a sag man? for a gem woman??

have never dated one but then I recently started speaking to one..we both are a bit of nerd lol read mangas comics etc. going to meet the guy this sunday..he's very assertive, chasing me lots..and I find it quite hot ( I myself don't mind being a hunter, pursuer, I have done that before 🙂 but this time the change is new, thus nice ..who said gem loves changes?? :p)
he's very cute with sweet dimples, tall, a year younger than me..creative sort..makes lots of stuff himself..he's a bit blunt I must say though (lol as far as I remember sags are quite honest -sometimes too honest..to the point of being blunt? :p- beings?!) but then also it means that it's easy to read him..there's no head games, crazy mind fuckeries or whatsoever..he's just what I see there and I like the transparency there..easy to communicate .. I rarely have hard time in communication though being a gem sun -gem/canc cusp to be exact- with gem merc..but there was only one guy who I struggled with in the communication department..a cancer man -they do live up to their reputation for being a taciturn sort don't they lol.. but now we communicate better..I guess or I hope lol..he gets overwhelmed when I speak too much (in his opinion that is..I speak the usual as I to everyone else..and they're all fine..but then most my friends are either air or fire signs..so maybe that's why..) ..I let him be and he seems pleased with it(=the silence)..which is a conundrum for me..as I thrive on on going, never ending conversations.. but each to their own I guess and now we're on good terms ..for now maybe..hehe lol the cancer is there when I'm having a hard time, listening to me..and I appreciate it..his silence drives me mad at times but then well, I guess my never shut mouth drives him mad too lol .. fair enough :p

so back to the sag (why I always digress?? 😭).. the conversation is quite flowing (not as much as those I have had with my aqua ex..and another aqua man..ah aquas..the best conversation partners..) .. I like that this sag is very straight forward, honest but then I can imagine this honesty of him could bite me in the ass on the other hand..?? like, when it's good it's really good, but when it gets bad, you don't really want it there sort..? :s

has anyone been with a sag (man)? how was/is it? are they supposed to be a good match for gems??

I've knwon a few sag Peoples. I like them. We have our differences but if the ball is falling in your court I'd say take a shot. Sorry to hear that it didn't work out with your aqua though. I've been with mine for about 350 days now 🙂 WE are close, close friends. Actually he has more friends than I do...so I'd say my attachment to him is stronger, maybe?

Anyways, I've always wondered about sag men. Tell me how it works out if you decide to give it a shot.

so had a date? with this sag.. cute.. very straight forward..(which I appreciated lots 🙂)
but I'm not sure if we'll meet again lol..things went smooth but it felt like there wasn't much chemistry..?? ah man..it's really hard to find someone that ignites sparks for me..lol these days I feel like I'm doomed (well..maybe 'doomed' is not the right word/expression here lol as I don't really seem it doomed..pessimistic lol) to singledom.. but then I just don't want or plan to go out with any body out of boredom..
though he and I will still remain friendly and friends I think 🙂

I think he and I share some hobbies.. both being a bit nerd..we both like reading mangas lol
that's actually how we (sort of) got to know each other at the first place.. 🙂

he's quite a gentleman..I don't know lol I went dutch with my aqua ex..and when I go on dates, I go dutch as well ..but then there are guys who insist to pay for all the bills..then I become a bit uncomfortable..with my aqua ex, I split our bills into cents lol and later he told me '..honestly, I thought you weren't really interested in me when you suggested we split the bills into cents..so I was surprised when you asked me out for the second date lol..' ..funny, when & whilst some men complain about they always have to pay for their women and women never chip in..but when I go dutch..some guys got offended..? lol ..I just don't like feeling taking without giving in return..maybe some would say I'm too cold (..cold for going dutch?..I don't get it, but everyone's different, so each to their own..I just think it's clean and easy - pay for what one had at a restaurant or a movie they watched..or whatever items..)

this sag is one of those guys who want to treat their ladies..🙂 actually we hung out for the first time in the past he paid for the meal I had.. but then back then I helped him out with purchasing stuff here as he was new to this place, country.. so I thought it was okay for me to get treated a meal 😈 lol

so we went shopping and this sag flashed out his credit card fast even before I taking out mine lol paid for the dress I chose.. I thought stopping him there at the store, in front of a salesperson there might not be the best idea.. so when we got to his place & we both were hungry by that time..I ordered a big pizza and drinks for both of us 🙂

all in all it was quite nice & smooth..but no sparks.. :s I wonder why..chemistry is a strange, weird thing..it shows up when and with people you expect the least..??

Posted by geminicandIe
Sag men talk too fucking much and annoy me.
Lately, I can barely stand my sag coworker and I used to kinda like him.
There is also an older sag man pursuing me now...I am waiting patiently for him to get a hint that I am not into him at all.

