@Gemini25
9 Years
Synastry obsession
Understanding Synastry and Relationship Compatibility
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Posted by Nepturanus
i'm no expert but that is one of the most f***ed up synastry chart i've ever seen. red Union Jack style .i could be wrong tho
What does that mean—
Posted by Nepturanus
i'm no expert but that is one of the most f***ed up synastry chart i've ever seen. red Union Jack style .i could be wrong tho
What does that mean—
bad
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Can you be specific? What aspects?
Posted by Nepturanus
i'm no expert but that is one of the most f***ed up synastry chart i've ever seen. red Union Jack style .i could be wrong tho
What does that mean—
bad
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And why so bad?
Posted by Nepturanus
lots of squares and not a strong 7th house.
Hmm them why is the guy attracted to me?
Moon-Pluto and Pluto-Venus
Both opposite. Yikes! Lotsa good that can turn out disastrous or transformative. Or both.
I had moon opposite Pluto with someone and it's really...hard to describe.
Posted by sultrykitty
Moon-Pluto and Pluto-VenusBoth opposite. Yikes! Lotsa good that can turn out disastrous or transformative. Or both.
I had moon opposite Pluto with someone and it's really...hard to describe.
Thing is we are not in a relationship officially...I keep thinking about him so much. When we met it was very familiar.
Posted by sultrykitty
Moon-Pluto and Pluto-VenusBoth opposite. Yikes! Lotsa good that can turn out disastrous or transformative. Or both.
I had moon opposite Pluto with someone and it's really...hard to describe.
Thing is we are not in a relationship officially...I keep thinking about him so much. When we met it was very familiar.
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I was never in a relationship with this person either. But the dynamic was there nonetheless. It feels fated, and the attraction is insane and maddening.
Posted by DonJohn
saturn is the long term glue of the relationship. most important planet in love and commitment.his saturn does not make any contact to any of your planets. you may feel more committed to him than he does you. proceed with caution.
no contact to his venus either.
But his sun is on my IC and all our angles conjuct
Is not a bad synastry, though depends a lot on timing.
According to what I've read and exp.: Obssession? Pluto. Attraction? Look at rulers of your 1st, 5th, 7th and 8th houses interactions and planet overlays. For ex. your 7th ruler Pluto opp. his Moon, and his 7th ruler, Pluto too, opp. your Venus.
The first thing - Your Asc conjuncts his Asc., I've read is a very important aspect. Also, mars-mars conjunction. Your Venus in his 12th and his Moon on yours could be important.
BUT, don't focus too much on general facts (Venus and Saturn must be touched, Pluto is bad...) as it all depends on your natals and what each planet means in them, their aspects etc.
There are so many things to see in a synastry i'd tell you to burn it down and just forget about it, it can blind you.
@shadowcat
Thank you! Does it show any karmic links between us?
Posted by Blackburn
Is not a bad synastry, though depends a lot on timing.According to what I've read and exp.: Obssession? Pluto. Attraction? Look at rulers of your 1st, 5th, 7th and 8th houses interactions and planet overlays. For ex. your 7th ruler Pluto opp. his Moon, and his 7th ruler, Pluto too, opp. your Venus.
The first thing - Your Asc conjuncts his Asc., I've read is a very important aspect. Also, mars-mars conjunction. Your Venus in his 12th and his Moon on yours could be important.
BUT, don't focus too much on general facts (Venus and Saturn must be touched, Pluto is bad...) as it all depends on your natals and what each planet means in them, their aspects etc.
There are so many things to see in a synastry i'd tell you to burn it down and just forget about it, it can blind you.
Any karmic links?
Posted by Gemini25
... But his sun is on my IC and all our angles conjuctyes, I think this is a special encounter cause one AC is touching the Lunar Nodes of the other chart.
as if you are both home and path for each other. home=destination. It's helpful that the Moons are square, and the Suns conjuncto out of sign. Otherwise it would be freaking and freezing.
PS: sorry that I'm so courageous with interpretation and we have no proof for astrology being valid at all.
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South or North lunar nodes?
@Gemini25, what Shadowcat says. Also, Saturn aspects and I've heard about Chiron but I don't know precisely.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
what would Vertex in 6th say? that you have business together? marriage within one month? immediately sick when you both met each other?
So we have vertex in 6?
Posted by DwellingOnMove
what would Vertex in 6th say? that you have business together? marriage within one month? immediately sick when you both met each other?So we have vertex in 6?
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In the picture Vertex in the 6th. Also the table says Libra 17° and 22°. Both are in the 6th house in the round chart.
