@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
I am not worthy of this sag man
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I'm jelly
For some reason, im too chicken shit to tell him all this.
When i left my ex Leo, i was broken down from all his insults and abuse. I was a damaged women. I was down and out. I think at some point i wanted to just crawl up in a hole with bin laden. i was full of pride but i had nothing to be prideful about. i had nothing. no possessions. i was a empty shell. the only way u knew i was a sag was from my birthdate on my ID.
i had no self worth.
Then i went to IKEA one day and decided to get my car washed. He was waiting on his and he approached me and started talking about my tattoos. he was just as raw as they come.
his smile made me smile and i was sold. years later, im still sold.
although he is not my man, he has been just as influential in my life as any boyfriend, husband, best friend, sister, brother, father, mother. in fact even more so.
he never puts me down. EVER. his gift, the sag man's gift is to INSPIRE.
i shed tears as i write this. i hate the universe for not bringing us together sooner.
i never met anyone who was so uplifting. even when he goes through his own drama, he spends the time to give me that chill pill.
im grateful. if it were all to end today, id be forever in God's favor for blessing me with such a great friend and great orgasms.
if you know a sag man, realize his gift to you.
Posted by Arietteheart
DMV, have you ever felt yourself start to get bitter because he's not yours and want to just end it?
no, i understood from Day One my place. Never stepped over it.
I guess what i meant about the universe being a little quicker is the thought of what could be, you know? thinking on that part, i think i wouldnt like him as much if i had 100% of him.
In the end, i think the God gave me just what i needed.
Posted by Sagtastic1
DMV,Oh how I understand how you feel. After a terrible break up from my verbally and mentally abusive husband (a bad sag) I met a Sag man with a Capricorn moon and Venus in Pisces. Although he had a GF, he made me feel like the beautiful woman I always was and showed me love the way I always wanted. Unfortunately, I did him kind of dirty when I moved onto my Virgo, but gladly we were still able to remain friends.
I am declaring November 22 "Love a Sagittarius" day for we could use it during this time.
As a venus in cap, we can relate to each other when it comes to the goats struggle to salvage our bad relationships and the goats reluctance to throw in the towel.
the thought of rebuilding is so maddening.
I am SOOOOO with you on Nov 22. The movement has started!
Posted by DMV
if you know a sag man, realize his gift to you.
I wish a certain someone was reading this
Posted by DMV
For some reason, im too chicken shit to tell him all this.When i left my ex Leo, i was broken down from all his insults and abuse. I was a damaged women. I was down and out. I think at some point i wanted to just crawl up in a hole with bin laden. i was full of pride but i had nothing to be prideful about. i had nothing. no possessions. i was a empty shell. the only way u knew i was a sag was from my birthdate on my ID.
i had no self worth.
Then i went to IKEA one day and decided to get my car washed. He was waiting on his and he approached me and started talking about my tattoos. he was just as raw as they come.
his smile made me smile and i was sold. years later, im still sold.
although he is not my man, he has been just as influential in my life as any boyfriend, husband, best friend, sister, brother, father, mother. in fact even more so.
he never puts me down. EVER. his gift, the sag man's gift is to INSPIRE.
Posted by Arietteheart
DMV, have you ever felt yourself start to get bitter because he's not yours and want to just end it?
You don't have to be with someone to love them
Posted by Arietteheart
DMV, have you ever felt yourself start to get bitter because he's not yours and want to just end it?You don't have to be with someone to love them
? I didn't say you did. I was thinking from my own perspective. I'm putting time and energy and effort into something for what end result? I've never found myself in this particular situation, so just wondering what types of thoughts and emotions you go through. I realize every type of relationship has the potential for an unhappy ending result.
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well she clearly doesn't sound bitter.
well she clearly doesn't sound bitter.
Okay. Not sure why my comment struck a nerve with you but I wasn't insinuating she felt bitter either. I was basically saying *I would* feel bitter. So, if you want to be offended by my own feelings and hang ups...by all means, knock yourself out.
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It was a really stupid comment. She is saying something really beautiful and positive. And you bring it down w your stupid social norms brainwashed statement well you're not " offically " how can you be all that happy blah blah bullshit.
well she clearly doesn't sound bitter.
