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DXP women hotties we already know over the years. Fortuna is no doubt beautiful, and someone I’ve always thought very highly of beyond her beauty.

There are handsome men here too. Rabbit, Taniwha, ands, kimboslice, boomshaka, my ex from here, etc etc.

Men don’t often post their photos, so I just remember them from memory.
Nano I vow to attempt to stop tarnishing the Gemini name at least somewhat, in the hoe posting and looks obsession sense (& whining about my family, former romantic rivals, & ex "trauma")
I won't let you down 🫡
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We are all getting old. How are you coping with the idea of slowly losing youth/good looks as time ticks by? Have you been able to come to terms with it? While not hideous, I’ve never been a person who could rely on my appearance for anything, so it’s just business as usual for me. This seems easier to process than a person who has been gifted an easier life, in any aspect, for their beauty.
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I love older women and assume I'll age fine

Hate to say I'm not really tied to this life so I'm unsure how long Ill live, plus as a non driver I'm likely to be taken out by traffic

One day id like to retire and be a total hermit and I wouldn't have to care about being seen, that's been the plan
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I hope you stay safe… people get hit by cars often where I live 😭 there’s a new lack of patience and empathy in this world that I haven’t seen or ever been aware of, anyway.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.

Sancho is Bad-

Pilatesbod is stardustmopped
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I don’t remember much about stardustmopped 🥲 was there other usernames? Sometimes I leave for a few months so I can’t keep up with them.
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I also want to say that we can add some depth to this conversation.

Attractiveness is highly dependent on geography, social norms, beauty standards of that region.

I will focus on geography

For example, I live in an unfortunate area of Ohio where I could maybe be considered an 8/10 because I am not physically deformed, a meth addict, have all of my teeth, in a normal weight range, have hair on my end, clear skin etc. The bar is fucking low is what I’m saying

If I go to the south, like Texas maybe, instant 5/10. The women are hotter down south

If I go to Australia— I’m now a 3. In good lighting. I just don’t stand a chance in hell.

It’s all relative 🤷🏼‍♀️

I think it's synastry too

Like some men at the club make a beeline for me or only have eyes for the others who I don't consider to be at the top lookswise

Joe Torgerson slid in my DMs after I followed him despite his ex being Taylor Selfridge (likely bc we're both Geminis)
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Body seems to often account for a lot more than face too, it seems. Probably especially at the strip club
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DXP women hotties we already know over the years. Fortuna is no doubt beautiful, and someone I’ve always thought very highly of beyond her beauty.

There are handsome men here too. Rabbit, Taniwha, ands, kimboslice, boomshaka, my ex from here, etc etc.

Men don’t often post their photos, so I just remember them from memory.
Nano I vow to attempt to stop tarnishing the Gemini name at least somewhat, in the hoe posting and looks obsession sense (& whining about my family, former romantic rivals, & ex "trauma")
I won't let you down 🫡
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We are all getting old. How are you coping with the idea of slowly losing youth/good looks as time ticks by? Have you been able to come to terms with it? While not hideous, I’ve never been a person who could rely on my appearance for anything, so it’s just business as usual for me. This seems easier to process than a person who has been gifted an easier life, in any aspect, for their beauty.
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What field do you work again?
Back in eletronics class if a woman was just mid was already S tier 😅
Depends on context
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Yes! This is another aspect. I just made another post in this thread, see it. Attractiveness relative to your surroundings.

I’m a computer engineer so I would have higher level of attractiveness in my day to day environment
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Cool, u always seemed smart

Mt colleagues would fight for the attention of the only woman in my class, she was a libra n loved that 🤣

Even after she got fat she could still lay lol

She was also really smart n disciplined
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Yea for sure. I feel like women do have it a lot easier than men in that regard, where you can be incredibly average or become overweight and still have zero problems finding a man for relationship or sex. My weight has fluctuated my entire life and there has been no shortage of men at all stages. The QUALITY of person is whole other story. People, both male and female, are generally shit across all tiers, I imagine.
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DXP women hotties we already know over the years. Fortuna is no doubt beautiful, and someone I’ve always thought very highly of beyond her beauty.