I had great chemistry with one sag man about 8-9 years ago. He was a like a teacher to me (not literally), but he taught me a lot in life. I do respect him for that. He was about 10 years older, in music business and quite successful.
Later he married someone else and one time
he sent me a masturbation video on facebook.
That was very nasty and dumb.
He also would say "you need to give Jade a little sister/brother", implying he wants me to have his baby while he has a baby with someone else.
I had to cut our friendship off.

All in all, sag men are not my cup of tea.

ah that was rude.. of him :s

if I were you, I would've sent the masturbation vid to his wife.. but then well, maybe I would have no right to wreck their marriage..?? :s don't know.. hehe 🙂
guess your approach is a mature one.. just cut all ties off..🙂

I don't have many sag male friends..🙂 to know or to say about them.. but this one is quite nice..not talking too much..
what has happened that make you find him annoying, may I ask..? :s you said you once used to like the sag..?
my female sag friends are cool bunch 🙂

Posted by geminicandIe
Hi xixixix🙂

I am not sure what has happened between me and my sag co-worker. I think just the stress of work and our differing work ethics took a toll on us and we are both burned out and looking for new jobs.
I still like some parts of him as a person, but I am not attracted to him any longer. I used to like him as a whole package, but it fizzled with time. He annoys me frequently; his jokes aren't as funny and we disagree on many things and life philosophies.
It's strange how our feelings can change but like you said, chemistry is either there or not:/

P.S. I also like going Dutch on my dates, but if I see some guy insists and his male ego and pride might be hurt, then I let him pay, albeit reluctantly.
My brother told me that he read in some magazine that if a man insists to pay, that means he found the woman attractive and he wants to keep dating her. I guess that is a good sign, it means we impressed them. But it still makes me feel uncomfortable later. I don't want to be owing anything to a guy just because he paid expensive meal. I want no obligations. It is a big problem with most guys.

I guess guys want to impress the girl they want to keep dating..??
but then spending money doesn't really affect me much lol..I'm more into intelligence & looks 😈
howsoever much they spend their money on me..it's still their money, not mine..thus it has no appeal to me..unless they hand over me a carte blanche.. lol or gift a big island or castle to me 😈 lol
other stuff they buy for me..is what I can buy myself..:p yea, I guess I'm hard to impress or please lol ..not that I do not thank them when they treat me of course 😉 that would be rude..
but trying to buy me or impress me with gift showering..hasn't worked so far..and I don't really think it will work for me..
my father had set me up on a date with a guy, a son of his business partner..is quite rich..the son took me to nice places & such but we didn't turn out well..too different value systems and such..
but then if a guy I'm into buys me a single red rose.. then it's

Posted by geminicandIe
Hi xixixix🙂

I am not sure what has happened between me and my sag co-worker. I think just the stress of work and our differing work ethics took a toll on us and we are both burned out and looking for new jobs.
I still like some parts of him as a person, but I am not attracted to him any longer. I used to like him as a whole package, but it fizzled with time. He annoys me frequently; his jokes aren't as funny and we disagree on many things and life philosophies.
It's strange how our feelings can change but like you said, chemistry is either there or not:/

P.S. I also like going Dutch on my dates, but if I see some guy insists and his male ego and pride might be hurt, then I let him pay, albeit reluctantly.
My brother told me that he read in some magazine that if a man insists to pay, that means he found the woman attractive and he wants to keep dating her. I guess that is a good sign, it means we impressed them. But it still makes me feel uncomfortable later. I don't want to be owing anything to a guy just because he paid expensive meal. I want no obligations. It is a big problem with most guys.

yes..I have had some similar experiences like those of yours..:s once I found everything about a guy so great..but one day I woke up and things were not any more rosy..not seen through rose coloured glasses.. not that I became to detest said person..but simply..more aware of some other details..which I might have been missing all those past times.. yes, feelings change .. a mystery..:s
I felt chemistry there and it was gone and somehow it never makes its come back..I wonder where it had gone..?? :s

and disagreeing on many life philosophies is a pretty big deal breaker for me.. not saying that he and I have to agree on every little thing (actually differences are nice..in the right amount..dosage..) but life philosophies are some different story on the different level I guess.. can't just keep someone who I'm sure would clash every seconds next to me for the rest of my life.. life's too short for that in my opinion..:s

hahaha call me a capricious gem..🙂

I think this sag guy is cool..he's quite mature..being a bit younger than me..🙂 he loves to lead and whilst I love to lead myself, this is refreshing..he's very direct and honest..which I appreciate immensely..(after having dealt with some very indirect male.. 😉)
easy to talk to as well.. don't know why but so far from personal dating experiences..it's much much easier for me to deal with either air or fire sun sign men.. 🙂 earth..they're okay but we don't just click.. water..the cancer guy..a pure headache.. lol but we are fine as friends I think..🙂

yea, I'm going on a second date with this sag lol..
not sure about chemistry yet but giving it another go..