Okay. Not sure why my comment struck a nerve with you but I wasn't insinuating she felt bitter either. I was basically saying *I would* feel bitter. So, if you want to be offended by my own feelings and hang ups...by all means, knock yourself out.
It was a really stupid comment. She is saying something really beautiful and positive. And you bring it down w your stupid social norms brainwashed statement well you're not " offically " how can you be all that happy blah blah bullshit.
You are projecting something heavy. Do you even know why you're upset right now? If DMV is not offended by the question, I'm not sure why you're taking it upon yourself to be mad for her. I know DMV doesn't give 2 f*cks what people think of how she conducts herself in her personal life which is why I asked her the question so candidly. Now can you chill?... because my comment doesn't need to be taken to wherever you're trying to take this convo. I didn't mean anything deeper by what I asked.
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It was just a really stupid comment and kills the vibe. I'm not getting mad for DMV. I'm mad at people like you who don't think for themselves.
Can we ever have a simple convo about love without an argument ensuing??
What does it matter? She expressed her feelings and sorry...it should be honored and not chopped up
or parceled out for debate or interpretation...sheesh
Posted by Arietteheart
DMV, have you ever felt yourself start to get bitter because he's not yours and want to just end it?no, i understood from Day One my place. Never stepped over it.
I guess what i meant about the universe being a little quicker is the thought of what could be, you know? thinking on that part, i think i wouldnt like him as much if i had 100% of him.
In the end, i think the God gave me just what i needed.
Right. And you probably wouldn't have been open to a relationship with him in the beginning anyway after the Leo breaking you down.
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right #trustnoman
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Can we ever have a simple convo about love without an argument ensuing??What does it matter? She expressed her feelings and sorry...it should be honored and not chopped up
or parceled out for debate or interpretation...sheeshHonestly...shut the f*ck up.
I wasn't interpreting or debating anything...I was asking to be enlightened on a situation I have no experience with.
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Well maybe get some life experience so you don't ask something so fucking stupid lol
*shouldn't*
Posted by Arietteheart
DMV, have you ever felt yourself start to get bitter because he's not yours and want to just end it?You don't have to be with someone to love them
? I didn't say you did. I was thinking from my own perspective. I'm putting time and energy and effort into something for what end result? I've never found myself in this particular situation, so just wondering what types of thoughts and emotions you go through. I realize every type of relationship has the potential for an unhappy ending result.
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ive done a very good job of staying in line so to speak. I only get 20% of the being that is him, but that 20% has been so major for me.
i was so depressed.
even though it isnt the most ideal situation, even the worst of situations have some positivity to them.
i still date other guys but honestly his 20% beats their 100% . thats so fucked up.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Can we ever have a simple convo about love without an argument ensuing??What does it matter? She expressed her feelings and sorry...it should be honored and not chopped up
or parceled out for debate or interpretation...sheeshHonestly you can trot your double
Honestly...shut the f*ck up.
I wasn't interpreting or debating anything...I was asking to be enlightened on a situation I have no experience with.
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Honestly you can't trot your double horned mountain climbing ass the fuck outta here
It was just a really stupid comment and kills the vibe. I'm not getting mad for DMV. I'm mad at people like you who don't think for themselves.
You're right, it did kill the vibe a little but I was genuinely curious...it wasn't an attempt to cut her down, I just wasn't being very tactful. My apologies to DMV. I hope you know I wasn't trying to minimize your feelings.
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weve talked enough; i know where you mind is at...
no bubbles no troubles.
Well maybe get some life experience so you don't ask something so fucking stupid lol
Shit, if life experience turns me into you, I'll pass for sure.
Sagtastic had no problem answering the question either.
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I'm a better person than you by there mer fact I didn't come on a thread of happiness and try and bring it down with some stupid stereotypical question.
It was just a really stupid comment and kills the vibe. I'm not getting mad for DMV. I'm mad at people like you who don't think for themselves.
You're right, it did kill the vibe a little but I was genuinely curious...it wasn't an attempt to cut her down, I just wasn't being very tactful. My apologies to DMV. I hope you know I wasn't trying to minimize your feelings.
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Ah ha, so you admit it.
