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the "time to move on idiot" dream
I know what you mean about dreams feeling real and the intense emotions that connect to them sometimes. Since Sunday night I have been having dreams about exes, but it's after talking about them on some level already in the day smh
Omg I've had those dreams before, always about partners or exes cheating on me in bad ways or fighting with them and I wake up feeling it's really happened and fir the rest of the day I'm in an emotional nightmare, very draining
I had a dream too of my ex bff way back when, cheating on me.. I asked him he denied it only the behavior he was showing was a gut instinct I was right.. Damn dreams I wished it was a dream, but it was real..
I think it's pretty typical to have dreams about your ex or someone you had/have a crush on. For me, I've never had dreams of my exes or any of my crushes until my most recent ex. In the past couple of weeks alone, I've had 4 dreams about her.
The first one was right after we had broken up. She somehow appeared in my sunroom, proceeded to hug and kiss me, and tell me that she would always be there for me. It was a dream that gave me a little closure.
The second dream was of us unexpectedly meeting up and her being upset towards me. I was happy to see her in my dream, but she was so cold to me. I took that as my cue to leave until her best friend showed up and called me over to him. He whispered to me that she still cared very much for me and that she was just being stubborn and to just give her some time. He also told me that she wanted me back, but was too bull headed to say it. I thanked him and he kissed my cheek and I woke up.
Now my last two dreams happened at the same time
The third one was of her proposing to me. Although I couldn't see our faces, I saw our hands and she placed my left hand on her lap, pulled out this large, guady diamond ring, and slid it unto my finger. I could feel myself smiling and her as well even though our faces weren't showing. Then she began to speak, but it was muffled. I must admit, the engagement ring was gorgeous! Just too big for my taste.
The final dream was a bit more sinister. We were in bed asleep and I began to toss and turn violently. I was drenched in sweat and babbling incoherently. I saw her get out of the bed and stand over me. She was watching me, but I couldn't make out her facial expressions...I just knew that she was very calm.
I've had a series of dreams involving her and it's crazy.
The first one was right after we had broken up. She somehow appeared in my sunroom, proceeded to hug and kiss me, and tell me that she would always be there for me. It was a dream that gave me a little closure.
The second dream was of us unexpectedly meeting up and her being upset towards me. I was happy to see her in my dream, but she was so cold to me. I took that as my cue to leave until her best friend showed up and called me over to him. He whispered to me that she still cared very much for me and that she was just being stubborn and to just give her some time. He also told me that she wanted me back, but was too bull headed to say it. I thanked him and he kissed my cheek and I woke up.
Now my last two dreams happened at the same time
The third one was of her proposing to me. Although I couldn't see our faces, I saw our hands and she placed my left hand on her lap, pulled out this large, guady diamond ring, and slid it unto my finger. I could feel myself smiling and her as well even though our faces weren't showing. Then she began to speak, but it was muffled. I must admit, the engagement ring was gorgeous! Just too big for my taste.
The final dream was a bit more sinister. We were in bed asleep and I began to toss and turn violently. I was drenched in sweat and babbling incoherently. I saw her get out of the bed and stand over me. She was watching me, but I couldn't make out her facial expressions...I just knew that she was very calm.
I've had a series of dreams involving her and it's crazy.
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