Why always Cappy and Aries attract to each other ?

My dear friends i just want to know that why all aries males are strongly attracted to cap female first time. but after some time the relationship is curse and both are ready to give up but even after breakup both are bonded with some energy.i mean attraction is not completely gone.

I have never seen this happen but I would guess it's because they're both cardinal signs.
Cappy is attracted to Aries obvious strength and power and Aries senses the same in Cappy but in a less obvious way and sees them as a challenge.
But over time they realise they have little in common and it's too much of a power struggle.
However after they break up they still respect each other as a worthy adversary I guess

But my dear Opposite are always attract each other very strongly....when specially Venus in Aries.(Direct).

^ Capricorn and Aries are opposites in the sense that they are very different to each other but on the zodiac wheel they are actually square (90 degree angle) and cancer is opposite capricorn - they often attract each other because they have the same values and want the same things but they also give each other something the other is missing. Aries/Cappy don't do that in the same way so they're more likely, if there is some attraction, to get annoyed with each other really easy.

Of course it depends on their whole chart. I'm Cancer and I don't think I'd date an Aries (90 degrees from me) but I can get on with them quite well because the rest ofmy chart is mostly gemini, sagittarius and aries who all get on fine with Aries suns.

The reason behind the Aries/Capricorn attraction is obvious....

Aries "Worship" us Caps because we are everything they wish they could be 🙂

I think it could a good match if things work out. It depends on other placements though.

my best friend is an aries, but she has a scorp moon. I like aries guys a lot because they are so much fun to be around with!

Aries men are sexy. Well the ones with the bad boy image. And thats only when he is NOT talking. The woman are ok.

Funny I was just thinking about this myself they are always attracted to me and vice versa. Then they annoy the shit out of me.

I am a Capp and have dated 4 Aries males. Always the most intense of relationships but requires the Capp to be a little less conventional than they are typically used to. I am in an Aries relationship now; it's been two years and I can't imagine being with anyone else. The way I have described in the past from something I read is the fact that Aries are fire, capp's are earth. Lot's of fuel and lot's of explosiosn and heat!!!

My first post 🙂

Glad this is posted because there's this guy friend i've had for years who is an Aries (but a Pisces-cuspian...fiery temper plus emotional-ness...mmhmm nuff said). We liked each other when we first met years ago, but for some reason never attracted each other enough to talk like that (especially on my side, because it annoyed me how it seemed EVERYTHING pisses that man off. i mean damn, EVERYTHING.)

Anyways 6 years later, i guess he says i look "more fine" and now he will not stop trying to get with me. And i'm like uh too late homie; once i switch someone from "potential" to friend zone, they raaaarely come back out that zone. i guess my thing is i KNOW based of his fiery ass tempermant we will not mesh well, so why bother? i am NOT the type who's like "oh lets try and see", because 1) i did that on my most recent past Cancer relationship and that ended bad and 2) i just aint romantically attracted to him like that. So what makes him not see that we won't mesh well?

i like Aries' drive and impeccable gift of speech, but i KNOW and SENSE that most of the time my temperment doesn't match theirs, on a romantic level. But i cannot understand why he and other Aries can't take a hint!

Not looking for advice, just sharing random Capricorn thoughts...

Yay! Two new Cappies on the board! Welcome ladies.

I don't attract Aries men, I don't think lol. I don't even know of many Aries men, but on this site where you match compatibility, there were the most positive stories with Capricorn women and Aries men, told by Aries men, which was a plus. I thought the pair was odd, but I was intrigued by it. I think in all honesty, another Cardinal sign will match best with what I want to accomplish and the things I feel are most important as far as home/family. It's like Cardinal signs have a similar long-term/bottom-line view and that's important imo. Since Libra's and other Caps are completely out, that leaves Cancers and Aries, and I think I'm a bit more attracted to the idea of Aries. I'd probably prefer a Cancer, but I don't like the idea of them possibly ruling the area of emotions. It's like Aries and Caps would balance it out and we could control the undercurrents while they control the surface level. That's my idea of it anyway.