There are handsome men here too. Rabbit, Taniwha, ands, kimboslice, boomshaka, my ex from here, etc etc.

Men don’t often post their photos, so I just remember them from memory.
Nano I vow to attempt to stop tarnishing the Gemini name at least somewhat, in the hoe posting and looks obsession sense (& whining about my family, former romantic rivals, & ex "trauma")
I won't let you down 🫡
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We are all getting old. How are you coping with the idea of slowly losing youth/good looks as time ticks by? Have you been able to come to terms with it? While not hideous, I’ve never been a person who could rely on my appearance for anything, so it’s just business as usual for me. This seems easier to process than a person who has been gifted an easier life, in any aspect, for their beauty.
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What field do you work again?
Back in eletronics class if a woman was just mid was already S tier 😅
Depends on context
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Yes! This is another aspect. I just made another post in this thread, see it. Attractiveness relative to your surroundings.

I’m a computer engineer so I would have higher level of attractiveness in my day to day environment
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Cool, u always seemed smart
Mt colleagues would fight for the attention of the only woman in my class, she was a libra n loved that 🤣
Even after she got fat she could still lay lol
She was also really smart n disciplined
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Yea for sure. I feel like women do have it a lot easier than men in that regard, where you can be incredibly average or become overweight and still have zero problems finding a man for relationship or sex. My weight has fluctuated my entire life and there has been no shortage of men at all stages. The QUALITY of person is whole other story. People, both male and female, are generally shit across all tiers, I imagine.
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One of my colleagues was a taurus with a aries gf, his aries gf had a great bod, he stayed hitting on the libra till the end, i never understood whats up, we and may taurus ppl are not the same imo 😅
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I also want to say that we can add some depth to this conversation.

Attractiveness is highly dependent on geography, social norms, beauty standards of that region.

I will focus on geography

For example, I live in an unfortunate area of Ohio where I could maybe be considered an 8/10 because I am not physically deformed, a meth addict, have all of my teeth, in a normal weight range, have hair on my end, clear skin etc. The bar is fucking low is what I’m saying

If I go to the south, like Texas maybe, instant 5/10. The women are hotter down south

If I go to Australia— I’m now a 3. In good lighting. I just don’t stand a chance in hell.

It’s all relative 🤷🏼‍♀️
I think it's synastry too
Like some men at the club make a beeline for me or only have eyes for the others who I don't consider to be at the top lookswise
Joe Torgerson slid in my DMs after I followed him despite his ex being Taylor Selfridge (likely bc we're both Geminis)
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Body seems to often account for a lot more than face too, it seems. Probably especially at the strip club
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I wish I had planned my tattoos to be more cohesive and follow a theme. Like all flattering tribal curves instead of chunky images that are indiscernible from afar

V much excited for my Mike Tyson face tattoo at age 65 though
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DXP women hotties we already know over the years. Fortuna is no doubt beautiful, and someone I’ve always thought very highly of beyond her beauty.

There are handsome men here too. Rabbit, Taniwha, ands, kimboslice, boomshaka, my ex from here, etc etc.

Men don’t often post their photos, so I just remember them from memory.
Nano I vow to attempt to stop tarnishing the Gemini name at least somewhat, in the hoe posting and looks obsession sense (& whining about my family, former romantic rivals, & ex "trauma")
I won't let you down 🫡
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We are all getting old. How are you coping with the idea of slowly losing youth/good looks as time ticks by? Have you been able to come to terms with it? While not hideous, I’ve never been a person who could rely on my appearance for anything, so it’s just business as usual for me. This seems easier to process than a person who has been gifted an easier life, in any aspect, for their beauty.
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What field do you work again?
Back in eletronics class if a woman was just mid was already S tier 😅
Depends on context
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Yes! This is another aspect. I just made another post in this thread, see it. Attractiveness relative to your surroundings.

