Natal chart am I fucked?

This topic was created in the Chart Interpretation forum by Gemini25 on Friday, April 14, 2017 and has 33 replies.

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@Gemini25
9 Years

I'm having a very very hard time finding myself...And with my love life..Could my chart be showing something? Thank you

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Just speaking generically, as a Gemini you probably have a lot of different interests (or projects) floating around. Your Gemini Mars means you have a lot of energy, but a hard time focusing. You would do well in a career path that had you constantly talking and/or moving (journalist, salesperson, researcher, public speaker etc). Innovation and new ideas are your playground basically. Your Leo Moon should help you in your pursuit, being that you're possibly both creative and goal oriented.

When you don't have much to do you may be overwhelmed ironically. You know you need to be doing something and feel at ease when you're in motion. Look into physical activities for hobbies (dance classes, working out, hiking, climbing etc). You may also find hobbies that utilize your hands will suit you (painting, pottery, gardening, woodwork, writing, etc.) Also put yourself in situations where you need to meet new people and share ideas. Join a club or organization that your passionate about. Likewise find local trivia nights or host game nights to keep your mind stimulated.

Keep yourself moving until you find interests that really click with you. That's also where you'll potentially meet you next love. A person who can keep up with you mentally and is able to change as quickly as you do (or at least understands your need for constant movement) will suit you.

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9 Years

Posted by Chuckcem
Just speaking generically, as a Gemini you probably have a lot of different interests (or projects) floating around. Your Gemini Mars means you have a lot of energy, but a hard time focusing. You would do well in a career path that had you constantly talking and/or moving (journalist, salesperson, researcher, public speaker etc). Innovation and new ideas are your playground basically. Your Leo Moon should help you in your pursuit, being that you're possibly both creative and goal oriented.

When you don't have much to do you may be overwhelmed ironically. You know you need to be doing something and feel at ease when you're in motion. Look into physical activities for hobbies (dance classes, working out, hiking, climbing etc). You may also find hobbies that utilize your hands will suit you (painting, pottery, gardening, woodwork, writing, etc.) Also put yourself in situations where you need to meet new people and share ideas. Join a club or organization that your passionate about. Likewise find local trivia nights or host game nights to keep your mind stimulated.

Keep yourself moving until you find interests that really click with you. That's also where you'll potentially meet you next love. A person who can keep up with you mentally and is able to change as quickly as you do (or at least understands your need for constant movement) will suit you.

Well I was hoping you can look into my chart deeper not the general stuff...Like aspects....Because it doesn't explain why I'm not having luck at all in any areas of my life

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Chuckcem
Just speaking generically, as a Gemini you probably have a lot of different interests (or projects) floating around. Your Gemini Mars means you have a lot of energy, but a hard time focusing. You would do well in a career path that had you constantly talking and/or moving (journalist, salesperson, researcher, public speaker etc). Innovation and new ideas are your playground basically. Your Leo Moon should help you in your pursuit, being that you're possibly both creative and goal oriented.

When you don't have much to do you may be overwhelmed ironically. You know you need to be doing something and feel at ease when you're in motion. Look into physical activities for hobbies (dance classes, working out, hiking, climbing etc). You may also find hobbies that utilize your hands will suit you (painting, pottery, gardening, woodwork, writing, etc.) Also put yourself in situations where you need to meet new people and share ideas. Join a club or organization that your passionate about. Likewise find local trivia nights or host game nights to keep your mind stimulated.

Keep yourself moving until you find interests that really click with you. That's also where you'll potentially meet you next love. A person who can keep up with you mentally and is able to change as quickly as you do (or at least understands your need for constant movement) will suit you.

Well I was hoping you can look into my chart deeper not the general stuff...Like aspects....Because it doesn't explain why I'm not having luck at all in any areas of my life

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@bricklemark, any suggestions?

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Posted by tiziani
That's actually a very good chart. You have ether in there, the highest level of creation. Not that that's going to make you feel better but it's rare.