Now if only I can ever find an Aries.

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Posted by lnana04
Yay! Two new Cappies on the board! Welcome ladies.

I don't attract Aries men, I don't think lol. I don't even know of many Aries men, but on this site where you match compatibility, there were the most positive stories with Capricorn women and Aries men, told by Aries men, which was a plus. I thought the pair was odd, but I was intrigued by it. I think in all honesty, another Cardinal sign will match best with what I want to accomplish and the things I feel are most important as far as home/family. It's like Cardinal signs have a similar long-term/bottom-line view and that's important imo. Since Libra's and other Caps are completely out, that leaves Cancers and Aries, and I think I'm a bit more attracted to the idea of Aries. I'd probably prefer a Cancer, but I don't like the idea of them possibly ruling the area of emotions. It's like Aries and Caps would balance it out and we could control the undercurrents while they control the surface level. That's my idea of it anyway.

Now if only I can ever find an Aries.

lana its a virtual world lol

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Yes it is, hut I do know a few Aries. My grandmother was one, and she was married to a Capricorn. My friend sister, who is a Cap is married to an Aries. My Aries aunt is married to a Capricorn. We have an Aries friend of the family, and again, their view on what's important and how they take care of home is appealing to me.

I would love to date another cap....had one bad experience with one but he was an ass but I find them very appealing. They are very manly, quietly strong, cool and collected. My mars is in cap maybe thats why but I love there personalities.

I am an Aries dating a Cap and we have a very strong connection...its amazing how we can read each other even when we try to show otherwise, yet we have had some issues with him being a workaholic. But if we can compromise and it blossoms to more we will be phenomenal together.

Hey my bestie is a Cap and he goes out an Aries chick. They have crazy chemistry, it's intense.

I must say though, this is a somewhat volatile couple who can end up bringing the worst out in each other. Both parties to blame. Obviously I am only referring to this one situation, but I would say there is a very fine line between love and hate with this couple. They can't bear to be without each other but can't stand each other (sometimes). It's a relationship of contradictions. When it's good it's REALLY good, when it's bad it's REALLY bad. Relationship of extremes indeed. Maybe they are attracted to the emotional conflict hence why they are off one minute and on the next.

It's like love-you-one-minute-hate-you-the-next and so on and so on. They seem to be stuck in a catch 22. Good luck to them 🙂

Posted by dogsbody
The reason behind the Aries/Capricorn attraction is obvious....

Aries "Worship" us Caps because we are everything they wish they could be 🙂

lol

I recently broke up with my Arian ex boyfriend after 6 months. I'm a Capricorn obviously. When we first met I was attracted to how he looked. As a football player, he was the jock look. Muscles, so he seemed strong, and a handsome face. I gave him my number and then while talking to him, I realized I admired him a lot. We seemed to actually have a lot of things in common. He seemed just like me. Over all it was an intense attraction on both parts. It wasn't long until we decided to go out. Later on, I realized that, while were not all that different (we even looked alike..) we annoy each other. I had a temper, and got mad easily. I still loved him, but he would get on my nerves. He always did things I didn't like, and his way of "trying to help" didn't work. Just this week he broke up with me, I was devastated the first couple days and nights. Then I realized, I wasn't so much attracted to the person he was, as I was too the idea if him. Gentle lover (non sexually, we're both virgins, but we did kiss passionately), strong hands to hold me, and a very pleasing appearence. He said he admired my wit and my "don't take shit"-ness, and determination, and some other things that go along with cappy positive traits. But, alas, in the end, we clashed too hard. Because of my intolerance and stubborness, and his sensitivity, pig headedness, and short attention span, we bugged the hell out if each other most nights. But we couldn't keep away from each other at the same time. All in all, I think its simply physical attraction, which blinds us to the real cappy/aries for a while.

Because Aries are the most attractive women in the zodiac 😉 (together with Cappies of course 🙂)

Scarlett O`Hara is the prototype of Aries women. Unfortunately very few men can fly with her..