I’m a computer engineer so I would have higher level of attractiveness in my day to day environment
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Cool, u always seemed smart
Mt colleagues would fight for the attention of the only woman in my class, she was a libra n loved that 🤣
Even after she got fat she could still lay lol
She was also really smart n disciplined
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Yea for sure. I feel like women do have it a lot easier than men in that regard, where you can be incredibly average or become overweight and still have zero problems finding a man for relationship or sex. My weight has fluctuated my entire life and there has been no shortage of men at all stages. The QUALITY of person is whole other story. People, both male and female, are generally shit across all tiers, I imagine.
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One of my colleagues was a taurus with a aries gf, his aries gf had a great bod, he stayed hitting on the libra till the end, i never understood whats up, we and may taurus ppl are not the same imo 😅
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Maybe it’s something to do with the relatability of interests/jobs.

I’ve read a statistic before about how people are most likely to cheat on their partners in work related scenarios when the two people are problem solving together, it supposedly creates a strong emotional bond 🤔
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅


One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?


No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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DXP women hotties we already know over the years. Fortuna is no doubt beautiful, and someone I’ve always thought very highly of beyond her beauty.

There are handsome men here too. Rabbit, Taniwha, ands, kimboslice, boomshaka, my ex from here, etc etc.

Men don’t often post their photos, so I just remember them from memory.
Nano I vow to attempt to stop tarnishing the Gemini name at least somewhat, in the hoe posting and looks obsession sense (& whining about my family, former romantic rivals, & ex "trauma")
I won't let you down 🫡
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We are all getting old. How are you coping with the idea of slowly losing youth/good looks as time ticks by? Have you been able to come to terms with it? While not hideous, I’ve never been a person who could rely on my appearance for anything, so it’s just business as usual for me. This seems easier to process than a person who has been gifted an easier life, in any aspect, for their beauty.
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I love older women and assume I'll age fine
Hate to say I'm not really tied to this life so I'm unsure how long Ill live, plus as a non driver I'm likely to be taken out by traffic
One day id like to retire and be a total hermit and I wouldn't have to care about being seen, that's been the plan
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I hope you stay safe… people get hit by cars often where I live 😭 there’s a new lack of patience and empathy in this world that I haven’t seen or ever been aware of, anyway.
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So much red light runners these days….
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.


The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.


Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.

The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.

Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.

Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.

Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.

Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.

The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.

Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.

Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.

Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.

Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Is Hickory still pretty decent? I lived there a long time ago and loved it.
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It is. It's getting expensive, too.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.


The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.


Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.


Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.


Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.


Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Thanks for the info! I have heard really good things about several of these areas. I had a couple job interviews there (Asheville and Raleigh if I recall) but didn’t get an offer so ended up in Dayton. My salary is very high vs the COL here, but it’s just not worth it to me.

The worst thing for me aside from the drugs and violence and poor condition of roads/dilapidated buildings everywhere, is the weather. I can’t handle it being cold like 8 months out of the year. It’s really awful for me. I am actually from Houston originally, so you can imagine the different climate here than what I am used to.

I’m not going anywhere until my dog dies though. She’s 11 years old half Great Dane/mix so we are really getting up there in age. Vet actually gave her 1 year to live back in December 2023 but she’s still kicking lol.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.

The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.

Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.

Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.

Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.

Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Thanks for the info! I have heard really good things about several of these areas. I had a couple job interviews there (Asheville and Raleigh if I recall) but didn’t get an offer so ended up in Dayton. My salary is very high vs the COL here, but it’s just not worth it to me.


The worst thing for me aside from the drugs and violence and poor condition of roads/dilapidated buildings everywhere, is the weather. I can’t handle it being cold like 8 months out of the year. It’s really awful for me. I am actually from Houston originally, so you can imagine the different climate here than what I am used to.


I’m not going anywhere until my dog dies though. She’s 11 years old half Great Dane/mix so we are really getting up there in age. Vet actually gave her 1 year to live back in December 2023 but she’s still kicking lol.
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Worst part of the Raleigh metro is the commute from basically anywhere to anywhere. There's a lot of sprawl. We came close to buying a house in a little suburb there, and we're glad we didn't because it's exploded in population. But, there is a thriving tech industry there, which is nice. I'd move there if we could afford the housing. I like boring.

Charlotte is just pure chaos sometimes. But I love being able to open my windows in the winter.
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I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.

The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.

Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.

Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.

Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.

Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Is Hickory still pretty decent? I lived there a long time ago and loved it.
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It is. It's getting expensive, too.
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Thats good to hear. Was a peaceful snall town when I lived there. Come March madness though, it was civil war between the tar heels and the blue devils fans. Thats about as crazy as it got.
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Last I heard, it was a lot of Charlotte metro people wanting something more "country" without moving out to full BFE
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.

The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.

Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.

Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.

Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.

Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Is Hickory still pretty decent? I lived there a long time ago and loved it.
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It is. It's getting expensive, too.
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Thats good to hear. Was a peaceful snall town when I lived there. Come March madness though, it was civil war between the tar heels and the blue devils fans. Thats about as crazy as it got.
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Last I heard, it was a lot of Charlotte metro people wanting something more "country" without moving out to full BFE

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Ah, that would make sense. You mentioned Indy earlier, I live in Carmel now. Which is kinda what Hickory is becoming, by the sounds of it.
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Hickory is becoming what Zionsville was like 15 years ago or Carmel was 20 years ago. I remember when Carmel got it's first Meijer and it was a big deal.
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I’ve seen the pics you have posted. You are definitely handsome wdym
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I'm very insecure.. no one noticed me and I felt like sht lol
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I'm genuinely sorry my thread hurt you and anyone else, and I aim not to behave this way again 😔🙏
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It's okay because you said later that I had a peak....that made me feel better lol. 💙
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I’ve seen the pics you have posted. You are definitely handsome wdym
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I'm very insecure.. no one noticed me and I felt like sht lol
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I'm genuinely sorry my thread hurt you and anyone else, and I aim not to behave this way again 😔🙏
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Men are known to age like fine wine
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I don't really know much about that one. I guess more research need to be done on that. And I can't speak for other men on this problem I do feel like I've aged forward before my time like nature is rushing me and I already feel like I'm in my 70s even 100 sometimes. But here's where the problem lies. People still talk down to me like I'm still young I know I can't possibly look 10, 20 or 30 years younger than I am but that's how most people see me as. A young kid. Other men my age get the old man treatment but not me. I don't know, I probably do aged like fine wine in the eyes of people but um iii, dunno. I dunno if I agree or not. If I do aged like fine wine to people that's good and if not still good I don't care.
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I’ve seen the pics you have posted. You are definitely handsome wdym
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I'm very insecure.. no one noticed me and I felt like sht lol
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I'm genuinely sorry my thread hurt you and anyone else, and I aim not to behave this way again 😔🙏
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It's okay because you said later that I had a peak....that made me feel better lol. 💙
Men are known to age like fine wine
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I don't really know much about that one. I guess more research need to be done on that. And I can't speak for other men on this problem I do feel like I've aged forward before my time like nature is rushing me and I already feel like I'm in my 70s even 100 sometimes. But here's where the problem lies. People still talk down to me like I'm still young I know I can't possibly look 10, 20 or 30 years younger than I am but that's how most people see me as. A young kid. Other men my age get the old man treatment but not me. I don't know, I probably do aged like fine wine in the eyes of people but um iii, dunno. I dunno if I agree or not. If I do aged like fine wine to people that's good and if not still good I don't care.
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It might be the condescension is just people trying to fuck with you bc you're a chill ass Gemini
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I’ve seen the pics you have posted. You are definitely handsome wdym
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I'm very insecure.. no one noticed me and I felt like sht lol
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I'm genuinely sorry my thread hurt you and anyone else, and I aim not to behave this way again 😔🙏
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Wtf who gets hurt by a "who's hot?" thread 🤣
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I'm not on a list, I guess I'm ugly 😭😭😭😭
I’ve seen the pics you have posted. You are definitely handsome wdym
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I'm very insecure.. no one noticed me and I felt like sht lol
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I'm genuinely sorry my thread hurt you and anyone else, and I aim not to behave this way again 😔🙏
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It's okay because you said later that I had a peak....that made me feel better lol. 💙
Men are known to age like fine wine
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I don't really know much about that one. I guess more research need to be done on that. And I can't speak for other men on this problem I do feel like I've aged forward before my time like nature is rushing me and I already feel like I'm in my 70s even 100 sometimes. But here's where the problem lies. People still talk down to me like I'm still young I know I can't possibly look 10, 20 or 30 years younger than I am but that's how most people see me as. A young kid. Other men my age get the old man treatment but not me. I don't know, I probably do aged like fine wine in the eyes of people but um iii, dunno. I dunno if I agree or not. If I do aged like fine wine to people that's good and if not still good I don't care.

