Do you guys lack passion?

or just lack showing it?

i don't lack passion and i'm certainly not afraid showing it. and you?

No need to even ask me that. I see red and I flare up and charge! 😉 No seriously, red is my fav color for a reason. I love, I hate, I feel wholeheartedly. I think it's me being as true to myself as I can be. I want to be real, no, I NEED to be. It's part of self respect. It's part of growth.

I think passion also involves a character that cares for knowledge. So, if I have no passion for something, or I feel indifferent, I may not have applied much interest in the situation, person, whatever...Maybe that's just me. Maybe some people really don't have an opinion or care or passion. Either way, I'm d@mn happy I'm not like that. Life would be so dull.

this sounds really passionate!!!! WOW 🙂

another topic for a song...

Oh, I'm not saying you gems have no passion, just have noticed in a few "twins" I know that they are fun, cute, interesting, but I wonder where their deep seeded passion hides. 🙂

LS, let's get right on it! 🙂

It hides in our hearts... I have a great deal of passion...when im in love (now that I have found it) I have an abundant amount of passion for my children. I love my life my family and my friends 😉 how that...lol

love to you

love, GEG

depends....

Gem*Two

If it depends? what is it based on?

Do you have to be in love, to show your true feelings in general. Where does the passion lay even if you do have an attraction or just like someone?

I certainly dont lack passion, but I do have a very passionate response to such a statement: "Do you (geminis) lack passion", that, coupled with "Do Geminis have feelings".... what questions!? grr.... 😉))

Just another thought - what context are you talking about passion?

Dya mean: passion for life, art, sex, music, family, animals, world events, people—

Also, people are individuals at the end of the day, and I dont think you can equate/guess what someones like based on their starsign - after all, all the other astro-"logical" planets come to bear on personality/psyche...I think 😉)

Message posted by: Cuspy on 5/7/2006 3:02:01 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.80
Just another thought - what context are you talking about passion?

Dya mean: passion for life, art, sex, music, family, animals, world events, people—

Also, people are individuals at the end of the day, and I dont think you can equate/guess what someones like based on their starsign - after all, all the other astro-"logical" planets come to bear on personality/psyche...I think 😉)

I think you have a point!!! people are individuals and we shouldn't place all sign charactistics on just one person...

TG, I guess you may need to clarify on what type of GEM you are talking about? yekkks!

*Where does the passion lay even if you do have an attraction or just like someone?
-usually behind closed doors....

Hi Callmemsram

Thanks for the support :-)Ive just had a look at your profile - youve loads of planets in aries, which is a sign that I get on with as a rule :-).. not that Im reducing you to just your starsign of course 😉

Oh no problem Cuspy! Thanks for the compliment as well.

I try to get along with everyone! Gems are good people, a little fickled I must say!


not that Im reducing you to just your starsign of course 😉

Just kidding! your cute!!!

P.S.youve loads of planets in aries

This is true!! smile

Cuspy, I don't blame you for being frustrated. I would be too.

I think us Gem's are very passionate.. i just think the passion doesn't last too long cuz we get bored and move on to the next stimulant. WHen things trigger that deep passion.. it sticks around and have a hard time dealing with that or we let go and it's sometimes too much for people.. that's me anyway..

agreed with m&m completely =)

Don't you find people really have a hard time with that 3rd person look we do. usually because to them it looks so all of the sudden. like if you are going out with someone.. and inside.. things aren't too right.. out side, they look right.. and we just step back and say.. hmm nope not for me.. and move on.. we get bad bad rap for that.. like we wake up and say.. where am i?? ugh not good.. LOL i hope i'm not the only one that does this.. then i'd sound like an ass for sure... LMAO

I was evolved with a Gem male for a minute. We talked to eachother by e-mail and text mgs for about a month. The conversations where stimulating as well as funny. It seemed he was really happy that I always seem to make him laugh. We finally decided to go out on a date. Right before he got to my house, he called me and asked me was I nervous. I said just a little. Forgot to mention, I had met him on-line and it was he who had sent the first message because he felt we had a lot incommon. Anyway's, when I met him outside, the first thing he had said out of his month was "damn u fine". I knew I looked the same from the pics that he viewed but on another note, let's just say, he had on a few pounds, no some extra pounds from the pics that I had viewed of him. We went out to dinner, and he appeared to be a little nervous himself. I asked was he? and he said yes. During dinner, we talked about our families etc.....Funny thing that happened though, he started to conversative more with the waiter(male) and he actually pulled out his idea to show the waiter that he worked out DC for the federal government. Least to say, it sort of turned me off. After all was said and done, I felt like this distance from him. Quite frankly, I was bored. We went back to my house, and all he wanted to do was watch T.V.(football game) I said ain't this a blemp! The date ended on a quiet tip. We did kiss,and I'll tell ya! NO PASSION AT ALL>>> This date was on New Years day. When he left, he called me about twice within the first week. When we would be on-line together, I would try and start up a convo, but it seemed he was not the same person. All he talked about was his weight, his blood pressure and his border line cholesterol levels. It freaked me out!!WHY? From then on, it remaind the same. Him losing weight and going out of town for his job. Believe it or not, once in a while, he'll text me to see how I'm doing. I don't give him much of answer because, I don't see why. I told him I won't use his number because we are not communicating. He just got back from Texas(he was there on business for 3months) He text me to let me know that he was coming home. WELL? I really like this guy, but for me? If I can't be myself with a person regardless, truthfully its a rap. He's a real cutie even with a few EXTRA pounds but prior to us meeting, I still think he is really a very sweet guy. I think he has some inssecury issues or this is just the typical trait of a GEM male. Speechless! oocha.....

Thanks m&mgem!

I'm sure you are right about this Gem. and me having highter expectations of him. He may as well thought the same of me. Ironically, even though he was athletic like his picture, his weight didn't turn me off. I'm usually not attractive to heavy guys. But like I mentioned, he was really different from the jerks that I have met. In our conversations, I was up front, personal and honest as hell. He admired that with me. I am not sure if it was an impression that I made upon him when he came to visit, but I assure he didn't have to think twice as to whether I was some polished chicken head... I'm still very fond of him but its at a distance. I must tell that I had a tizzy fit because of his suddden transformation and had know problem in telling just what I thought. I told him if he was playing some game, well count me out and consider that I the loser. My positive energy level are way to strong for anything less. I did tell him that maybe my expections of him where high. All I know at this point , I am not the type of person who has to prove herself to any man. I'm not going to bust my brains trying to figure out what makes him tick. I did a little chasing in the beginning but he has caused me to lost the thrill. If he justs wants a platonic friendship, then say so. I don't reads minds or action even if for the good. I need conversation, just plain talk!! I have considered to give him another chance, but will have to come off the mute button and ask can he see me again. If that doesn't happen—? well then!!! I rather deal with a person who is more in tune of what he wants verses someone who only thinks about it. I have a lot of energy and maybe I'm a little to strong minded for the little grasshopper. I'm not against any Gems nor am I against this particular one. If he wants this fiery fly, then he needs to step up to the plate...Tame then claim it!!!!Instead of me trying to make this relationship bloom, I think he has to understand and address my faults as well I have addressed his. He already no's about the 50/50 request? It was both of us who spoke upon it at the door. The only thing I could do is hope for the better.....