, I am now handling him with one word anwsers uncertain anwsers with no explaination. I'm hurt still I love him, I dream of him, I lose my thought when I look in his eyes, I see myself with his child..and he knows this and it was never important to him but now that I'm treating him as if he doesnt matter he has the nerve to say I'm insensitive??!! he tells me since I'm done with him hell leave me alone ....as long as he was in the wrong it was ok but now that has a so-called excuse hes just gonna go and leave me.

SOMEHOW I MUST BE THE PROBLEM....

Im sorta confused right now i just needed to post that....sorry for the lack of clarity.
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Mystical
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Just vent away. I've done it too regarding a Virgo guy so I fully sympathize with you. It's typical though when you ignore the guy, they come back like nothing. I've never understood this type of behavior. My advice would be to just keep living your life and don't expect anything regarding this guy. Life is a mystery and things happen when we least expect them to. Hopefully, when this guy of yours matures, things will get better. If not, just let him be. All the best.
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haffo
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Daligoh

I sad to see you struggling so much with this guy. But the worst thing is that I understand the both sides. Since we have no moral limits, our priorities can be somewhat different. We can exchange many things (things-people, people-things) without any remorse. I can see how you struggle under his priorities, but one thing I'm sure about is; if he really loves you (I can see he cares about you) he will make the right priorities. Perhaps the right priorities is not what you want to see, it's understandable, but at this point, one thing is clear....take it if your shoe fits.
Tau75
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Everything passes through mind. No instincts, therefore no impulses.
haffo
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Do you try & fight your Pisces traits that are so called typical just to be original.
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im love with my friend (aquarius) but he has a girlfriend. he knows i like him but only wants to be friends with me. he said he cares about me but sometimes it can go weeks before he contacts me i tryed to text him (just friendly)but sometimes he never te
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