I remember when I fell in love with her. First day at University, me and my sunglasses weighting for the bus to take me home. And suddenly this little flower colored creature come gliding past. My jaw dropped...and women don't normally make my jaw drop just by looking at them, I actually have to talk to them first.

Turns out she was in my class...and I remember the first time she talked to me. She came to our coffee table and introduced herself by grabbing inside her bag and blurting out "Hey!! I'm Leticia, a sick psychopath! And gonna kill you all!"...she had a plastic spoon in her hand and burst out laughing. I just turned to mush.

We started talking and became good friends very quickly, we would talk about everything under the sky, make up stories for each other, dunno...for me talking with her was like diving for deep sea pearls, each idea of hers was like a glittering peace of coral...

Then one day I blurted out of the blue "I think I love you!!" and she loved me too.

The sex was...well just bloody great...kinda rough, passionate, loud and deep...shit just thinking about it...

Anyway...the "B" side of the story is that I am a capricorn and yeah, kinda bugger off from time to time, have different views and I dunno, we each whent out with other people, I got back with my X and she was with this other guy...

And loosing all sense of dignity we would sleep together and just say "yeah, friends...". It absolutely crippled me. I don't feel like the cheating guy, but I really just could not help myself, so I broke up with my girlfriend...

And my little Aries brained f**** me, loved me and turned and said... well kid...I??ve decided to go lesbian...

And I lost my teeth, dunno how to explain it, I felt my teeth fall out and thus...a broken goat...but meh, I'm standing...

Dunno why Capricorns are attracted to Aries

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Posted by McInsane
I remember when I fell in love with her. First day at University, me and my sunglasses weighting for the bus to take me home. And suddenly this little flower colored creature come gliding past. My jaw dropped...and women don't normally make my jaw drop just by looking at them, I actually have to talk to them first.

Turns out she was in my class...and I remember the first time she talked to me. She came to our coffee table and introduced herself by grabbing inside her bag and blurting out "Hey!! I'm Leticia, a sick psychopath! And gonna kill you all!"...she had a plastic spoon in her hand and burst out laughing. I just turned to mush.

We started talking and became good friends very quickly, we would talk about everything under the sky, make up stories for each other, dunno...for me talking with her was like diving for deep sea pearls, each idea of hers was like a glittering peace of coral...

Then one day I blurted out of the blue "I think I love you!!" and she loved me too.

The sex was...well just bloody great...kinda rough, passionate, loud and deep...shit just thinking about it...

Anyway...the "B" side of the story is that I am a capricorn and yeah, kinda bugger off from time to time, have different views and I dunno, we each whent out with other people, I got back with my X and she was with this other guy...

And loosing all sense of dignity we would sleep together and just say "yeah, friends...". It absolutely crippled me. I don't feel like the cheating guy, but I really just could not help myself, so I broke up with my girlfriend...

And my little Aries brained f**** me, loved me and turned and said... well kid...I??ve decided to go lesbian...

And I lost my teeth, dunno how to explain it, I felt my teeth fall out and thus...a broken goat...but meh, I'm standing...

Dunno why Capricorns are attracted to Aries

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Not anymore, just got nostalgic...I function well alone thank you very much and it taught me a lot of things:

A) How does you own medicine taste, huh kid?
B) I am not immortal, I have a heart...so I'm just a puny human after all...
C) One day I shall build my empire...and it shall all be yours...no empire, I have nothing to give...
D) Next time you rearrange your internal furnitur

My Cap best friend is with an Aries. Homegirl is doing a number on him as well.

I dated an aries for about 8 months. We broke up for six months and are now back together so we will see if we can make it work this time around. He has matured immensely and I think that has made all the difference. We still keep our independence but communicate much more openly. We have issues on both sides but have compromised, my temper is a lot less and his attentiveness a lot more. I think aries is always afraid of losing control to someone else even though he couldn't leave me alone both in and out of the relationship. We just kept coming back to each other, the chemistry on all levels is too great!

