
He's really bumming me out with this codependency. He doesn't want to try online dating after hearing my horror stories, so what other ideas could I offer?







Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Co-dependency is an illness. It's not something he snaps out of. Regardless of the chart... you're putting more energy into him that will not fix him and exhaust you. I know that's what friends are for but sometimes enough is enough.

Posted by bumboklatt
So much libra and cancer
I'm sorry, he's doomed, or at least he will always feel that way

Posted by WhorpioHad he ever had a gf?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Co-dependency is an illness. It's not something he snaps out of. Regardless of the chart... you're putting more energy into him that will not fix him and exhaust you. I know that's what friends are for but sometimes enough is enough.
Lol he's not codependent to the point of it being a disease or addiction. He just seems to enjoy life better when he has a girlfriend since all his other friends have girlfriends.
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Posted by WhorpioOh lol I see. Well maybe it's where he's looking? Maybe switch up locations like the library or somewhere more in tuned with what he's like?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Co-dependency is an illness. It's not something he snaps out of. Regardless of the chart... you're putting more energy into him that will not fix him and exhaust you. I know that's what friends are for but sometimes enough is enough.
Lol he's not codependent to the point of it being a disease or addiction. He just seems to enjoy life better when he has a girlfriend since all his other friends have girlfriends.
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Posted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.

Posted by WhorpioDidn't you said he had a gf?Posted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.
He's adamant he's gon become a police officer. Is that close enough?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.
He's adamant he's gon become a police officer. Is that close enough?
Didn't you said he had a gf?click to expand

Posted by WhorpioHow do you know he would feel better?Posted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.
He's adamant he's gon become a police officer. Is that close enough?
Didn't you said he had a gf?
NO. I said his FRIENDS have girlfriends. He does not.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.
He's adamant he's gon become a police officer. Is that close enough?
Didn't you said he had a gf?
NO. I said his FRIENDS have girlfriends. He does not.
How do you know he would feel better?
Why do you care? Who is he to you?
Wtf—click to expand

Posted by WhorpioSo you don't see what's wrong with him?Posted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.
He's adamant he's gon become a police officer. Is that close enough?
Didn't you said he had a gf?
NO. I said his FRIENDS have girlfriends. He does not.
How do you know he would feel better?
Why do you care? Who is he to you?
Wtf—
He told me he would feel better. He is my best friend.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.
He's adamant he's gon become a police officer. Is that close enough?
Didn't you said he had a gf?
NO. I said his FRIENDS have girlfriends. He does not.
How do you know he would feel better?
Why do you care? Who is he to you?
Wtf—
He told me he would feel better. He is my best friend.
So you don't see what's wrong with him?
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Posted by WhorpioWhen man can't get a girlfriend I am sure there is something wrong with him.Posted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.
He's adamant he's gon become a police officer. Is that close enough?
Didn't you said he had a gf?
NO. I said his FRIENDS have girlfriends. He does not.
How do you know he would feel better?
Why do you care? Who is he to you?
Wtf—
He told me he would feel better. He is my best friend.
So you don't see what's wrong with him?
Do you think there's something wrong with him??
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Posted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioWhen man can't get a girlfriend I am sure there is something wrong with him.Posted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by WhorpioPosted by Admiral_2
Saturn square venus and neptune. I.E.- He's fucked. Tell him to join the army. Put that complaining energy to use. Seems emotionally draining.
He's adamant he's gon become a police officer. Is that close enough?
Didn't you said he had a gf?
NO. I said his FRIENDS have girlfriends. He does not.
How do you know he would feel better?
Why do you care? Who is he to you?
Wtf—
He told me he would feel better. He is my best friend.
So you don't see what's wrong with him?
Do you think there's something wrong with him??
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