Posted by Sagtastic1
DMV,Oh how I understand how you feel. After a terrible break up from my verbally and mentally abusive husband (a bad sag) I met a Sag man with a Capricorn moon and Venus in Pisces. Although he had a GF, he made me feel like the beautiful woman I always was and showed me love the way I always wanted. Unfortunately, I did him kind of dirty when I moved onto my Virgo, but gladly we were still able to remain friends.
I am declaring November 22 "Love a Sagittarius" day for we could use it during this time.
As a venus in cap, we can relate to each other when it comes to the goats struggle to salvage our bad relationships and the goats reluctance to throw in the towel.
the thought of rebuilding is so maddening.
I am SOOOOO with you on Nov 22. The movement has started!
Yes Lord! Your sag must come over routinely...... this made me feel so very secure.
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he comes over often. even without the sex, his enthusiasm for life is contagious. he brings NO negativity to my life. not a drop.
he's definitely the teacher and i am the student.
This all reminds me of the thread in which DMV threw a party with food for everyone, and the Aries brought pizza 😄
Posted by Rabbit
You were obviously worthy of him. Don't sell yourself short.
im have venus sq saturn and venus in cap; shit can get so pessimistic when it comes to my relationships. im always second guessing someone's motives for liking me.
but thank you and get out of that rabbit hole 🙂
Posted by DMV
i dont know what i did in a former life to deserve him but im glad i did it.Since ive known him, he has done absolute wonders for my self esteem and has had a major impact on my life.
He has made me look at myself so differently. He's constructive and his penis is life altering.
That's awesome 🙂
It was just a really stupid comment and kills the vibe. I'm not getting mad for DMV. I'm mad at people like you who don't think for themselves.
You're right, it did kill the vibe a little but I was genuinely curious...it wasn't an attempt to cut her down, I just wasn't being very tactful. My apologies to DMV. I hope you know I wasn't trying to minimize your feelings.
Ah ha, so you admit it.
Damn Sag, do you need a "win" that bad? Take that shit. I'll write it off on my taxes as charity work.
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No lol I just noticed I got a rise out of you with the " you don't have to be with someone to love them " you got really defensive so I just went with it
Posted by Wynter
This all reminds me of the thread in which DMV threw a party with food for everyone, and the Aries brought pizza 😄lmao 😢
I'm sorry for bringing pizza to your 5 course meal DMV
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no prob bob
It was just a really stupid comment and kills the vibe. I'm not getting mad for DMV. I'm mad at people like you who don't think for themselves.
You're right, it did kill the vibe a little but I was genuinely curious...it wasn't an attempt to cut her down, I just wasn't being very tactful. My apologies to DMV. I hope you know I wasn't trying to minimize your feelings.
Ah ha, so you admit it.
Damn Sag, do you need a "win" that bad? Take that shit. I'll write it off on my taxes as charity work.
No lol I just noticed I got a rise out of you with the " you don't have to be with someone to love them " you got really defensive so I just went with it
Right. You derailed her whole thread to prove a point about me derailing her thread. You're a hell of a lot dumber than I initially thought.
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I'm the furthest thing from dumb
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
As usual, Wynter is always making me hungry. -_-My stomach is growlingggg
😕
That looks deliciously put together. I commend the chef...click to expand
i love veggie pizza or margarita pizza
@arietteheart,
yep same dude with the moon/mars. we also have Sun in the 8th House Composite.
in venus/saturn or Venus in the 10th or Saturn in the 7th relationships you get the teach/student thing going on. i dont like to be the teacher. my mars in virgo would rather be led. his mars in scorpio certainly does not mind leading.
Posted by scorchedearth
mars in virgo with mars in scorpio eh? so he's the master you're the servant? is that what i'm getting out of that? i'm really interested in mars in virgo people so i may have to creep this thread a bit more than i have been.would you say you really respond well to a mars in scorpio person?
mars in scorpio is hot or miss when it comes to moon/mars synastry. mars in scorpio can build for the better or expose you and laugh.
i for one cannot get enough of his mars in scorpio. yep, im def the servant. funny u mention because last night, he actually turned off the light himself while we were watching the tube. never fucking happened in 4 years.
but i dont mind turning off the light or doing anything for him because he is very appreciative. he doesnt take advantage of my need/desire to unselfishly give up my own needs for his.
when i dont do what he says, i can feel the frustration oozing out from his eyes. something simple as "lay on your back" when we have sex when i want it from behind. doesnt matter what i want, mars in scorp runs the show.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/sagittarius/sometimes-i-feel-like-a-blow-up-doll-3340977/
if u can get past the stupidity in this thread, its kinda good research.
