The Woo factor

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Sweetsmiles
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Hey everyone. I'm new here. I joined after reading so many insightful blogs. I have a burning question I know ya all can help me with.
How do you KNOW when a Cap male is seriously wooing you. Other men try and I'm turned off because they are too obvious. But this Cap
Guy (shy & reserved somewhat) but charming nonetheless is persistent in his texting and communications. Ww have know each other as friends
of friends but now he continues to communicate on a non verbal level. I can't read him. We are both divorced. He's very much a charmer. Dec 30 is all I know.
I want him to pursue me but don't want to seem too excited but dont want to risk him backing away as i hear they fear too much too soon and need time. 🙂 thx
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Sweetsmiles
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It's like I can hear him smiling in his txts when we correspond. No tel calls as yet. Is this his reserved way of wooing me without talking to see if we mesh!! It's been a couple of weeks now. I read
Cap guys are slower than a sloth to move to next level. I dated a Scorpio and by first txt he had called by third date - I swear he was pledging his undying love. I did what any sensible girl or guy would do and ran. Same with a Leo I met. But this Cap intrigues me. Is it intentional or just caution on his part. His txts are looong. Would be better off talking or emailing. Lol

He makes me laugh more than anyone I know.
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Man, a capricorn wooing you is like getting run over by a steam engine, you look in the distance and to YOU it doesn't seem like it's going that fast, so you decide to just not worry about, it ain't gonna hit you, and then BAM!!! That dude just done run you over.

Trust, I don't think there's going to be much you can do to make it go faster or speed it along, it just helps that you're interested because if you weren't y ou'd probably be annoyed at the fact that you snubbing him does nothing to stop his persistence. So yah, like everyone else is saying, just take it in stride. If he wants you, he'll make it known.
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He terrifies me. By that I mean he draws me in with attention (albeit still by texts) with xoxo after each one, always a goodnight text, then bam, stops altogether last night -nothing. I'm not going to be agressive in wpoing him, but I think caps want some feedback right - to be sure we interested? Sounds like a lot of slow long work to me. I'm a very patient person but life will pass me by if I wait for him to speed things up. Cautious he may be but ain't the world ending tomorrow May 21st? LOL

I really like his charm.. he's sweet ,funny, sexy but always busy working. He talks about his business a LOT. Asks a LOT about mine.... short of asking me what I earn !!! I think he is looking for prestige and stability in a woman. I own my home, and He knows this too. BUT - there's that BUT I have reservations about his motives lol it's more like an interview lol do I earn enough for his liking, do I need a man or enjoy one, do I have drama or baggage. Just my intuition. I'm a Cancer.

Not hanging onto his every word as you all say is good I can't think I'm the only one he's talking to and trying to charm. I know I've read they aren't bothered about dating more than one woman at a time but I'm sure he's 'interviewing' others too.