It might be the condescension is just people trying to fuck with you bc you're a chill ass Gemini
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It could be that. People do like to fuck with me for no apparent reason just because I'm quiet and don't like to socialize. I just don't feel close to people. And I don't like people. I'm an avid animal lover. I'm very cautious about people getting too close to me. I'm just a good ole country boy at heart.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.


You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.

Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.

The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.

Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.

Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.

Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.

Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Is Hickory still pretty decent? I lived there a long time ago and loved it.
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It is. It's getting expensive, too.
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Thats good to hear. Was a peaceful snall town when I lived there. Come March madness though, it was civil war between the tar heels and the blue devils fans. Thats about as crazy as it got.
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Last I heard, it was a lot of Charlotte metro people wanting something more "country" without moving out to full BFE

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Ah, that would make sense. You mentioned Indy earlier, I live in Carmel now. Which is kinda what Hickory is becoming, by the sounds of it.
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Is that the same Carmel that Clint Eastwood lives in?
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.

The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.

Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.

Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.

Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.

Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Is Hickory still pretty decent? I lived there a long time ago and loved it.
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It is. It's getting expensive, too.
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Thats good to hear. Was a peaceful snall town when I lived there. Come March madness though, it was civil war between the tar heels and the blue devils fans. Thats about as crazy as it got.
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Last I heard, it was a lot of Charlotte metro people wanting something more "country" without moving out to full BFE
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Ah, that would make sense. You mentioned Indy earlier, I live in Carmel now. Which is kinda what Hickory is becoming, by the sounds of it.
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Is that the same Carmel that Clint Eastwood lives in?
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🤣 no! I had to look that up. He was Mayor of Carmel-by-the-sea in California. Learned 2 things today thanks to you. Didn't know Clint was the mayor of anything. And never heard of that place in California.
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Where’s your Carmel?
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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Depends on where in NC and what your priorities are.

The entire Raleigh-Durham metro area is growing well, is pretty progressive, and safe but slightly boring. It's also only a little less affordable than Asheville.

Charlotte is pretty unaffordable (for what you get/QOL) and is having a lot of problems managing it's growth. City/county government here is borderline incompetent. Plus it pretty soulless. It's like the Applebee's of cities. It pretty much exists only to support the banking industry.

Asheville beautiful and is the land of dope smoking, AR15 toting, libertarian drag queens, which is awesome, but it's ridiculously expensive.

Greensboro is fairly affordable, and while a smaller city has a lot of amenities plus a nice arts and culture scene. We were looking at possibly moving there if/when housing prices stabilize and mortgage interest rates drop. There's also the PFOS/PFAS problem with the water there. Turn on the tap and Teflon comes out.

Wilmington is nice but is just a decade away from being washed out to sea.
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Is Hickory still pretty decent? I lived there a long time ago and loved it.
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It is. It's getting expensive, too.
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Thats good to hear. Was a peaceful snall town when I lived there. Come March madness though, it was civil war between the tar heels and the blue devils fans. Thats about as crazy as it got.
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Last I heard, it was a lot of Charlotte metro people wanting something more "country" without moving out to full BFE
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Ah, that would make sense. You mentioned Indy earlier, I live in Carmel now. Which is kinda what Hickory is becoming, by the sounds of it.
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Is that the same Carmel that Clint Eastwood lives in?
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🤣 no! I had to look that up. He was Mayor of Carmel-by-the-sea in California. Learned 2 things today thanks to you. Didn't know Clint was the mayor of anything. And never heard of that place in California.
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Where’s your Carmel?
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Its in Indiana. Not far from Indianapolis where Rabbit was mentioning.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.

You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.

Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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When I went to Ohio in my teens, people there were either fucking hot or fucking ugly. It was so odd, it felt like there were almost no average looking people lol
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It's funny how many of the most beautiful people I've seen anywhere, on or offscreen were midwestern normies I happened upon
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.

You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.


Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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I live in the suburbs of dayton. Never had to deal with drugs/homeless situation even though i know that exists. Its a LCOL and if you are in the medical field, salary significantly more since it competes with cincy and columbus. We didn't think we would like it here since we are used to larger cities (chicago, nyc, detroit) but quality of work/life balance is great.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.

You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.

Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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I live in the suburbs of dayton. Never had to deal with drugs/homeless situation even though i know that exists. Its a LCOL and if you are in the medical field, salary significantly more since it competes with cincy and columbus. We didn't think we would like it here since we are used to larger cities (chicago, nyc, detroit) but quality of work/life balance is great.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.

You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.

Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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When I went to Ohio in my teens, people there were either fucking hot or fucking ugly. It was so odd, it felt like there were almost no average looking people lol
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You need to head to Cleveland for some sturdily built Polish girls who smell and sound like Marlboro Reds
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.

You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.

Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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When I went to Ohio in my teens, people there were either fucking hot or fucking ugly. It was so odd, it felt like there were almost no average looking people lol
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You need to head to Cleveland for some sturdily built Polish girls who smell and sound like Marlboro Reds
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STURDILY BUILT EH—?? POLISH EH——??
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.

You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.

Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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I live in the suburbs of dayton. Never had to deal with drugs/homeless situation even though i know that exists. Its a LCOL and if you are in the medical field, salary significantly more since it competes with cincy and columbus. We didn't think we would like it here since we are used to larger cities (chicago, nyc, detroit) but quality of work/life balance is great.
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I'm shy 8( who are you.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.

You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.

Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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I live in the suburbs of dayton. Never had to deal with drugs/homeless situation even though i know that exists. Its a LCOL and if you are in the medical field, salary significantly more since it competes with cincy and columbus. We didn't think we would like it here since we are used to larger cities (chicago, nyc, detroit) but quality of work/life balance is great.
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The work/life balance is pretty good at some jobs, and the jobs are also good here in certain fields. Unfortunately it seems only a small % of the people here are getting those benefits and the divide shows pretty dramatically.
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Who is sancho’s new username and who is Pilates bod? Are they the same and are they in Ohio? DO they need friends? Please. I hate it here.
I’m buying a house and moving in September. Not sure where you are in Ohio. We can commiserate about home owner responsibilities and being poor from the upgrades she needs.
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Dayton 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 please pray for me

I bought a house 2 yr ago (for the backyard for my dogs) and there is nothing upgraded or on the walls. It’s like I’m renting and starring in a side quest in my own fucking life. Never felt like home to me, I just exist
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I will pray. I won’t pretend it’s the best place but it does have perks. Right? 😅

One of the largest, if not largest paved bike trail. Do you have a bike? Lots of protected green space, even if it’s flat 😅 low COL. It’s not San Francisco but there is a decent foodie scene. Have you had Vals croissants?

No but honestly there’s some really cool people, you just have to find your group. I can understand why you hate it though. It’s hard not drive off a bridge when the sky is grey for 8 out of 12 months.
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I vaguely remembered you lived up north in Cleveland or something? Fortuna moved to Ohio a while back. Maybe there are more of us here than we know. I believe that another user lives in this area, I am not sure if it was stardustmopped but one time someone asked me if I worked at a factory here, so they had to know of the area.

The low cost of living here comes with some serious consequences - rampant hard drug use and violent crime. I’d rather pay premium prices and live in a clean, safe area. The jobs here are damn good in terms of hardware and aerospace though…. That’s what brought me here. I haven’t heard of the croissant place, but I’ll look it up. Always want food recommendations, as an equal opportunity fatass.

Where I live in AR was a LOT nicer than Dayton. But no jobs. Also I like Cincinnati more than here, I don’t think it’s so bad. If I stayed in the US, I would like to move to NC though I heard it’s not affordable anymore. Didn’t you move there a long time ago? @thesithrogen
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I’m stardust. I’m from Cincinnati area. You’re right, I wouldn’t buy a house in Dayton necessarily even though a lot of people are moving from other cities and trying to gentrify it, it’s still not worth it to me. But even 15-20 miles outside of Dayton in the suburbs are extremely nice areas. You just moved right to the heart of meth nation 💀you’re doing Ohio on level hard for no reason.