The (mean and true) Nodes are usually given for the North Node.
Posted by Gemini25
... But his sun is on my IC and all our angles conjuctyes, I think this is a special encounter cause one AC is touching the Lunar Nodes of the other chart.
as if you are both home and path for each other. home=destination. It's helpful that the Moons are square, and the Suns conjuncto out of sign. Otherwise it would be freaking and freezing.
PS: sorry that I'm so courageous with interpretation and we have no proof for astrology being valid at all.
South or North lunar nodes?
You can't touch one without the other
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What do you mean? Sorry
Posted by Gemini25
... But his sun is on my IC and all our angles conjuctyes, I think this is a special encounter cause one AC is touching the Lunar Nodes of the other chart.
as if you are both home and path for each other. home=destination. It's helpful that the Moons are square, and the Suns conjuncto out of sign. Otherwise it would be freaking and freezing.
PS: sorry that I'm so courageous with interpretation and we have no proof for astrology being valid at all.
South or North lunar nodes?
You can't touch one without the other
What do you mean? Sorry
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(Moon's) North Node is always in opposition to the (Moon's) South Node. When something makes an aspect with NN, it makes also an aspect to its opposition, that is SN.
In your example: his AC is in conjunction to your NN. and/thus opposing your SN.
AC conj. NN might be better than AC conj. SN. I'd say.
Posted by Blue_Froggie
Pluto Venus opposition ( angular rulers) for obsessive loveUnaspected Saturn means the hard reality of a commitment won't be there....
Enough good aspects to keep you guys attached to each other......Still inner person should be cautioned
Why should the inner person b cautious?
Anyone else?
Posted by Gemini25
Anyone else?
You guys from UK?
Posted by Blue_Froggie
Pluto Venus opposition ( angular rulers) for obsessive loveUnaspected Saturn means the hard reality of a commitment won't be there....
Enough good aspects to keep you guys attached to each other......Still inner person should be cautioned
Oops! I have given a reading lol and that's few months ago... Curious to know the status of the relationship.
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My old account is here ?
No I'm not from the UK
Posted by Gemini25
Can anyone tell me if you see something great in this synastry? I'm the GeminiThank you
The guy is putting few of his planets(8Ruler Jupiter) in your fifth house, which is great for attraction and flirty sexual energy. But one of those planets is Saturn which can cock block you since his Saturn is unaspected. Saturn in synastry is the planet that makes someone to put efforts to commit... The hard-work one put in to make a relationship work is mostly from Saturn. And wherever Saturn falls can also be an area that could make the other person feel restricted/lack freedom to express themselves. So his Saturn being unaspected isn't great, also note his Saturn rules his 10th house. His social image, how he wants to be seen etc,... Be careful because you have Venus in your 12th. Either he won't commit or he would hide you from the public. This is being reinforced by your unaspected Sun in this synastry....
But yeah there are lots of aspects for some high sexual energy and even emotional attachment. Definitely great attachment from you than from him.
Even with all those love and sexual aspects, Imo I would ask you to proceed with caution. Don't get caught into the plutonic web...
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Wow everything you say is on point! He hid our relationship in a way. And yes I am so obsessed with him still. I can't forget him. He has a g/f now so we are not together at all. Sometimes he would message me he misses me but now that stopped. Sometimes I feel like he really liked me but there was some sort of block and that he still thinks about me..He's still following me in social media. So weird...Maybe all that karma we still have .
Posted by Gemini25
Anyone else?You guys from UK?
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No haha why do you think that?
Posted by Gemini25
Anyone else?You guys from UK?
No haha why do you think that?
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Union Jack flag in your synastry.
Your relationship will be as strong as UK —
@Blue_froggie
Wow thank thank you so much for your insight!!! God bless you.
It's is pretty sad as with other Men I have not felt like with this one. It's like I met him before...He even told me the same before we meet that he feels like we met each other somehow...Really weird. Plus it's very long distance so the fact that we met was destined..I just don't know why.
Posted by Gemini25
Anyone else?You guys from UK?
No haha why do you think that?
Union Jack flag in your synastry.
Your relationship will be as strong as UK —
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Holy shit just noticed that! WTF ?
Posted by Gemini25
Can anyone tell me if you see something great in this synastry? I'm the GeminiThank you
The guy is putting few of his planets(8Ruler Jupiter) in your fifth house, which is great for attraction and flirty sexual energy. But one of those planets is Saturn which can cock block you since his Saturn is unaspected. Saturn in synastry is the planet that makes someone to put efforts to commit... The hard-work one put in to make a relationship work is mostly from Saturn. And wherever Saturn falls can also be an area that could make the other person feel restricted/lack freedom to express themselves. So his Saturn being unaspected isn't great, also note his Saturn rules his 10th house. His social image, how he wants to be seen etc,... Be careful because you have Venus in your 12th. Either he won't commit or he would hide you from the public. This is being reinforced by your unaspected Sun in this synastry....
