Hi guys and girls i have a quick question about a Capricorn woman and it seems weird to me π i thought water signs run hot and cold, but this Capri in my work seems more like a water sign, anyways we work together, we accualy laugh and smile more than we talk, we just vibe good and i feel comfy around her, but sometimes she is really akward, we talk, laughin, smiling, and in any second she just turns, doesn't talk , just watches me and smiles , laughs at me.some day's she would even say hi untill i came up and said anything π she talks to almost everyone around me but not to me, anyway we didn't talk for 2days and she comes ups and starts talking π she asked why i didn't talk to her, i told her she didn't look like she wanted to talk to me, she said she did, she said she likes me really much , she likes me the most from all our group people , i wonder why she doesn't talk to me and then ask why i don't talk to her? π i enjoy talking , but that weird coldness just seems rly rly weeird to me, some co-workers says she's even into me, but i don't know , she seems like she tries to keep her distance . π
Weeeird Capri ? :D

π
Maybe sometimes she just doesn't know what to speak? :p
Maybe sometimes she just doesn't know what to speak? :p

If her co-workers know about how much she likes you and has herself told you then I think she seriously likes you π π
Caps are little awkward.. When they don't know what to speak they look distant but actually they are dying to speak with you.
Best wishes.. Crab-Cap pairings are cutest! π
Caps are little awkward.. When they don't know what to speak they look distant but actually they are dying to speak with you.
Best wishes.. Crab-Cap pairings are cutest! π
They don't know, they just say it seems she does . π I'd love to, but i don't think it's going to work. π i'll try to enjoy the present and having good time and many laughs with her and thats it , dont want to complicate things because i might be leaving the country, if i leave atleast i'll give her some good memories and make some small gift for her to remember. π
Posted by rakacHi I am a Cap woman and I can relate to this. Someone else actually encountered the same thing as you and was questioning it as well.
Hi guys and girls i have a quick question about a Capricorn woman and it seems weird to me π i thought water signs run hot and cold, but this Capri in my work seems more like a water sign, anyways we work together, we accualy laugh and smile more than we talk, we just vibe good and i feel comfy around her, but sometimes she is really akward, we talk, laughin, smiling, and in any second she just turns, doesn't talk , just watches me and smiles , laughs at me.some day's she would even say hi untill i came up and said anything π she talks to almost everyone around me but not to me, anyway we didn't talk for 2days and she comes ups and starts talking π she asked why i didn't talk to her, i told her she didn't look like she wanted to talk to me, she said she did, she said she likes me really much , she likes me the most from all our group people , i wonder why she doesn't talk to me and then ask why i don't talk to her? π i enjoy talking , but that weird coldness just seems rly rly weeird to me, some co-workers says she's even into me, but i don't know , she seems like she tries to keep her distance . π
This person asked why Capricorn was chatty to everyone else but quiet and reserved with the person who was attracted to them.
So..I will give you the same answer.
I believe that this girl does this because she likes you. A lot. Around other people her guard is up so she is happy to chat away etc.
BUT with you its different because seeing as she likes you, her guard will be down slightly as she wants to let you in to who she really is. It's not that she's faking it with others it's more that she is protecting herself and doesn't let just anyone and everyone in.
When she is smiling and laughing with you but not saying much she is probably a bit shy as her guard is down a little. So go over there and talk to her.
You said in your post that after 2 days she wondered why you hadn't spoken to her. She wanted you to because she likes you.
I do the same thing with guys when I'm single. It's because I'm a tiny bit shy when I let a new guy in.
Hope this makes sense..?
@pooface, thanks, but i have to ask, why did you named yourself like this? π

Caps are socially awkward. We fear rejection

Caps are reluctant to start anything romantic at work as well.

And Caps like a strong man who isn't afraid to make the first move.
Hi Rakac. .good question..
I really wish I hadn't named myself like this. It was spur of the moment as it's something me and my husband sometimes call each other for a joke.
I tried to change omit on my profile and it shows my new name but when I post it comes up with pooface !! ?
I really wish I hadn't named myself like this. It was spur of the moment as it's something me and my husband sometimes call each other for a joke.
I tried to change omit on my profile and it shows my new name but when I post it comes up with pooface !! ?