Wow ... Really? Can you elaborate? I'm new to astrology. Thank you

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I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

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@Gemini25
9 Years

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

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Could be. But people can overcome their own natal charts.

What exactly do you have trouble finding about yourself and your love life? Bad break ups? Not enough of a love life?

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@Gemini25
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Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

Could be. But people can overcome their own natal charts.

What exactly do you have trouble finding about yourself and your love life? Bad break ups? Not enough of a love life?

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Never had a boyfriend...The Men that are attracted to me are usually ones that want to cheat on their girl with me, married or guys that I thought actually want a relationship and instead they just want sex. I don't understand why this keeps happening.

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Posted by Chuckcem
Just speaking generically, as a Gemini you probably have a lot of different interests (or projects) floating around. Your Gemini Mars means you have a lot of energy, but a hard time focusing. You would do well in a career path that had you constantly talking and/or moving (journalist, salesperson, researcher, public speaker etc). Innovation and new ideas are your playground basically. Your Leo Moon should help you in your pursuit, being that you're possibly both creative and goal oriented.

When you don't have much to do you may be overwhelmed ironically. You know you need to be doing something and feel at ease when you're in motion. Look into physical activities for hobbies (dance classes, working out, hiking, climbing etc). You may also find hobbies that utilize your hands will suit you (painting, pottery, gardening, woodwork, writing, etc.) Also put yourself in situations where you need to meet new people and share ideas. Join a club or organization that your passionate about. Likewise find local trivia nights or host game nights to keep your mind stimulated.

Keep yourself moving until you find interests that really click with you. That's also where you'll potentially meet you next love. A person who can keep up with you mentally and is able to change as quickly as you do (or at least understands your need for constant movement) will suit you.

I salute you for taking the time to write this for someone

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Posted by Chuckcem
Just speaking generically, as a Gemini you probably have a lot of different interests (or projects) floating around. Your Gemini Mars means you have a lot of energy, but a hard time focusing. You would do well in a career path that had you constantly talking and/or moving (journalist, salesperson, researcher, public speaker etc). Innovation and new ideas are your playground basically. Your Leo Moon should help you in your pursuit, being that you're possibly both creative and goal oriented.

When you don't have much to do you may be overwhelmed ironically. You know you need to be doing something and feel at ease when you're in motion. Look into physical activities for hobbies (dance classes, working out, hiking, climbing etc). You may also find hobbies that utilize your hands will suit you (painting, pottery, gardening, woodwork, writing, etc.) Also put yourself in situations where you need to meet new people and share ideas. Join a club or organization that your passionate about. Likewise find local trivia nights or host game nights to keep your mind stimulated.

Keep yourself moving until you find interests that really click with you. That's also where you'll potentially meet you next love. A person who can keep up with you mentally and is able to change as quickly as you do (or at least understands your need for constant movement) will suit you.

I salute you for taking the time to write this for someone

Yeah. Chuck doesn't half-ass his responses.

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Hahah thanks to you both.

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

Could be. But people can overcome their own natal charts.

What exactly do you have trouble finding about yourself and your love life? Bad break ups? Not enough of a love life?

Never had a boyfriend...The Men that are attracted to me are usually ones that want to cheat on their girl with me, married or guys that I thought actually want a relationship and instead they just want sex. I don't understand why this keeps happening.

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How old are you? Because as a teen, that's common.

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Posted by Lilianni

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Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

Could be. But people can overcome their own natal charts.

What exactly do you have trouble finding about yourself and your love life? Bad break ups? Not enough of a love life?

Never had a boyfriend...The Men that are attracted to me are usually ones that want to cheat on their girl with me, married or guys that I thought actually want a relationship and instead they just want sex. I don't understand why this keeps happening.

How old are you? Because as a teen, that's common.

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I'm 31 and this has been happening from my 20s

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

Could be. But people can overcome their own natal charts.

What exactly do you have trouble finding about yourself and your love life? Bad break ups? Not enough of a love life?

Never had a boyfriend...The Men that are attracted to me are usually ones that want to cheat on their girl with me, married or guys that I thought actually want a relationship and instead they just want sex. I don't understand why this keeps happening.