But yeah there are lots of aspects for some high sexual energy and even emotional attachment. Definitely great attachment from you than from him.
Even with all those love and sexual aspects, Imo I would ask you to proceed with caution. Don't get caught into the plutonic web...
Wow everything you say is on point! He hid our relationship in a way. And yes I am so obsessed with him still. I can't forget him. He has a g/f now so we are not together at all. Sometimes he would message me he misses me but now that stopped. Sometimes I feel like he really liked me but there was some sort of block and that he still thinks about me..He's still following me in social media. So weird...Maybe all that karma we still have .
Not sure if this will help you, but yeah there are aspects for affection but also for being misunderstood esp regarding the ways you guys express your emotions/feelings. Note how your Saturn is on his Desc( strong commitment from you) and how your Saturn trines his Sun, it is like you will be the patient one waiting for him to grow up( in a way, that's how it is)... Don't waste your time on this please. Note how your Sun is on his Juno,this aspect can make him see you as an ideal partner but commitment from him isn't there and he won't support you/won't be there for you. So take it as his loss and move on. If anything you could have been great for him more than him being good for you... That's how I see this synastry.
Ensure your Venus doesn't fall in their 12th house (esp with your natal chart)... Pick a Scorp asc or a Libra asc.
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Why is it thou that my sun is on his Juno yet he stopped persuing me? I thought couples have this aspect
Posted by Gemini25
Can anyone tell me if you see something great in this synastry? I'm the GeminiThank you
The guy is putting few of his planets(8Ruler Jupiter) in your fifth house, which is great for attraction and flirty sexual energy. But one of those planets is Saturn which can cock block you since his Saturn is unaspected. Saturn in synastry is the planet that makes someone to put efforts to commit... The hard-work one put in to make a relationship work is mostly from Saturn. And wherever Saturn falls can also be an area that could make the other person feel restricted/lack freedom to express themselves. So his Saturn being unaspected isn't great, also note his Saturn rules his 10th house. His social image, how he wants to be seen etc,... Be careful because you have Venus in your 12th. Either he won't commit or he would hide you from the public. This is being reinforced by your unaspected Sun in this synastry....
But yeah there are lots of aspects for some high sexual energy and even emotional attachment. Definitely great attachment from you than from him.
Even with all those love and sexual aspects, Imo I would ask you to proceed with caution. Don't get caught into the plutonic web...
Wow everything you say is on point! He hid our relationship in a way. And yes I am so obsessed with him still. I can't forget him. He has a g/f now so we are not together at all. Sometimes he would message me he misses me but now that stopped. Sometimes I feel like he really liked me but there was some sort of block and that he still thinks about me..He's still following me in social media. So weird...Maybe all that karma we still have .
Not sure if this will help you, but yeah there are aspects for affection but also for being misunderstood esp regarding the ways you guys express your emotions/feelings. Note how your Saturn is on his Desc( strong commitment from you) and how your Saturn trines his Sun, it is like you will be the patient one waiting for him to grow up( in a way, that's how it is)... Don't waste your time on this please. Note how your Sun in his Juno can make him see you as an ideal partner but commitment from him isn't there. So take it as his loss and move on. If anything you could have been great for him more than him being good for you... That's how I see this synastry.
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Sorry what about that AC on the NN we have?
Posted by Blackburn
Is not a bad synastry, though depends a lot on timing.According to what I've read and exp.: Obssession? Pluto. Attraction? Look at rulers of your 1st, 5th, 7th and 8th houses interactions and planet overlays. For ex. your 7th ruler Pluto opp. his Moon, and his 7th ruler, Pluto too, opp. your Venus.
The first thing - Your Asc conjuncts his Asc., I've read is a very important aspect. Also, mars-mars conjunction. Your Venus in his 12th and his Moon on yours could be important.
BUT, don't focus too much on general facts (Venus and Saturn must be touched, Pluto is bad...) as it all depends on your natals and what each planet means in them, their aspects etc.
There are so many things to see in a synastry i'd tell you to burn it down and just forget about it, it can blind you.
Omg we both have 7th house Pluto? That's insane
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Can anyone tell me if you see something great in this synastry? I'm the Gemini
Thank you