I was like that when I was younger....I can be serious and awkward around ppl I am attracted to. Totally agree with the statement that caps age backwards, I became more open, enjoy having fun and direct after 30....
Posted by Jalent99she's 29 π π
I was like that when I was younger....I can be serious and awkward around ppl I am attracted to. Totally agree with the statement that caps age backwards, I became more open, enjoy having fun and direct after 30....
Posted by truecap
Caps are reluctant to start anything romantic at work as well.
hmmmm
If it makes you feel any better I'm experiencing something similar with a Cap male at work.
Caps are weird like that esp. at first. If they like you you're a bit of a threat (but they like u so they are also drawn to you rt?). They may be compensating trying to make it seem like they don't like you. Other people will catch them watching u however. A coworker told me "He smiles when you talk." Just treating someone different is usually a sign anyways. Take it as an odd compliment
Caps are weird like that esp. at first. If they like you you're a bit of a threat (but they like u so they are also drawn to you rt?). They may be compensating trying to make it seem like they don't like you. Other people will catch them watching u however. A coworker told me "He smiles when you talk." Just treating someone different is usually a sign anyways. Take it as an odd compliment

Posted by rakacOhhh lol.....well u have to take the lead!Posted by Jalent99she's 29 π π
I was like that when I was younger....I can be serious and awkward around ppl I am attracted to. Totally agree with the statement that caps age backwards, I became more open, enjoy having fun and direct after 30....click to expand
I've always been shy around a guy if I liked him. That was like my give away, if I'm shy or trying to avoid you.
Posted by Jalent99I'm thinking about it, the thing is, she divorced 1year ago, she said she got married way to soon. I'm also not expressing myself fully to her, she knows i like her, but i keep my distance a little bit 2, because i really like herPosted by rakacOhhh lol.....well u have to take the lead!Posted by Jalent99she's 29 π π
I was like that when I was younger....I can be serious and awkward around ppl I am attracted to. Totally agree with the statement that caps age backwards, I became more open, enjoy having fun and direct after 30....click to expand
I'm afraid to fall inlove with her, not that it would be bad, but i'm leaving the country in a month and i'm either coming back after month of holiday or i'm not coming back at all. If i comeback i'll take the lead, but for now i just don't want to get to close to her, so if i don't comeback the parting would be easier for me and her, the closer you get to the person, the harder it is to part ways into unknown, and i think my sagittarius moon might scare her off, because i've heard they need financial stability, while i live either in the bottom of the ocean or at the top of the world.
I'm also ambitious, i take huge risk and work hard towards my goal, she might understand the hard work, but i doubt she will understand the risks i take and the things i sacrifice for my dreams and goal i reach for. π Either way, thank you π For now friendship and having fun time together is good enough for me π

@rakac
I have been with someone with a sag moon, u live for the moment! Caps kind of live for the future, we like to be prepared. I dont know about your Cap, but most Caps take divorce as a failure in their life. Bcoz of their nature to be good at everything if they can, including their really high tolerence to make things work in a r/s, this might have resulted in her being less open than any other Caps.
I am not sure about other Caps but the older I get, the less I want to impose my way of life on my other half. Before 30s I used to think theres an ideal way of living for both me and my partner whoever it might be then. Now I m more relaxed about all these.
Caps are good friends to have, great idea to maintain the friendship and decide after wherever your life takes u. Good Luck! π
I have been with someone with a sag moon, u live for the moment! Caps kind of live for the future, we like to be prepared. I dont know about your Cap, but most Caps take divorce as a failure in their life. Bcoz of their nature to be good at everything if they can, including their really high tolerence to make things work in a r/s, this might have resulted in her being less open than any other Caps.
I am not sure about other Caps but the older I get, the less I want to impose my way of life on my other half. Before 30s I used to think theres an ideal way of living for both me and my partner whoever it might be then. Now I m more relaxed about all these.
Caps are good friends to have, great idea to maintain the friendship and decide after wherever your life takes u. Good Luck! π
Posted by Jalent99Well i'm also cancer, so i plan for the future, i enjoy now but i have plans for future, but i also take hugs risks for that future, because my future isn't something easy, some people like to get educated more and get a better job to get paid more.
@rakac
I have been with someone with a sag moon, u live for the moment! Caps kind of live for the future, we like to be prepared. I dont know about your Cap, but most Caps take divorce as a failure in their life. Bcoz of their nature to be good at everything if they can, including their really high tolerence to make things work in a r/s, this might have resulted in her being less open than any other Caps.
I am not sure about other Caps but the older I get, the less I want to impose my way of life on my other half. Before 30s I used to think theres an ideal way of living for both me and my partner whoever it might be then. Now I m more relaxed about all these.
Caps are good friends to have, great idea to maintain the friendship and decide after wherever your life takes u. Good Luck! π
I'm planing to have something of my own, so that takes way more work and it's way more risky, but i like it, because you work for yourself, it's worth it you know, to have something of your own, build it up and believe that it will turn out great, ofc i will have a side job for a long long time, and my risks and hard work might not work, but i believe it will, i'm giving myself 10years to do and achieve what i want, after that i'll see where i'm standing and think more about where to ......i also heard that most successful people in life are sagittarius moon's so thats a big turn on for me. π thank you !π