Posted by scorchedearth
mars in virgo with mars in scorpio eh? so he's the master you're the servant? is that what i'm getting out of that? i'm really interested in mars in virgo people so i may have to creep this thread a bit more than i have been.would you say you really respond well to a mars in scorpio person?
mars in scorpio is hot or miss when it comes to moon/mars synastry. mars in scorpio can build for the better or expose you and laugh.
i for one cannot get enough of his mars in scorpio. yep, im def the servant. funny u mention because last night, he actually turned off the light himself while we were watching the tube. never fucking happened in 4 years.
but i dont mind turning off the light or doing anything for him because he is very appreciative. he doesnt take advantage of my need/desire to unselfishly give up my own needs for his.
when i dont do what he says, i can feel the frustration oozing out from his eyes. something simple as "lay on your back" when we have sex when i want it from behind. doesnt matter what i want, mars in scorp runs the show.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/sagittarius/sometimes-i-feel-like-a-blow-up-doll-3340977/
if u can get past the stupidity in this thread, its kinda good research.click to expand
i also strongly believe that in moon/mars if your not having sex, your fighting.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
I saw a margarita pizza on the travel channel. I think it was that drive in and dinners show. I was kind of upset after he made it because I thought it actually had margarita contents inside it. Great idea, but alcohol should have been instilled somewhere.
truth in advertising!
i also strongly believe that in moon/mars if your not having sex, your fighting.
yes...very much yes. With my Cancer friend, my moon squares his mars at 06 and my mars to his moon at a wider orb but sometimes I will look at him and feel disgusted, like I want to slap him in his mf face. And he'll grab me by my neck or bite me hard enough to where I think he'll draw blood... I don't like typing it out because I know how it probably sounds to other people. It's animalistic and he stimulates a nurturing response too, which pisses me off. Like I want to f*ck him, then kill him, then bring him back to life and take care of him. Crazy?
I'm leaving now.
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nope. i get frustrated 2, but when the sex comes, im over it.
Posted by scorchedearth
wow that was an interesting thread, dmv.you have me worried that i've done that to a former partner though. being that dominant in the bedroom is just a given for me. i've never really thought that it could negatively affect the person i was with. >_>
negative is too strong of a word me thinks. i just want an opportunity to pick my own position. i want to tell him to get on his back, but that does not happen.
i also strongly believe that in moon/mars if your not having sex, your fighting.
yes...very much yes. With my Cancer friend, my moon squares his mars at 06 and my mars to his moon at a wider orb but sometimes I will look at him and feel disgusted, like I want to slap him in his mf face. And he'll grab me by my neck or bite me hard enough to where I think he'll draw blood... I don't like typing it out because I know how it probably sounds to other people. It's animalistic and he stimulates a nurturing response too, which pisses me off. Like I want to f*ck him, then kill him, then bring him back to life and take care of him. Crazy?
I'm leaving now.
nope. i get frustrated 2, but when the sex comes, im over it.
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until i want it again.
@Ari,
has be brought up the fact that he wants to get you pregnant?
Hungry Howie's Hawaiian Pizza with Cajun crust is to die for.
has be brought up the fact that he wants to get you pregnant?
I'll pm you about that. lol. I don't want to put that much of his business here.
I saw him out for his birthday and he was with another woman but he said to me "I don't wanna go home with her, I wanna go home with you" ..and I was too prideful -_- so I shut him down. And he still handed me a stack of money and told me to have fun with the strippers. Cheated myself that night. He's trying to come back around since a few days ago.
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ahh the fighting. the square increases the intensity and the number of fights.
Posted by Wynter
Hungry Howie's Hawaiian Pizza with Cajun crust is to die for.
ive never had hungry howies
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i dont know what i did in a former life to deserve him but im glad i did it.
Since ive known him, he has done absolute wonders for my self esteem and has had a major impact on my life.
He has made me look at myself so differently. He's constructive and his penis is life altering.