You’re a hot blonde. (I think you’re blonde) Like you said, you’re an 8 here easily if not higher. Join a country club and mingle with the millionaires and find a rich husband. Some D list celebrities live on the Country club of the north golf course. The guy that owns The Connor Group is a billionaire. I run into wealthy and well-connected people all the time, I’m just a hateful wench
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Hahahaha Ohio on hardmode. Not sure how familiar you are with the area, but I bought a house in Clayton/Englewood area. I have been told that Centerville is “the only acceptable location to live in Dayton” outside of Oakwood. Where people think they are famous…. and University of Dayton graduates are seen as Harvard alumni 😷 it really is akin to being the coolest person in special ed. Apologies for the ableist comparison but that’s literally the best way I can describe it here right now.

Rich men in Dayton that I know of are short and ugly. Still thinking about that promising sugar baby life but would probably sooner kill myself let any of these deformed 5’3ers touch me.
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I live in the suburbs of dayton. Never had to deal with drugs/homeless situation even though i know that exists. Its a LCOL and if you are in the medical field, salary significantly more since it competes with cincy and columbus. We didn't think we would like it here since we are used to larger cities (chicago, nyc, detroit) but quality of work/life balance is great.
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The work/life balance is pretty good at some jobs, and the jobs are also good here in certain fields. Unfortunately it seems only a small % of the people here are getting those benefits and the divide shows pretty dramatically.
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I think they should build more gas stations and car washes
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That was phrased poorly and I still can't figure out how to edit lol, even if I click "more" and "details" there's no option. Maybe bc im on chrome

I need to shut up about all this now. It just hurts

I also noticed looking through archives that when cloudy was 16 some female users treated her similarly

Maybe they're envious of our shared defining friend xD

But when I said "to their faces", I meant not at all
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I'm still debating whether the last page worth of posts was just purely manufactured drama or not.

The Ohio talk, or are you suspicious that some of us are dxp staff? x) how's your mercury rx going mane
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No, thankfully I don't know who the staff is and I don't want to know. I like the mystery better.

Had a couple of computer glitches last Monday, but things have leveled out pretty well. Talking to about seven different DXP members offline, trying to make sure they don't murder their partner or potential partner.

How's yours been so far?
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I'm still debating whether the last page worth of posts was just purely manufactured drama or not.
The Ohio talk, or are you suspicious that some of us are dxp staff? x) how's your mercury rx going mane
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No, thankfully I don't know who the staff is and I don't want to know. I like the mystery better.


Had a couple of computer glitches last Monday, but things have leveled out pretty well. Talking to about seven different DXP members offline, trying to make sure they don't murder their partner or potential partner.


How's yours been so far?
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I have much to be grateful for and finally some time off from day job to unpack and play with my cat, get her and myself some exercise
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I'm still debating whether the last page worth of posts was just purely manufactured drama or not.
The Ohio talk, or are you suspicious that some of us are dxp staff? x) how's your mercury rx going mane
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No, thankfully I don't know who the staff is and I don't want to know. I like the mystery better.

Had a couple of computer glitches last Monday, but things have leveled out pretty well. Talking to about seven different DXP members offline, trying to make sure they don't murder their partner or potential partner.

How's yours been so far?
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I have much to be grateful for and finally some time off from day job to unpack and play with my cat, get her and myself some exercise
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Well that's good! I'm trying to figure out what I'm going to have for dinner. I just got done with this drink now I'm hungry.
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Lol! I literally just came back to DXP for the first time in a few years (I think) and of course, this is the first thread that caught my eye 😉

Thanks for the nominations 😘. Glad to still be able to recognize some of you fellow old timers! Nano 😘, Pisco 😘 among others (you know who you are) some others I probably know well too but can’t quite recognize due to their new nicknames. BTW, I just realized I first joined this website back in 2005 btw…can you believe that shit??

Big hug to you all, it’s been a while.

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Some of the female dxpers I find the most beautiful inside and out:


Nem

This one sassy Gemini woman (can’t remember her name but I hope she’s still around)

Pisco

MidAtBest

GC (the cute crab girl)

Nano

Halalbae

Pinnsnneedles

And quite a few more I’m forgetting right now!


The one sassy gemini woman

Gemitati?