advice about gemini guy

its been 6 weeks I have met a gemini man. we had instant chemistry. we met on blind date at coffee shop. We left at mid night when it closed. We started texting and calling alot. He text me all day most days. he ended up sleeping over at my house and the next days said how he had never slept in a bed with a lady in many many ears and always goes home but it felt right and this surprised him. hes constantly telling me he likes me. hes on a business trip and still texting me several times a day. We made plans to go on a day trip when he comes back net week. Even had the sex talk about if things progressed would we get tested so no condoms needed. This talked about such a serious topic needed another talk. commitment. We both do not believe in marriage but I am looking for a commitment n someone i can say is my partner. so he says

My perfect gemini texted me this while on hs business trip.. he doesn't believe in relationships. that we are here in this world for a short period of time and all things end one day. He can love and be loved but saying u pledge ur life till the end of time is something he doesnt argee with.

SO i said fair enough..... but do u agree in getting to know each other and just being open to seeing where it takes u? and he said. he doesnt want a GF BF relationship that restrains his freedom but he likes me very much and hasnt felt this way in many many years. (he is 39).

So i said our boundaries and goals really dont match and its best I dont carry on this way because ill end up hurt. we not looking for the same thing. I said we can be friends only. but google whats a friend. like u come hang out with my other friends. not friends with benifits.

so he said "oh dear, u met my dark side. now u hate me. Im a hard person to understand I am a gemini. he said again we believe in different things but let us be good friends. I said ok. he sent back thank God I was worried I enjoy being around you and would miss talking to you.

so yesterday I went to party and he is still away. he saw photos of me at part and saying how i am beautiful and he misses me. hes still texting me like we hadnt had the friend conversation. grand I like him! alot! but i cant be his lady friend with no commitmet.

should I allow some time to see if he is in conflict with himself being his twins ar always going back and fourth? or do I call him out on his text?

Some men substitute intimacy for texting. They will flirt with you and want you to entertain them. In the same way a hooker will entertain with sex calls.....different women for different needs 😛.

You could carry on with a few texts as long as it pleases you, but don't let them take over your life. If he said he is not going to be anything but a friend (in a texting "relationship" most often than not), believe him. Keep looking for a boyfriend.

What are his placements?

Whatever you do don't sleep with him.

Within a year of knowing him.

He will respect you.

Whether he's looking for a wife or not.

Trust me.

I am a Gem.

My bro is a gem too.

I feel for the women he dates. 😬

Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
Whatever you do don't sleep with him.

Within a year of knowing him.

He will respect you.

Whether he's looking for a wife or not.

Trust me.

I am a Gem.

My bro is a gem too.

I feel for the women he dates. 😬

I think they already did 🙊

Scorpio

And

Gemini

😱

Posted by scorpio_professional
its been 6 weeks I have met a gemini man. we had instant chemistry. we met on blind date at coffee shop. We left at mid night when it closed. We started texting and calling alot. He text me all day most days. he ended up sleeping over at my house and the next days said how he had never slept in a bed with a lady in many many ears and always goes home but it felt right and this surprised him. hes constantly telling me he likes me. hes on a business trip and still texting me several times a day. We made plans to go on a day trip when he comes back net week. Even had the sex talk about if things progressed would we get tested so no condoms needed. This talked about such a serious topic needed another talk. commitment. We both do not believe in marriage but I am looking for a commitment n someone i can say is my partner. so he says

My perfect gemini texted me this while on hs business trip.. he doesn't believe in relationships. that we are here in this world for a short period of time and all things end one day. He can love and be loved but saying u pledge ur life till the end of time is something he doesnt argee with.

SO i said fair enough..... but do u agree in getting to know each other and just being open to seeing where it takes u? and he said. he doesnt want a GF BF relationship that restrains his freedom but he likes me very much and hasnt felt this way in many many years. (he is 39).

So i said our boundaries and goals really dont match and its best I dont carry on this way because ill end up hurt. we not looking for the same thing. I said we can be friends only. but google whats a friend. like u come hang out with my other friends. not friends with benifits.

so he said "oh dear, u met my dark side. now u hate me. Im a hard person to understand I am a gemini. he said again we believe in different things but let us be good friends. I said ok. he sent back thank God I was worried I enjoy being around you and would miss talking to you.

so yesterday I went to party and he is still away. he saw photos of me at part and saying how i am beautiful and he misses me. hes still texting me like we hadnt had the friend conversation. grand I like him! alot! but i cant be his lady friend with no commitmet.

should I allow some time to see if he is in conflict with himself being his twins ar always going back and fourth? or do I call him out on his text?

Your ‘perfect gemini’ sounds slightly familiar with my imperfect Gemini whom I just broke up with one month shy of six years. No, didn’t take me six years to figure it out. I just really enjoyed being with him. Girl, he’s keeping it real. Mine told me a number of times he didn’t want to live together, get married or have kids. He was perfectly happy with ‘how things are’. Loved the guy, but most times our relationship felt like friends with benefits. I did have patience and thought maybe in time he’d feel differently, but no. Despite how awesome our relationship (that did have its flaws) i cut him loose. I’d rather be with a guy who wants to be commited to me rather than keep me at a distance, but says he wants me. He’s still my best friend tho and we still talk regularly.

My advice? If he doesn’t want commitment, move on. The twins will be playing with you- one will miss you and want to keep you around, the other will want his freedom. Been there done that with my ex.