confessing to taurus-gemini

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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
is one allowed to confess love to a Gemini guy?
I thought it got them all panicky and made them go into hiding and you were supposed to wait around (for how many years—?)until they got their butter sorted out and could muster the courage to confess to you first.

Or is there special rules if he is a Taurus cusp?

Hope it all went well anyway




No ,your definitely not allowed to say I love you!! That's an exit stage left and right for them ! Haha!! Ya I'm growing cobwebs over here waiting,....most of the relationship is spent WAITING hahahahahahahahahahahah geminis!!!!!!
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Oh dear!! And there was poor Television (different thread) telling me how they LOVE honesty!!

I have asked him "what kind of support he wanted from me", and that has sent him into hiding for a week (so far)so maybe he has gone for good. Guess I am better of without someone who is going to be like that.


You're OK Angel - Bert loves you. And so do I. You will never walk alone.

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Hey guys...I told my guy that I have something imp to tell him.He called n we talked but he seemed busy and I could not confess...so I told him that I would tell him the thing when he's not busy.So he said,there's no such time when he's not busy and he was eager to listen to me n worried about me.I told him not to hurry and next day again he called n asked me.I really hesitated and talked about random things for 10 min,s...(I was tensed..) n then I told him that I love him.He said 'um. e——' what do you mean—' he thought I was joking and requested me to stop joking...when I said I was serious,he got panicked...and the whole conversation he was like...umm,e? aa,ok,I see i see. he sounded panicked n really happy.when he did not say I love you back,I thought I got dumped n said 'thank you for the wonderful memories..' he got panicked again on this. eh—what's that? wait...let's meet again and talk!I wanna meet again!'
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Hey thanks a lot RNAP ! Well he's going to another country for job and he will be there for about 1 year.He said he likes me too but in present situation nothing can be done...so he wants to continue our good relation?? I asked him,if I get any proposal in the meantime what should I do?Should I accept? He got really confused on this and said 'if you want to...if that makes you happy...' Then I asked 'you are ok with it if I marry someone else?' he got panicky and asked 'you are getting married——' I said not now, but what if someone asks me...so he asked for some time to think.But in whole I am confused!!!
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Sunny : "But I still don't know if I got dumped or not!!!!! Totally confusing!!"

yes - well that may or may not have been his aim.


I can tell you absolutely that a year apart is a piece of cake if you are (or think you are) in love, but please make sure he loves you too so you are not wasting a year of your life. PLEASE learn from my mistakes!!!!
Sorry - I don't know how you are supposed to know if he loves you - no doubt the Gems here can help you out with that.

But do not fear the tyranny of distance - if your heart is true it's not a problem.
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Hi there...I was really sad after I got the response ....so signing in after a looooong time. I am still in touch with my guy and we share happy conversations. He still checks regularly If I am in any relationship and hates it when I talk about some other friend(guy) of mine in our conversation.He also said that he liked my message(where I really praised him lol) and said that whenever he's down, he reads it and it gives him a big boost.I was happy to know that.He didn't tell me to wait and I really don't know what he feels...I sometimes feel he likes me too but due to the long distance he's not able to say it to me.He just got his job and is struggling financially too.He sounded really disappointed when he told me that right now,he does not want a relationship with anyone..he has no lovey dovey feelings towards anyone but he doesn't want me to think about him as a bad person and he really likes n respects me..and he has to work hard at this point of time or his life will end(very proud person)..should I still contact him? or stop contacting him? Should I wait or move on......I still like him a lot...any advice please...
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Sunny,

He sounds like a typical guy who probably does have a crush on you but for some reason you're not good enough for him to want to be with. Sadly, I've heard these same excuses from guys over and over again. It happens all the time. Let me tell you, if he really liked you, God couldn't stop him from being with you. That is a Gemini AND a Taurean's behavior; once they like someone, they're actually pretty stubborn about getting what they want. Therefore, if he's not already chasing you to the bitter end it's because he's not so interested. You're better off as friends. 😢
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don't laugh MedOb!!

My — Gem told me how supportive, nice, thoughtful, caring and generous I was.
He chooses, however, to live with someone who is not. She also hates,disrespects his job, but he brings in a good paycheck so she puts up with it so long as she does not have to work.

How would you know what a Gemini considers to be "the one"—— WTF??

I am coming back in my next life as a nasty backstabbing disloyal bitch - the Gemini guys will all be fighting over me!!!
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
don't laugh MedOb!!

My — Gem told me how supportive, nice, thoughtful, caring and generous I was.
He chooses, however, to live with someone who is not. She also hates,disrespects his job, but he brings in a good paycheck so she puts up with it so long as she does not have to work.

How would you know what a Gemini considers to be "the one"—— WTF??

I am coming back in my next life as a nasty backstabbing disloyal bitch - the Gemini guys will all be fighting over me!!!



haha I'm sorry. I laughed because I thought your comment had some truth. I don't know how someone knows someone is "the one." Do YOU? I don't. If we knew then dating wouldn't be so complicated.

I hope you understand that just because you are a wonderful person it doesn't mean that you are an interest to everyone you meet. But, sensibility isn't always match-ability. Attraction is complex and not merely based on a single or a couple of factors. I don't understand why people date assholes either, but I wouldn't doubt he feels something for this woman that he probably doesn't share with you. Who knows? Love is blind sometimes.

If you want to come back as a nasty backstabbing disloyal bitch, that says a lot about your lack of self confidence. And seems to me that you may have more of an issue with yourself than with Gems. You can find a proportionate number of men from all signs who exhibit similar nasty characteristics. If this is the kind of person you keep associating with then you really have to question your own personal values, not his. Why get all worked up over a jerk? Love yourself and move on.



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Sure, there are a lot of non-wonderful people who ARE married, but the quality of their marriage is probably sub-par. Are you seriously jealous of this?

You need to stop thinking about other people and think more about yourself first. Noone has jurisdiction over someone else so STOP belittling yourself to uncontrollable causes--you're wasting your time. The only person you have power over is you so drop the loser already. Why do you want to be with a conniving asshole anyway? Let's say that he chooses you over the other girl, can you live with the fact that what he does with this girl he could probably do to you as well. So stop being jealous over a freakin' low life who probably doesn't appreciate half the things he does for you and is probably using you for attention.

You didn't do anything wrong and nothing you change about yourself will change anything. Don't deceive yourself of reality, he just doesn't want you the way you want him. At this point, you're allowing yourself to be hurt by allowing someone like him to treat you like that. If you care at all about yourself, leave!