Best Sign for a Gemini

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Posted by capgirl75
My Gemini best friend and her Libra boyfriend are a great couple. They truly understand each other.



Was definately the best relationship with libra, weve been split 13 years but still call each other up and can talk about anything, true theres an unspoken understanding still to this day, an intense pull between us through out the 12 year relationship, we both know weve never loved anyone like we loved each other, we behave though, he said a couple of months ago that he knows he will never love anyone like that again,its his biggest regret splitting. its a shame, but It cant be.. If theres anyone I know I could depend on I know he would be there.. everyone was really sad when we split they said they could always feel the energy between us across the room, Im hoping some day I will get that again with someone else, He was my best friend 🙂

My closest friends are capricorn, leo, libra`s x3 aqua we ave stuck around for each other since kids, its unbreakable between us, we are soul mates

I get on with everyone, the only people who have tried or have screwed me over with selfish or vicious intent are sags, dont get me wrong ive liked them until theyve done somethig really sinister, maybe theres a good onbe somewhere 🙂

I attract sag men by the bus load, cant run quick enough!!
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Why did you split if you both felt that way?

I get along way too well with libras/sagittarius for any sort of relationship.
it gets way too boring way too fast. Idk what it is.. maybe sagittarius moon, but I've always got that "what would happen if I do/say this" sort of Damian in me. Hellish sometimes really
Sagittarius are definitely the most selfish when it comes to friendships though.
Atleast Aries are upfront about their selfishness and pretty good at deciding on things.
Saggys will just avoid situations and can never make up their mind.
Yuck.
Capricorns are hidden creatures, so I wouldn't know. The few I do know are a bore-fest.
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I was working long hours, he started hanging around with his brother more who took heroin, he got involved in it too and it grabbed him, he kept it secret, i was expecting our child and found out half way through the pregnancy, I tried to help get him back on track, I couldnt, people have to want to help themselves.. I fell very ill from 7 months and was in hospital for the next 10 weeks, during this time his addiction escalated, I said as much as i loved him i wouldnt bring our child into this kind of world and if i was to do that then I may as well be a drug addict too, not only that watching someone you love deeply destroy themself to the point of becoming nothing but a shadow of themselves is painful when you know there is another way for them, he didnt kick it for us or himself so two weeks after she was born I left, if there was ever a time my heart truely broke it was then, I kept it to myself as gemini`s do! but every night for two years I would watch her sleeping, tears would run down my face, she was beautiful, I couldnt understand how he could be so numb to that, his need for a fix was greater than his need for us.

I moved on with my life, He is now with someone who accepted it, he isnt the man I fell inlove with, he has only stopped this year, he isnt inlove with her but she fell pregnant and accepted crumbs, he would never cheat, he has made his bed is the way he looks at it, I wish him well, life goes on. The sad thing was before this, he was popular, handsome, girls were crazy over him, he was hard working and loved all things beautiful, such a waste.
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The best sign for us is the one with whom we can grow and explore. That can be any sign, thanks to our innate versatility and curiosity.
My best relationship was with a Cap, who was quite different but very complementary to me. We each had qualities that were undeveloped, and we helped bring them out in each other. We challenged each other. It never got boring.
Dating people that are too similar can be a bit sterile. Similar comfort zones can lead into stagnancy. Though, that can yield teachable lessons as well.
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I'd like to add to that Shop. It seems that Gem's are able to accept almost any sign because we are no strangers to change and adapting like a chameleon. Just let us know what you like what you don't, be open to communication. It's not that we change ourselves we just adapt very well. I have NEVER seen a sign that does this any better than we do. As much as I would like to accept water signs and be with them, it's their silence that ruins it completely. We must, MUST, MUST have that communication open if it's not yes it will fail.
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Xin.. We do adapt as in communicate differently depending on the person. But, I don't think it would be comfortable to be with someone I actually had to change my communication style /personality a bit for. I'd say Leos are the most "chameleon" of the Zodiac. They will legit change who they are to anyone around them. And be perfectly "OK" with it. Shit be crazy. Especially in relationships.
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@guccigemini55 - i'm sorry about that. i've seen drug addiction kill people i know, so it's hardly a surprise it kills relationships. i figure that it only takes one thing to change you. one thing powerful enough. and if the sight of his little girl couldn't do that, couldn't be that one thing, then i don't think there could have been very much of the person left inside.

on a lighter note, i really like leos. i'm always attracted to them. pisces and virgos next even though they're supposed to be bad for me - but my asc is virgo and mars is pisces.

i can say whatever i like to libras and they always stick with me. hardly ever attracted to them though. as for aqua, there's one who i consider to be just about the ideal woman.

gemini women drive me crazy with their incessant yakking. i don't hate them though, but i'd love it if they would just shut up!

i would be interested in what you think of scorpio. a few times in my life, i have taken an instant, maybe irrational dislike to someone, even before they've said a word. a chill comes down my spine and i recoil and hate them with a vengeance. every single time, i've found out later, that person happens to be a scorpio. and yet there are some scorpios i get on with great. go figure.
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My moon is Leo. My Venus and Mars are Aries. I'm a Gem, Cancer rising.

Libras, cannot STAND 2 minutes. Only 1, he was a fling, and I liked that he would tare my undergarments and really liked to look at me up and down, naked, analyzing details. Pisces does that I hear also.

Aside from sex, friends, I think it's okay but the friendships are often support oriented. I get a call when they need to vent, need advice or a mental rebound (someone to tell them they're loved.) For me, I'm bored. No substance, even in philosophical or political conversations. Their advances can be raunchy and tactless to me IMO. I'm not fond of anythat I've met as far as physique. None have ever crossed me as masters of a intellectual subject. They will get easily irritated by conflict and BLOCK communication until it's on their terms. Most act like they know you better than you know yourself. The ones I've known are prone to saying things like, "You don't have to bullshit me..." (and I never bullshit about how I feel EVER). And I generally find if there is no lasting attraction to them. No grounded feeling. I just float away.
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Posted by Xin
Yeah I really like this one Libra but he's so non-committal. Never dated one before though.



Yeah they're worse then us Gems...the one I dated was like all lover the place....when we did get together and he acted somewhat normal, it was awesome!! So much fun them Libra's, very spontaneous and amzing in the bedroom....I remember one time we were doing it and ripped my bra open from the front...I was like yee haw its on now baby...we romped around in that bed, till the wee hours of the morning....

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My ex is a Libra and a complete serial monogamist. He is married now, and he never was what I would call non-committal or a player (he has other problems I could not tolerate and manage to keep my own sanity).

I really think that things like Moon and Rising Sign are so important. I think my exes Moon is in Pisces. My moon is in Capricorn.

I think the way most people describe Geminis is a little appalling in terms of relationships, and so I really advocate when you look at any sign to look at their Moon and Ascendant as well, I think astrology is only accurate when you look at the full natal chart.
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Longest relationship was a Sag. It was rocky.
Best relationship was a Pic. It was perfect. Ended abruptly and painfully.
Best friend in a relationship was another Gem. Good luck finding a faithful one.
Most attracted to Virgos. Takes too long to grow IMO. 2 steps forward, one step back. And I've dated a few.
Libra provided all fundamental needs. Never could find one physically/sexually attractive enough.
Cap, needs met. Never could find one physically/sexually attractive enough.
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