Sex-ploytation

Now in my forties, I have 3 kids 1 divorce and two failed long term relationships behind me. I have been slapped kicked punched falsley accused of violence, emotionally and finacially drained. Because of this I have been on a very painful search for answers and read a miriad of self help books talked to consellors/therapists and even started down the path of spirituality.
Yes I have learned many things about myself and relationships BUT nothing has come close to explaining why all this has happened except this book. Which, may I add goes hand in hand with the book 'the manipulated man' Every man and boy should read them!!! DAILY