Are Gemini usually stuck up biatches?

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I recently got in touch with a friend I was close to but haven't spoke to in years. When we were texting she came off phony, like she was trying to be something she wasn't. It seemed kinda off to me, but I just assumed that she's probably just evolved and matured. Then I told her that I missed us talking shitt and she assumed I meant about other people (which definitely isn't what I meant) and went on to talk about how she's above that now and how she's "grown"...

THIS WAS HER TEXT:

"I'm not gonna talk shit about people I don't even know like that and people I'm cool with ya feel me ? I mean yeah I use to talk a lot of shit when I was younger but that was when I was a lil girl and insecure about my self . I'm grown and I ain't with all that. Unless I got problems with someone then I'll turn up but if I don't then there's no point ya know ? That's how I feel anyway idk bout you "

I never realized how ratchet she sounds in this text, like "turn up"— Really— And I don't even remember her being like that when she was younger... Cause we were nice af and close to everyone... But doesn't she sound like a cuntt? Are all Geminis like this? She also has a libra moon which may be a reason why she seems so fraudulent.

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Posted by geegee
That's funny...reading this, YOU sound like everything you're accusing her of.

She's saying she knows better now that she's older and her past behavior was a reflection of her own insecurities, which is true for most people.

And she's using a language she assumes you both understand very well. I mean you said "I miss us talking sh.it" so you sound ratchet too and she was just feeding (mirroring) off you.
Hasn't your mother told you, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all? Or was she to busy sucking d!ck? Goodbye, and have a nice day!🙂
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Posted by Shashkay
OP do you feel nostalgic for the younger you and your friendship then? And perhaps she feels she is someone different.

That doesn't mean she feels she is better than you.

People change.
I do, definitely but I've been the same since we've met, so I expected the same. The whole vibe of the conversation changed towards the end. She came off really stuck up, as if she was trying to prove herself. Well... Now thinking about it, she did follow me around a lot when we were younger and did everything I did to the point where she was actually called a follower by others, so maybe she wants to seem more independent? I have no idea.
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That's funny...reading this, YOU sound like everything you're accusing her of.

She's saying she knows better now that she's older and her past behavior was a reflection of her own insecurities, which is true for most people.

And she's using a language she assumes you both understand very well. I mean you said "I miss us talking sh.it" so you sound ratchet too and she was just feeding (mirroring) off you.
Hasn't your mother told you, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all? Or was she to busy sucking d!ck? Goodbye, and have a nice day!🙂

You sound mad ratchet and judgemental yo
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Dude, like you totes sound so hypocritical. Like, did you just not totally judge me based off nothing. That's so not cool bro, stop being so presumptuous. You should totally be a lot nicer Tommy.
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Posted by blackphase
She still talks like an immature little kid..

She feels enlightened and above that now... guaranteed she still does it all the time. LOL
GUARANTEED!
I'm so here for growth and maturity, but not when it seems fraudulent. But I'm 1000% she does too lol. I love that about Geminis though, you guys are far from phony and I love the sh!t talking personally, but you guys never do it with malice.
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Posted by Geminiam
No. The Geminis I know are very opposite of stuck up bitches...friendly with everyone and if they gossip it's never hurtful or intentionally mean. Down to earth and want to help lift each other up, not tear each other down.

Sounds like she was just trying to tell you that she had changed and didn't want to get caught up gossiping about other people anymore, maybe something she didn't like about herself and didn't want to go back to. It just didn't come across nicely to you so it was taken personally.
She wouldn't ever gossip about people, that's the thing, or at least not to me..

Also when someone says "but idk about you", that's when it gets personal because how everyone speaks where were from, our vernacular, that's an insult.

That girl was like my sister, so after reading some of these comments and reflecting on our past, I'm thinking its a facade.
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No. The Geminis I know are very opposite of stuck up bitches...friendly with everyone and if they gossip it's never hurtful or intentionally mean. Down to earth and want to help lift each other up, not tear each other down.

Sounds like she was just trying to tell you that she had changed and didn't want to get caught up gossiping about other people anymore, maybe something she didn't like about herself and didn't want to go back to. It just didn't come across nicely to you so it was taken personally.
She wouldn't ever gossip about people, that's the thing, or at least not to me..

Also when someone says "but idk about you", that's when it gets personal because how everyone speaks where were from, our vernacular, that's an insult.

That girl was like my sister, so after reading some of these comments and reflecting on our past, I'm thinking its a facade.
Is it possible that she thought you had gossiped about her? Like maybe somewhere along the way you said anything that might have got back to her? It would be very passive passive aggressive but that almost seems like more of a dig in the way you describe it...like "I don't talk about other people...but obviously you do bish" . I would only be bitchy like that if someone had stabbed me in the back and then came back acting like a friend (not saying you did, just that's when I might react kinda mean).
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Yea I get you. Well... I heard she cried when she found out I left the school we went to and I didn't text her until a week later, but I texted someone else the next day so idk if she said anything, but I doubt it. Uhm.. I'm not sure if y'all get mad over petty stuff, but I stopped texting her and disappear for a long ass time twice.... And we were supposed to meet awhile back but I flaked.

I'm thinking this is just a Kanye thing
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Astrologically, no. They are very social and like to keep things light hearted and when somebody stomps all over that, that ruins their fun. They appear self absorbed to people who don't realize they are just living in the moment, but if something about them is bothering you they like you to be kind about it and confront them in a friendly way, and they will fix it because they really don't intend to be jerks.
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No. The Geminis I know are very opposite of stuck up bitches...friendly with everyone and if they gossip it's never hurtful or intentionally mean. Down to earth and want to help lift each other up, not tear each other down.

Sounds like she was just trying to tell you that she had changed and didn't want to get caught up gossiping about other people anymore, maybe something she didn't like about herself and didn't want to go back to. It just didn't come across nicely to you so it was taken personally.
She wouldn't ever gossip about people, that's the thing, or at least not to me..

Also when someone says "but idk about you", that's when it gets personal because how everyone speaks where were from, our vernacular, that's an insult.

That girl was like my sister, so after reading some of these comments and reflecting on our past, I'm thinking its a facade.
Is it possible that she thought you had gossiped about her? Like maybe somewhere along the way you said anything that might have got back to her? It would be very passive passive aggressive but that almost seems like more of a dig in the way you describe it...like "I don't talk about other people...but obviously you do bish" . I would only be bitchy like that if someone had stabbed me in the back and then came back acting like a friend (not saying you did, just that's when I might react kinda mean).
Yea I get you. Well... I heard she cried when she found out I left the school we went to and I didn't text her until a week later, but I texted someone else the next day so idk if she said anything, but I doubt it. Uhm.. I'm not sure if y'all get mad over petty stuff, but I stopped texting her and disappear for a long ass time twice.... And we were supposed to meet awhile back but I flaked.

I'm thinking this is just a Kanye thing
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I don't know her personally so can't say. Some gems are more sensitive than others and depending on their personality I could see reacting that way if they were hurt and the issue was never addressed or apologized for.