Posted by bkbella86
I would love to date another cap....had one bad experience with one but he was an ass but I find them very appealing. They are very manly, quietly strong, cool and collected. My mars is in cap maybe thats why but I love there personalities.

I'm the same way in that aspect, where my earth mars love quiet, manly strength. Cool and collected, as if they know how to use self-control. It is a very masculine feeling, despite them being a 'feminine' sign, though ruled by Saturn. It's ironic.
Us women (in general) get into catty fights and stuff that i've seen in real life and on tv.

I've only ever attracted 1 Aries in my life- he was my first love. I dated him from age 15-18. Then he broke my heart when he went to college, and he dumped me for this girl that we had gone to HS with. I was still in HS, he was a year ahead of me.

I was so devastated. I thought he and I were going to get married someday.

He was a very watery Aries. He had Scorpio moon, Cancer Asc, and Mercury and Venus in Pisces.
Still friends with him.

The attractive thing about the Aries men I know, is that they are ALWAYS trying something new & exciting. They love initiating things & exploring new conquests. To them, the world is to be conquered.

I think Aries recognize the quiet strength & resolve in Capricorns & therefore, the attraction. While Aries strength ( & power) is outward, Capricorn has the same strength & power but in a laid back, subtle way. I think the marriage of Capricorn intelligence & the Aries initiative is wonderful when it comes to things like business deals, projects, etc.

But the problem may be that,...at least according to the Cap guys I know who have dealt with Aries folks,... is that a Capricorn,for all that outward coolness & calmness is..deep down.. a half-water sign. ie, they can be emotional beings just like the water sign Cancers, Scorpios & Pisces. Aries are all about action & seldom seem to care about stomping on other folks' feelings. This may, in a long term, grate on a Cap's nerves & that's when both hoofed animals lock horns. The Ram & the Goat in an epic clash. That's why the other poster earlier mentioned that when it's good, it's good but when it's bad, it's really bad. The Ram is very powerful in a clash. But the Goat will win in the end. Because unlike the Ram, the Goat is not an ordinary goat but a goat-fish. He/she can swim & will drag the Ram into deep wonders & drown them 🙂

From my observation of Cap-Aries couples,the Ram/Goat-fish connection seems very sexual to me. They just can't seem to keep their hands off each other. I've heard that in the bedroom, these two are explosive. But something long term may require a lot of work, especially on the part of the Aries because they need to be more mindful of other's feelings.

If a Cap woman wants to be with an Aries man, she will have to learn to follow because he is always a leader. If an Aries woman wants to be with a Cap man, she will have to follow because he is always the leader.

The problem is that both these 2 signs (of both genders) are signs of power. Each doesn't want to follow because each doesn't want to give up power. And yet, paradoxically, it's that very power that each sees in the other sign that attracts them to each other.

* deep WATERS * not wonders. Doh!

Posted by Marrakesha
Some also can come across as bitter and just have this internal negative energy that they can't seem to get past.

True that. I avoid those types.

Prefer to be around positive ones.

My sons father was an Aries very controlling but was a good man we split due to reasons that r private but we still r in communication for my sons sake so we still remain cool

Posted by Gobshite
This is news to me.

lol!

This is a really difficult match, rarely works. If it does, the cap woman Aries male match would be marginally easier than the cap man/ Aries woman pairing.

Earth signs and Cardinal signs have amazing chemistry for one another. They have respect for each other, we are both stubborn, independent people, smart, sexy, and are just as honest and loyal as other signs. But then again our tempers or differences may put each other in the friend zone. They are sexual freak just like us earth signs. They also have their guards up too.

i notice that alot of cardinal in the chart....even cardinal houses are attracted to eachother.

mutable = mutable are usually attracted, same with fixed = fixed. (the modes understand eachother in that way)

ie. Brad Pitt's capricorn dominant and his dominant house is 1st house aries. His wife that he is NEVER bored with has Aries Moon/Mars. She's dominant aries. but the opposites attract, his cap dominant and her cancer dominant seem to just say...'HEY! i'm complete!' also the opposite sag and gem.

there's more examples but that's just one.