@rakac
Thats nice, caps love to know tht u have plans. At least for me, I am very willing to support my partner through thick and thin. And I have in many r/s when I was younger, walked out on knowing the guy doesnt have ambitions.
If u do decide to come back, go out with her! The opp signs of cancer and cap might be of great chemistry. The guy i m seeing now has mars leo, opp my aquarius venus. The chemistry we have is the strongest i ever felt!
Thats nice, caps love to know tht u have plans. At least for me, I am very willing to support my partner through thick and thin. And I have in many r/s when I was younger, walked out on knowing the guy doesnt have ambitions.
If u do decide to come back, go out with her! The opp signs of cancer and cap might be of great chemistry. The guy i m seeing now has mars leo, opp my aquarius venus. The chemistry we have is the strongest i ever felt!
Posted by Jalent99I would def go out with her if i comeback ! π Well i've heard they support the other half, but you know they are earth sign, they might support person in more practical plan, while mine plan is taking on the scale where only about 1% of people can succeed, i don't know if she could support it, but i would def appreciate a person who would support me and be by my side, rewards will be huge, just have to be patient while i put in the work and bring shit down to our table. π
@rakac
Thats nice, caps love to know tht u have plans. At least for me, I am very willing to support my partner through thick and thin. And I have in many r/s when I was younger, walked out on knowing the guy doesnt have ambitions.
If u do decide to come back, go out with her! The opp signs of cancer and cap might be of great chemistry. The guy i m seeing now has mars leo, opp my aquarius venus. The chemistry we have is the strongest i ever felt!
@Jalent99
Small update, our status seems to be quite nice, we both have many laughs, started talking a little bit more, in 8day's i'm leaving for holiday and i'm giving her a small surprise, origami flower and a t-shirt i know she will like π
Flower like this, i'm thinking about it now, i'd like to go with yellow color, but she has a jumper the same color as this one in the pic, so i'm wondering now, should i give her the color of her jumper or go with yellow, the bright color, i know that capri's prob don't give a shit about things like this, but thats just a thought, anyone would suggest what color should i go with? π
Small update, our status seems to be quite nice, we both have many laughs, started talking a little bit more, in 8day's i'm leaving for holiday and i'm giving her a small surprise, origami flower and a t-shirt i know she will like π
Flower like this, i'm thinking about it now, i'd like to go with yellow color, but she has a jumper the same color as this one in the pic, so i'm wondering now, should i give her the color of her jumper or go with yellow, the bright color, i know that capri's prob don't give a shit about things like this, but thats just a thought, anyone would suggest what color should i go with? πAnyone? π

Yellow π bcuz it'll brighten her day a little more each time she looks at it, and YOU made it for her.
...the pink is nice too though.
...the pink is nice too though.
Posted by GreenteaSame thoughts exactly, thank you ! π
Yellow π bcuz it'll brighten her day a little more each time she looks at it, and YOU made it for her.
...the pink is nice too though.

Pink! Lol feels more romantic ?

It doesn't matter what color. It's the sentiment and thought behind it that matters.
I'll throw a coin for the color, easiest way to decide, before i thought of making 2 or 3, but i think one has more meaning , she's the 1st one to get this one, because i learned this one a week ago or so . π
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