How old are you? Because as a teen, that's common.

I'm 31 and this has been happening from my 20s

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I'm sorry to hear that. But cheating and doing a relationship secretly is indicative of venus in the 12th.

Have there ever been men who were into you but you not into them?

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Well obviously your big T square...merc-sat-jup...and moon square sat...ouch...

And merc and sat right on the ac/dc axis. People must see you first as an intellectual, or at least mentally very present...you may not like to delve into deep subjects.

And Sat on the DC, your partners must bring you a lot of grief. But it's a goldmine placement for the long term, maybe after 40, or 60, or more, you'll have an amazing relationship...Saturn makes you mature beautifully...lots of scars and bruises, wasted time, bad experiences, but then...you're a master. ?

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Posted by Lilianni

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

Could be. But people can overcome their own natal charts.

What exactly do you have trouble finding about yourself and your love life? Bad break ups? Not enough of a love life?

Never had a boyfriend...The Men that are attracted to me are usually ones that want to cheat on their girl with me, married or guys that I thought actually want a relationship and instead they just want sex. I don't understand why this keeps happening.

How old are you? Because as a teen, that's common.

I'm 31 and this has been happening from my 20s

I'm sorry to hear that. But cheating and doing a relationship secretly is indicative of venus in the 12th.

Have there ever been men who were into you but you not into them?

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Yes!!! Lots of them and it's getting to be annoyed.

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9 Years

Posted by bricklemark
Well obviously your big T square...merc-sat-jup...and moon square sat...ouch...

And merc and sat right on the ac/dc axis. People must see you first as an intellectual, or at least mentally very present...you may not like to delve into deep subjects.

And Sat on the DC, your partners must bring you a lot of grief. But it's a goldmine placement for the long term, maybe after 40, or 60, or more, you'll have an amazing relationship...Saturn makes you mature beautifully...lots of scars and bruises, wasted time, bad experiences, but then...you're a master. ?

Omg so I won't have a realtionship till after 40? WTF did I do in my past life with this awful karma? 😢

Do you know what ether is? Someone said I have this in my chart. Thanks

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by bricklemark
Well obviously your big T square...merc-sat-jup...and moon square sat...ouch...

And merc and sat right on the ac/dc axis. People must see you first as an intellectual, or at least mentally very present...you may not like to delve into deep subjects.

And Sat on the DC, your partners must bring you a lot of grief. But it's a goldmine placement for the long term, maybe after 40, or 60, or more, you'll have an amazing relationship...Saturn makes you mature beautifully...lots of scars and bruises, wasted time, bad experiences, but then...you're a master. ?

Omg so I won't have a realtionship till after 40? WTF did I do in my past life with this awful karma? 😢

Do you know what ether is? Someone said I have this in my chart. Thanks

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Seriously? That's how your brain works?

Idk what ether is, no.

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9 Years

Posted by tiziani
That's actually a very good chart. You have ether in there, the highest level of creation. Not that that's going to make you feel better but it's rare.

Can you tell me a bit more about Ether please?

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

Could be. But people can overcome their own natal charts.

What exactly do you have trouble finding about yourself and your love life? Bad break ups? Not enough of a love life?

Never had a boyfriend...The Men that are attracted to me are usually ones that want to cheat on their girl with me, married or guys that I thought actually want a relationship and instead they just want sex. I don't understand why this keeps happening.

How old are you? Because as a teen, that's common.

I'm 31 and this has been happening from my 20s

I'm sorry to hear that. But cheating and doing a relationship secretly is indicative of venus in the 12th.

Have there ever been men who were into you but you not into them?

Yes!!! Lots of them and it's getting to be annoyed.

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Lol maybe you should go for them for a change. They shouldn't be that bad.

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Posted by Lilianni

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Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Lilianni
I see Venus aries in the 12th intercepted. So I guess what you like you usually fantasize about but it's hard to bring it to reality, and you have a hard time finding a balance between asserting yourself and balancing other people.

Is that why I have problems in my love life?

