what does it mean to dream the same dream

Hi, I have dreaming about my ex often and its the same scene. He was a coward and he ran away. There wasnt a proper closure. This happened 3 yrs ago but I keep dreaming about him. Its like I'm trying get in touch with him and trying to get it fixed. Deep down I dont want to meet him because he has caused me so much pain. It was a 6 yr relationship and he moved to another state and vanished in thin air. I hate these dreams and whenever I have this dream my whole day is spoiled. I'm single and I dont have any one in the present to represent my feeling or whatever. Can someone please help. I hate this feeling and it upsets me when i dream about him. Irony is its the same dream. He was a taurus and I'm an aqua. I would really appreciate your suggestions. I dont want to ruin my day ever again..

This is creepy because you have almost copied word for word a post Ive written about this particular kind of dream.

Just for shits n gigs whats your moon sign? mines scorpio and I'm an Aquarius too.

I was in a really serious relationship that I ended up leaving cold turkey and no chaser, I packed a small bag filled with my clothes and left and that was that. To say that I was heart broken was an understatement I never knew I was capable of feeling pain like that haha but I did and I never had any closure or anyone to talk about it.

The very first night I slept with him I had a certain dream in particular of him and me fighting and him walking away and when I woke up I felt weird and I went to work and something was wrong with me like I was over caffeinated I felt shaky I remember I kept going to my workmates and telling them something was wrong with me and in my head i was saying "oh you must be in love" but I felt agony instead and I was miserable and snappy for the rest of the day. A year and a bit later we broke up the whole ordeal was pretty traumatic for me and I think its a form of post traumatic stress.

Fast forward 6 years to present day and I still have the same type of dream but different scenario and it always has him in it and he will be cheating on me with someone or I'll be on a date with a hot guy and he leaves me for my ex etc theres been many scenarios, the last one I had I was at an expensive resort on holiday with him and he went out and I turned the Tv on and the Tv was like a security camera showing him walking to the room down the hall and hooking up with some guy.....I have dreams like this and when I wake up I'm depressed for the whole day and its not like I'm sad because I had a bad dream Its impossible for me to be happy its like I've been injected with a sadness drug

So I posted this in a different forum and this guy said that our Brains have 3 levels of consciousness that we evolved since the beginning.

We have the reptilian brain which is at the back and its cold calculating and very instinctual, it was the kind of mind we needed to survive at the time.

In the middle we have the monkey brain which has something to do with us understanding hierarchy, society, shame, and its probably why we wear clothes...

At the front behind our foreheads we have the Human mind which is why we perceive ourselves at the front of the face and this mind is compassionate, humanitarian, Logical, smart and civilised.

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The one thing that Humans are supposedly are able to do better than any other animal in the world is run simulations in their own mind in order to over come obstacles and solve problems....When we have dreams our different levels of consciousness work together to run these simulations in order to provoke us to be proactive in dealing with our feelings I guess ( you can kind of understand why we have naked dreams its monkey brain simulating the situation)......

So yeh its pretty much our consciousness telling us that we have unsolved business or have been mismanaging our feelings.....maybe some emotional spring cleaning is in order.

A good technique I use whenever I feel bad juju or depression is white lighting it protects you from everything I swear I could probably survive a fatal car crash if I did this lol...

All you do is close your eyes and imagine the world disappearing and you are surrounded my space and the universe and every star moon and planet is looking at you with so much love and their light becomes blinding and it fills you up till you become light and no shadow can touch you. Powerful stuff right there..

Thank you The_eleventh_sign_11, I'm an Aquarius. Those dreams ruins your whole day you know. He didnt have the balls to break it up in person instead he ran away. And the weird thing is in mydreams I'm trying to fix it. I wish I can find away to stop it because its happening almost everyday and it hurts a lot... 😢

Is there anyway to stop it. I don't want to dream about him.

I had the same dream today, its disturbing me a lot. I dont want to dream about him and top it all I always dream as if I'm trying ways to contact him. Can someone please advise !