Aries 415

Exactly same situation here, caps are very sensitive and go cold for anything immediately thry don't like. Tend to be controlling and jealous type. Aries can't stand fight over nonsense or things not relevant because waste of time and energy. And we hate that.. My cap lady is amazing and absolutely adore her. We need to learn each other. The sex is out if this world.

🙂

Posted by manu_kim
My dear friends i just want to know that why all aries males are strongly attracted to cap female first time. but after some time the relationship is curse and both are ready to give up but even after breakup both are bonded with some energy.i mean attraction is not completely gone.

Most Capricorn women I've met are beautiful. That is more than likely what attracts the Aries man or any man for that matter to Cappy women.

Interestingly, it's difficult to cap woman to keep a man. Most of them end up alone sooner or later

What do you think of these placements..

I'm a Cap

He is Aries

We both have Moon in Cap.

I have Mercury In Cap

He has Mercury In Aries

I have Mars in Cap

He has Mars in Pisces

I have Venus in Pisces

He has Venus in Aquarius

My Cap friend and his Aries wife just bought a house.

He was deployed for a year. Said he came home to a dirty house, broken toilets, broken refrigerator lol, but a few days after he arrived they went house hunting and she found her dream home. He got it for her. Im like dang, Cap males really spoil their women.

He told me that with her he has bigger dreams and visions. Its like she pushes him to want and accomplish more, and he loves it. Plus he's a sucker for her. Will give anything she asks.

Capricorn thinks "wow, this person really knows how to lead and I can learn from his/her techniques and energy" while Aries thinks "Wow, this person can slow me down a little and can act as an anchor" when really, it gets competitive but they respect the urge to lead when they can. Or not.

https://www.sunsigns.org/capricorn-woman-aries-man-love-compatibility/

Apart from the Sex part - True of my marriage.

I am Cap F

He is Aries M

Together 14 years and despite trying to impress me in the beginning, slowly over the years his true self cane out.

*Controlling. Manipulating. Secretive. Devious.

But on the surface funny, fun, easy-going etc. Unfortunately it's just a mask for the truth*

Are all Aries men like this?

Or just my husband?

Also someone here said that Caps control the undercurrents, while Aries control the surface.

Sadly my Aries husband wants to control everything. I cannot control the undercurrents because he is very very closed and if I say even the smallest thing and it (unintentionally) upsets him I get mass sulking and pushing me away for a whole day at a time!

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Posted by Sheever
Interestingly, it's difficult to cap woman to keep a man. Most of them end up alone sooner or later

Most untrue statement I've ever read

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Well, I can tell you that, on dating app most woman in total single is cap and the majority is divorced. Simply statistics.

Posted by ariesno
I’m often very attracted to capricorn men, because they’re so different from me in the sense that they tend to be quiet, pessimistic, traditional, conservative, mysterious, and have that whole ‘tall, dark and handsome’ thing down. And then I get to be the one that makes them smile and talk more 🙂 In the bedroom it’s a whole other story, though! Cap men are WILD in bed, in my experience! But my relationships with caps have never lasted long, because they’re too critical and pessimistic for me, while I think I’m too impulsive and care-free for them

Yep. It takes lots of compromise between these signs. However they can have very strong bond and deep love and commitment. I find it beautiful how things change after arguments to appreciate each other and feels nice the commitment from both side. Certainly have up as downs but caps are amazing in many sense, aries have the same tendency on different subjects which makes them see their differences and admire them. Both sign has great sensitivity and responsiveness. It's sometimes good, sometimes bad. It certainly requires to observe from third person view not to get dragged into conflict.

I'm Aries sun/ in a "friendship" with cap male sun. My first love was cap and he never hurt me. They are strong and mean but I like it. My new dude we've been riding for like a year already literally spend all of our free time together. They do like money or looks tho. Lol it's either or. I do think my cap is still playing the field tho. But that's another reason why I like them. I hate them bcz of there coldness. But I think caps like a emotional women who isn't afraid of anything which would be an ideal aries. Lol we work better when we are working together like at work or in a career field