How would a gemini react to a tough female?

A female who is serious and straightforward. Would he like that or not? Discuss.

Posted by thebiggcarlos611
Is this question for gemini men or any gemini in particular? Serious and straightforward in terms of what? Need more info/details.

Gemini men. Gemini women are welcome to answer too. I mean a woman who is blunt and has a strong personality.

He would like that its what a gemini man needs, 🙂 .. i need to ask this same question on the aqua board Im going to steal it if you dont mind because Im all about that and Im trying to get an aqua lol

I enjoy people who are straight forward, blunt, etc. Most Gemini's too because we are that way. That is, if we give a shit. If not then we just sit back and observe...well, I do anyway. Gems normally don't respect folks who are weak; and don't be shy! OMG!

Posted by guccigemini55
He would like that its what a gemini man needs, 🙂 .. i need to ask this same question on the aqua board Im going to steal it if you dont mind because Im all about that and Im trying to get an aqua lol

Haha.. sure, go ahead and take it. 😄

Posted by thebiggcarlos611
Hahahaha. Excuse me. But I just got done strollin the libra board. There's some funny threads on there that had me crackin up.

Now to answer your question I really love a woman with a strong personality. Speaking for myself cuz there ain't hardly no gemini men here no way, except me. I love it when a woman have her way with me. I love a woman who puts her foot down and keep
her guard up. Now how I would react.... with a slight smile and a wink. If that's what your looking for. I dunno.

Damn!

straightforward is fine. serious, not ideal. power dresser with shoulder pads, run for the exit. too much make up and big hair, i wouldn't even talk to you. hope that helps. gemini male here.

I ran (literally) into a Gemini male that I used to work with at the marathon last week. We hung out later with a group of friends/acquaintances. I noticed his girlfriend is quite headstrong and dominating, but doesn't have him under her thumb. He'll go along with what he agrees with, but won't let her push him around either. He let's her take the lead on some things, but won't be controlled. Interesting dynamic.

Great answers guys. Keep em coming 🙂

We appreciate the truth. We hate not having information.

The Gem I was married to did not like straight forward and blunt. He took it as a challenge. Didn't appreciate "my working against him" he told me once. Of course, my mercury in cap comes across kind of harsh sometimes. Maybe it was in my presentation.

All the Gemini men I know (About 6) They love it!
They love people that don't hold back.
Even things that are in the category of "No, I can't say that, that's just too blunt."

It's one of the many reasons I love Geminis.
I can turn off that filter and they don't mind it.

They also love people who are blunt and can accept their bluntness.

Messed up the quote! lol

Posted by DeeGee
@TrueCap: so glad to get you're objective spin here on the Gem boards...you have an amazing sense of humor..love to see other signs on our board...wish others would take the time to interact...makes the experience so much more interesting....

Awww, thanks! I was worried you guys thought I hated Gems because my marriage didn't work out and he did me very, very wrong. I hate HIM, but I don't have a problem with Gems. I still don't think cap/gem matches are a good match - there are way too many differences.

I like yalls board. Yall are fun!! Gems make the bestest friends!

Gemini dont like weak women.

Im straight forward and serious. My gemini had just adapted! She ended up becoming a little bit more mature.

I'm straight forward, I also like a man to keep the mysterious thing going. I think this is why we get bored quickly if you show the cards too fast or give up waaaaay to much info. We don"t like weak....it's kind of a turn off!! LOL

I have attracted many gem males so I def think they like women like themselves in a way tough and not too emotional! Too emotional can make us go silent...in pursuit of someone light hearghted in the begining stages anyway 🙂

As a Cap in the budding stages of maybe something potential with a Gem, this is interesting stuff. I'll have to keep my eye on this forum.

Gemini men love strong women. But strong women that fall in line with what Gemini seeks and give him freedom.
A Gemini dude knows hes gifted in many ways, but is very weak and flawed in others and is very aware of his strengths and weaknesses. He needs a strong woman to handle the basic and the uninteresting mundane everyday crap he cant be bothered with.
I do not think a Gemini will flourish and do well with a weak minded woman..
Also, Gemini's are people that believe in equality, and equality between the sexes. They love to do things together, they do not want to dominate anybody and have them as a slave or mindless servant. A Gemini cannot connect well with weak people as they are not expressive..Gemini seeks a strong mental connection. A woman that is timid, quiet, goes along with whatever he says and cant think for herself will turn him off no matter how pretty she is.
If a woman is strong and assertive, she mustnt be bossy or question his intelligence.

I am one of those blunt, straightforward, "tough" girls. Not so much serious.
I was with a Gemini for a bit and he seemed to enjoy my straightforwardness.
He was so emotionally unstable that I think he was drawn to me and my ""toughness""
But things didnt work out. He wanted to always talk and I was suffocated.
Can you tell Im bad at relationships? Ahaha 😛

Im picturing my Gemini uncle with a tough woman and I think its what he needs,honestly.

Posted by GemiGem
d He needs a strong woman to handle the basic and the uninteresting mundane everyday crap he cant be bothered with.

But it gets old really fast dealing with the mundane everyday crap all by yourself!

I am a gemini woman, and wish washy men do not appeal to me.