Would a Cap man still marry a women if another women he loves reappears? Is it too late!!!

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I stopped seeing my Cap friend for a while because I got tired of my situation, not knowing where I really stand with him. At 1st he was really into me and I knew where I stood. I knew he loved me although he wasn’t verbally expressive at times but we were extremely close to each other. I couldn’t understand why he could love me and push me away at the same time for no reason. I was confused from his push & pull actions therefore I made a lot of mistakes. This was the only Capricorn man I ever got serious with and I didn’t know what to expect and how to handle him.

After 5 months into our relationship I found out he was in another relationship with a women and they were seeing each other before we 1st started dating. I was devastated and upset! From my actions after I found out, that only pushed him away from me even further. I stopped seeing him for 4 months but we continued to have long conversation on the phone 2 and 3 times a day. I was in love with him and I always verbally and emotionally expressed that to him over and over again without getting that same attention in return. Emotional he showed love for me and passionately made love to me but would only verbally expressed once in awhile. Although I tried to remain friends with him but the physical attraction we had for each other was to far gone. We missed each other crazy & eventually we started back going out and seeing each other sexually. At that point he stop acknowledging or revealing he has a girlfriend to me. After 7 years off and on I just recently last year cut all physical contact with him for close to a year. We remained friends still talking on the phone occasionally. The whole year he has been trying to see me but I avoided seeing him. Eventually he started opening up more and more about the way he felt about me. He told me he never stopped loving me and he missed me. He told me he didn’t think I felt the same way about him and he think I have moved on for good. I told him I wasn’t seeing anyone else and I still love him and I missed him but I must move on.

We still continued to talk on the phone maybe 2 times a week for another 3 months. Then one day I was contemplating on riding to this event with him but I wasn’t sure if that was a good idea. Then I spoke to a girlfriend of mine and she ask me was I still talking to him? I told her I just got off the phone with him and I might be riding somewhere with him today. THAT’S WHEN SHE TOLD ME SHE HEARD HE MIGHT BE GETTING MARRIED!!! MY HEART LITERALLY DROPPED OUT MY BODY!!!! The conclusion I came to was I CAN’T LET HIM GET MARRIED!!! I’M STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM!!! This Cap man has been a major part of my life for too long and I just couldn’t sit back and let him marry someone without him knowing I really do care about him, I love him and I still want him!!! Recently I started back having sex with him & he started opening up to me. I have not revealed that I heard anything about any marriage!

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Posted by faith $ golphin
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Let him go.

If he get married I will let him go but so far I don't see any signs but I could be wrong!!! He's been spending more time with me and opening up so maybe its a front but time will tell. There's only 2 ways I would leave him alone and one is if he was married and the other is if he wanted to stop seeing me.
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So he's cheating? Why would you want him anyway?
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Posted by Kear12
Wow that's alot. I agree u should let him go. Did u ask him was he getting married? My question is why continue to be with someone that's not going to fully commit to only you. Life is too precious to be wasting time on somebody that doesn't value u or love u the way that u deserve to be love. I understand your in love with the man. Just because you love someone doesn't necessarily mean u guys are meant for each other. Just saying

Yeah that's the problem I don't think we are meant for each other but we do love each other and we have a physical bond together that can’t be broken. Sometimes men don't always marry the women he love the most but they marry the women that is more beneficial to him. I'm not saying he don't love her but know how he feel about me!
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Posted by Kear12
Wow that's alot. I agree u should let him go. Did u ask him was he getting married? My question is why continue to be with someone that's not going to fully commit to only you. Life is too precious to be wasting time on somebody that doesn't value u or love u the way that u deserve to be love. I understand your in love with the man. Just because you love someone doesn't necessarily mean u guys are meant for each other. Just saying

Yeah that's the problem I don't think we are meant for each other but we do love each other and we have a physical bond together that can’t be broken. Sometimes men don't always marry the women he love the most but they marry the women that is more beneficial to him. I'm not saying he don't love her but I know how he feel about me!
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Posted by Kear12
Wow that's alot. I agree u should let him go. Did u ask him was he getting married? My question is why continue to be with someone that's not going to fully commit to only you. Life is too precious to be wasting time on somebody that doesn't value u or love u the way that u deserve to be love. I understand your in love with the man. Just because you love someone doesn't necessarily mean u guys are meant for each other. Just saying

Yeah that's the problem I don't think we are meant for each other but we do love each other and we have a physical bond together that can’t be broken. Sometimes men don't always marry the women he love the most but they marry the women that is more beneficial to him. I'm not saying he don't love her but know how he feel about me!
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"A physical bond that can't be broken" LMAO! Girl, your a cum dumpster and a sperm receptical and a side piece jump off and a place to rest his dick when he's bored. Know your place girl 😉
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Its not just physical at all! The problem is I never wanted him as my man and I was happy with the way things were. I do love him but everytime I feel he wants more out of our relationship I give him signals that I'm happy the way things are. I admit sometimes I think about how things will change if I was his girl. I don't won't those strings attached. I wanna be free and do as I please!
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Posted by Arielle83
Drop him.

i got back in with him because I wasn't sure if he was getting married. I wasn' t gonna sit back and let him marry someone thinking our relationship is over for good. From my actions this last past year he told me he thought I didnt love him anymore or want him and that was far from the truth. He's been verbally expressing his feelings for me the whole year and its was going in one ear and right out the other. Until I heard some1 say he might be getting married. I immediately started seeing him again and I become intimate with him again. So far he's letting me back in slowly. He still has his guards up but Im making progress.
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Posted by Arielle83
Drop him.

Nope not until I make sure theres no marriage. I haven't let onto him about what I heard. It could not be true but Im proceeding like its a possibilty. He have no clue on why Im back and I'm not letting him know anything but I still love him and want him. The sex is crazy intense too so if he decide to get married he will have a lot to think about.
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I'm dealing with a lot of other issues outside of this relationship and I need some time to just get things in the right perspective. I don't really want to involve nobody in my life as far as a relationship right now because I can't be 100% focus on a relationship at this present time. I have a lot on my plate and I don't think you can help me right now. That's partly why I've been a little discreet with him. I don't think he's available for commitment with me right now anyway. He can't make himself available when he doesnt even know whats going on. I came back into his life to let him know I still really love him.
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Good lord, this bitch has been caught up on this cap for ages. We're talking YEARS, people. She's been his side bitch forever and she's been in denial the entire time.

Nothing has changed a bit. It's always the same issues and her shitty life choices. There's no helping this one.

/ PSA
‚‚‚‚‚‚‚‚‚‚‚‚‚ #smh #smfh #stupid #sidebitches #smh
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It's true, man. This chick was around ages ago when I first came here about a Cap dude. That's at least five years ago. Just a nice little PSA for all the newbs since then who were actually taking time to formulate a response.

When I saw her name pop up in another thread I was reading, I loled. I cannot believe she's still in the same situation with this dude. You'd think someone would eventually get tired of that bullshit and finally move on.