Could be. But people can overcome their own natal charts.

What exactly do you have trouble finding about yourself and your love life? Bad break ups? Not enough of a love life?

Never had a boyfriend...The Men that are attracted to me are usually ones that want to cheat on their girl with me, married or guys that I thought actually want a relationship and instead they just want sex. I don't understand why this keeps happening.

How old are you? Because as a teen, that's common.

I'm 31 and this has been happening from my 20s

I'm sorry to hear that. But cheating and doing a relationship secretly is indicative of venus in the 12th.

Have there ever been men who were into you but you not into them?

Yes!!! Lots of them and it's getting to be annoyed.

Lol maybe you should go for them for a change. They shouldn't be that bad.

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Thanks but I'm not that desperate haha I want to be in love

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Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by bricklemark
Well obviously your big T square...merc-sat-jup...and moon square sat...ouch...

And merc and sat right on the ac/dc axis. People must see you first as an intellectual, or at least mentally very present...you may not like to delve into deep subjects.

And Sat on the DC, your partners must bring you a lot of grief. But it's a goldmine placement for the long term, maybe after 40, or 60, or more, you'll have an amazing relationship...Saturn makes you mature beautifully...lots of scars and bruises, wasted time, bad experiences, but then...you're a master. ?

Omg so I won't have a realtionship till after 40? WTF did I do in my past life with this awful karma? 😢

Do you know what ether is? Someone said I have this in my chart. Thanks

Seriously? That's how your brain works?

Idk what ether is, no.

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Well you wrote everything depressing in my chart so what am I suppose to think?

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Tiziani must have regretted discovering us ether.

Lol no I just don't get notifications. Then OP PMed me about my post.

Gemini25 and Montgomery, like you posted it's more or less a pentagon group of aspects in a chart. It's meaning is that the chart holder (at that point in time) would have five areas of their life or more in perfect sync to support what you want to achieve, it's like manifesting at will. Like how Ands says he can do with food and shoes.

In your case, the 5 areas or so supporting each other are your 12th, 2nd, 4th, 7th and 10th... maybe 8th house too. The pentagon in your chart isn't perfect, but with Mars and Jupiter being a part of it then around your teen years should have been your most creative if I'm seeing that right.

Doesn't mean you've peaked if you're older now. And considering two of those houses are about trust and intimacy (7th or 8th) I'd say it's a good chart for relationships as long as you keep those five areas of your life manageable and in order. A lot to ask of anyone, but a lot to gain, too.

InstantKarma had some more info about ether in Vedic astrology but I think she got tired of talking about astro. That's about all I can say.

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I thought you were drunk with power. I was also very curious about this element but I was playing it cool, for some reason I can't find it anywhere, thank you for explaining. @Montgomery, I'm quoting you since you asked.

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Posted by Blackburn

Posted by tiziani

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Tiziani must have regretted discovering us ether.

Lol no I just don't get notifications. Then OP PMed me about my post.

Gemini25 and Montgomery, like you posted it's more or less a pentagon group of aspects in a chart. It's meaning is that the chart holder (at that point in time) would have five areas of their life or more in perfect sync to support what you want to achieve, it's like manifesting at will. Like how Ands says he can do with food and shoes.

In your case, the 5 areas or so supporting each other are your 12th, 2nd, 4th, 7th and 10th... maybe 8th house too. The pentagon in your chart isn't perfect, but with Mars and Jupiter being a part of it then around your teen years should have been your most creative if I'm seeing that right.

Doesn't mean you've peaked if you're older now. And considering two of those houses are about trust and intimacy (7th or 8th) I'd say it's a good chart for relationships as long as you keep those five areas of your life manageable and in order. A lot to ask of anyone, but a lot to gain, too.

InstantKarma had some more info about ether in Vedic astrology but I think she got tired of talking about astro. That's about all I can say.

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I thought you were drunk with power. I was also very curious about this element but I was playing it cool, for some reason I can't find it anywhere, thank you for explaining. @Montgomery, I'm quoting you since you asked.

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Thank you!

I was very curious about this. 🙂